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Auriol Grey's manslaughter sentence overturned for killing cyclist. Correct decision?

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Locutus2000 · 08/05/2024 14:17

Reported in multiple outlets - BBC.

Mixed feelings - it was a complex case with no winners on any side.

Auriol Grey

Pedestrian Auriol Grey has Huntingdon cyclist death conviction overturned

A woman whose actions led to the death of a pensioner cycling on a pavement wins a court appeal.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-cambridgeshire-68975335

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TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 12:04

Adeyp · 09/05/2024 12:03

There was clearly a push.

The judge didn't see a push.
You're imagining things to suit your own narrative.

MrTiddlesTheCat · 09/05/2024 12:09

AG is not a victim. She's an extremely lucky woman who has gotten away with killing someone. Celia and Carla and their families are the victims and are suffering a life sentence, dished out by an aggressive AG.

BIossomtoes · 09/05/2024 12:11

MrTiddlesTheCat · 09/05/2024 12:09

AG is not a victim. She's an extremely lucky woman who has gotten away with killing someone. Celia and Carla and their families are the victims and are suffering a life sentence, dished out by an aggressive AG.

This. The number of apologists is unreal.

Rosscameasdoody · 09/05/2024 12:12

tridento · 09/05/2024 10:17

@Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain

Let’s put the shoe on the other foot. Suppose Auriol hadn’t shouted and then raised her hand and Mrs Ward’s bicycle had gone into her, causing presumably injuries. What that be the most acceptable cause of action? Mrs Ward could then have come off her bicycle after going into Auriol.

The fact is, it’s a narrow pathway, Mrs Ward could’ve and should’ve dismounted and walked before getting back on her bicycle. The fact she didn’t do so to me, shows stubbornness and the fact she had priority over a pedestrian.

The fact is that the path was wide enough. The fact is that the lunatic veered towards the cyclist. The cyclist was minding their own business and staying to the side when Auriol launched towards her waving and shouting and flailing. She caused the death of an entirely innocent woman.

She's not an innocent party. She's just not guilty of manslaughter. But she is guilty of causing the death of an innocent victim due to her intentional action

Not terribly nice to refer to someone with obvious mental health and learning difficulties, not to mention partial blindness as ‘the lunatic’ is it ?

Emmaanddan · 09/05/2024 12:16

MrTiddlesTheCat · 09/05/2024 12:09

AG is not a victim. She's an extremely lucky woman who has gotten away with killing someone. Celia and Carla and their families are the victims and are suffering a life sentence, dished out by an aggressive AG.

This.

The fact of the matter is that if AG had not comes across Celia that day and behaved the way she did as though she owned the pavement. Celia would not have lost her life in such a horrific way.

AG might have got away with this, but her aggressive actions caused a death.

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:16

BIossomtoes · 09/05/2024 12:11

This. The number of apologists is unreal.

I’m convinced it’s because they feel protective over the fact AG is an older woman, has some form of disability and struggles socially. It seems to be the profile of many on here to be fair so I’m not surprised. The comments would be wildly different had she been a man shouting abuse before seemingly knocking or forcing an elderly female cyclist into the road where she was run over and killed.

Butchyrestingface · 09/05/2024 12:17

TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 12:04

The judge didn't see a push.
You're imagining things to suit your own narrative.

And clearly didn’t read the judgement. Even prosecution have accepted there was no evidence of a push and didn’t try to argue against the appeal on those grounds.

Butchyrestingface · 09/05/2024 12:18

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:16

I’m convinced it’s because they feel protective over the fact AG is an older woman, has some form of disability and struggles socially. It seems to be the profile of many on here to be fair so I’m not surprised. The comments would be wildly different had she been a man shouting abuse before seemingly knocking or forcing an elderly female cyclist into the road where she was run over and killed.

Edited

An older woman???

She was 46 when the incident occurred! 🤯

Emmaanddan · 09/05/2024 12:18

@Welovecrumpets agree. Mumsnet is full of antisocial intolerant people who hate everyone and fit the profile of AG.

OneTC · 09/05/2024 12:19

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:16

I’m convinced it’s because they feel protective over the fact AG is an older woman, has some form of disability and struggles socially. It seems to be the profile of many on here to be fair so I’m not surprised. The comments would be wildly different had she been a man shouting abuse before seemingly knocking or forcing an elderly female cyclist into the road where she was run over and killed.

Edited

It's because: cyclist

Seriously.

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:20

Butchyrestingface · 09/05/2024 12:18

An older woman???

