What is wrong with some women!

[Alltheshoes74]

Went out for a few cocktails with my husband Saturday evening, we were sat at the bar having a lovely time. I went to the loo and got chatting to some girls in there. Later in the evening they passed us and said hi and stopped for a chat. One was local and one was not - the local girl was mid 30's, single mum. We are older - she could be my husbands daughter! I didn't notice anything odd then as we left it turns out she asked my husband for his number!! What on earth! I mean his ego is now bursting out but we were amazed at the absolute brazenness of it all. Am still horrified that someone would do that - even when i was young and single I'd never dream of doing that.

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What’s your point. She didn’t hear the woman ask for his number, so why’d she hear what he says. What relevance is it that she was sat right there other than to make it unlikely?

really, is this in your imagination then?

Surely being misinformed about onlyfans is better than the alternative? 😁

Brutally OP, the only people who have an obligation to respect the marriage vows you and DH made to each other are you and DH.

Nothing to do with the rest of us. We can merrily request numbers all night long if we want to. It won't matter a bit so long as you and DH stay true to each other.

Social mores try to cultivate deference to a visible partner or wedding band, but don't really succeed, because society at large hasn't made you any promises, and has no responsibility for your marriage.

I believe you OP.
Women can be like this
When I came back from the loo I've had drunk women laugh at my husband for refusing their advance because "he can do so much better than me"

And me 2 months PP definitely not a size 8 21 year old felt so so shit.

Some women like the thrill of being more powerful than other women. I don't know why people are giving you a hard time

Wow, these make an interesting read! To clarify - yes, he's a looker, we'd been out and he was looking pretty fabulous in my opinion ( As was I to be fair) - I am younger than him ( NOT young enough to be his daughter however!) and appreciate that he's a nice guy and if he was single yes he'd be a great prospect. However in my opinion there is no excuse for someone to try and get his number when he is clearly with his wife. He's not a serial cheater, philanderer nor is this a stelth brag more of me expressing my outrange at the blatant disrespect of another woman trying to crack onto someone elses husband right in front of them. I'm a big believer in women sticking together I don't think that's a bad thing

lol. And this is the sort of attitude that we mean when we say "those women"

Tbh OP while I agree in principal coming on to someone else's partner is totally wrong your latest update makes it sound as though you are more outraged because you felt you looked so good you couldn't understand why the woman would think your DH would prefer her. It sounds as though you have taken this as a personal insult to yourself rather than outrage that some women see this as acceptable behaviour. I'm struggling to see the point of the thread because you obviously have no doubts about your partner's faithfulness to you or your own attractiveness.

Duh. Well, he didn't give the number, hasn't stayed in touch with her, not much to write home about. And that's the exact "why" a woman is never a problem! She can ask for his number, give hers, flash boobs, or whatever - if your DH is not that type of a person, he's just not. If he were, he would pretend to go to the loo and get her contact, and you would be writing a very different post then.

Good luck with that belief 🤦‍♀️🤣

I confess I'm at something of a loss to fathom how a working knowledge of 'Only Fans' is likely to enhance or benefit my existence.

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I believe you OP. Centuries ago I was at a bar w/a boyfriend and we met a young man who we talked to and laughed with over some silly thing. When boyfriend went to the bathroom Random Man went after me HARD, asking how long had we been together, was it a committed relationship etc.

When we were leaving Random Man shook boyfriends hand then gave me a quick hug, slipping a scrap of paper w/his phone number on it in my bag on my hip. Creeps are everywhere even today (though I know this wouldn't happen to me today lol am old and fat)

He was so friendly to both of us, boyfriend didn't pick up on it at all.

Loyalty is a valuable commodity in families or to friends, or in upholding particular principles: like the 'one of us, all of us' ideal of unions, for example. These have their place, and allow a certain degree of strength (or at least collective bargaining).

Loyalty to others on the basis of merely sharing XX chromosomes is a bit more difficult to expect or command. Despite what those who romanticise feminism might claim, there's no such thing as a sisterhood.

Yep!

She sees what you have and wants it and is willing to break you up to get it.

She's a -whatever word you are allowed use these days- when I was a teenager we'd probably have called her a skank.

I've had men try chat me up a few times when DH (then bf) was away from the table so they clearly knew I was with a bf. Some people just don't give a cr*p

This is a very weird thread 🤣

OP post a pic of her on FB with the eyes scribbled out and underneath write ‘HE’S MINE NOW YOU WILL PAY’

I believe you. Some women are like that.

It's happened me 3 seperate boyfriend's in the past and they are all just normal men - not drop dead gorgeous.

In hindsight, I wish the women with the first two boyfriend's had been successful!

Your husband's reaction is the most important and it's not very clear why he didn't call it out at the time.

@MsMuffinWalloper read the OP again.

That would make more sense though (the OP not being there at the time)

This happened literally as we were about to leave - he told me as we walked out - largely I suspect to avoid me ( Numerous Margaritas down) giving her a piece of my mind.

Or maybe a picture of her with lock up your husbands on the local FB page 😉

Ha ha MN at its best!!

Real world - cheeky cow for blatantly trying to chat up a married man in front of his wife!
MN world - he must have encouraged her, he’s lying, he gave her his number first, he’s a handyman and she has jobs that need doing, he’s a cheat, he’s a bastard, OP is boasting. I’m sure if we stick around long enough we’ll see people suggesting she may have mental health problems or a hidden disability that makes her unable to not ask for the numbers of married men!

@Mothership4two however much sense it might have made, that isn’t what happened!