She was 46 when the incident occurred! 🤯

That’s why I said older; not old. 46 is probably the median age on here

TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 12:20

The fact of the matter is that if AG had not comes across Celia that day and behaved the way she did as though she owned the pavement.........

The irony.
Pavements are for pedestrians, not cyclists.

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:20

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BIossomtoes · 09/05/2024 12:21

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:16

I’m convinced it’s because they feel protective over the fact AG is an older woman, has some form of disability and struggles socially. It seems to be the profile of many on here to be fair so I’m not surprised. The comments would be wildly different had she been a man shouting abuse before seemingly knocking or forcing an elderly female cyclist into the road where she was run over and killed.

Edited

Seems likely. Added to which MN is incredibly ageist and seems to see a 77 year old woman as expendable.

WolfFoxHare · 09/05/2024 12:21

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 08/05/2024 21:42

It was something I read at the time. It's also irrelevant now because her behaviour did cause the death of Celia Ward, trauma to Celia Wards family and as well as the Driver of the car, her family and the breakdown of her marriage. Auriol should be required to have supervision when outside of the house.

"Something you read at the time", huh? Good job we don't make laws on that basis.

Butchyrestingface · 09/05/2024 12:22

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:20

That’s why I said older; not old. 46 is probably the median age on here

I still 😬 at the idea of anyone older than 14 referring to a 46 year old as “older woman”.

Now I’m thinking the median age on here must be really young. 😅

Alexandra2001 · 09/05/2024 12:22

Rosscameasdoody · 09/05/2024 12:12

Not terribly nice to refer to someone with obvious mental health and learning difficulties, not to mention partial blindness as ‘the lunatic’ is it ?

She acted like one, It shouldn't be normal to shout and scream at someone on a path is it?

If she has such impairments, should she be allowed out on her own? for her safety and for everyone else's.

I wonder if AGs many fans would be so keen on her if she 'd forced a young child on bicycle in to the road? or would we get "the little bastard deserved it, shouldn't be on the shared path"

Maybe it wouldn't matter, seems any cyclist is fair game on MN.

Emmaanddan · 09/05/2024 12:22

TheShellBeach · 09/05/2024 12:20

The fact of the matter is that if AG had not comes across Celia that day and behaved the way she did as though she owned the pavement.........

The irony.
Pavements are for pedestrians, not cyclists.

It's been now proven that it was a shared space and there is now signage. Even IF Celia was using the pavement incorrectly. She did not deserve to be killed.

Britain is becoming more cycle friendly so get used to it.

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 09/05/2024 12:23

Pedestrians always cross at formal crossings, don't they? Show me a city or town where some pedestrians don't recklessly weave in and out of busy traffic to cross roads. It doesn't meant that all pedestrians do that. Some do, some don't.

What other cyclists do or do not do or where is irrelevant. What matters is that someone, who happened to be on a bike, was killed as a direct result of another person's actions. It wasn't an unavoidable accident. There is fault and there is blame but they are not Mrs Ward's. AG shares the blame along with her parents and any other teams involved in the care which failed her. This behavior/risk did not just manifest overnight.

Foggyfield · 09/05/2024 12:24

She hasn't done anything against the law. Apparently.

So it is my opinion that the law should change.

If you cause someone's death by behaving aggressively, anti-socially or erratically then you should be punished.

OneTC · 09/05/2024 12:25

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 09/05/2024 12:23

Pedestrians always cross at formal crossings, don't they? Show me a city or town where some pedestrians don't recklessly weave in and out of busy traffic to cross roads. It doesn't meant that all pedestrians do that. Some do, some don't.

What other cyclists do or do not do or where is irrelevant. What matters is that someone, who happened to be on a bike, was killed as a direct result of another person's actions. It wasn't an unavoidable accident. There is fault and there is blame but they are not Mrs Ward's. AG shares the blame along with her parents and any other teams involved in the care which failed her. This behavior/risk did not just manifest overnight.

Pedestrians can cross where they want?

Welovecrumpets · 09/05/2024 12:25

BIossomtoes · 09/05/2024 12:21

Seems likely. Added to which MN is incredibly ageist and seems to see a 77 year old woman as expendable.

Somebody ‘accused’ us of fixating on the ‘death of an old woman’ rather than rushing to defend AG and her ‘needs’ some pages back. Shocking.

Trolleysaregoodforemployment · 09/05/2024 12:27

WolfFoxHare · 09/05/2024 12:21

"Something you read at the time", huh? Good job we don't make laws on that basis.

You mean the same law that worked really well for all parties in this case? You really think it would make a difference? Parents know whether their children can have violent/angry outbursts if they have had additional needs from birth.

SwimmingSnake · 09/05/2024 12:28

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