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To ask you to just READ THE FUCKING THREAD before posting your wisdom?

178 replies

OldHabitsDieScreaming · 08/05/2024 10:52

Or at least, for the love of sweet baby Jesus and all his chickens, read the OP's posts?

Especially if it's a long thread which may, you know, have moved on a little since the first post?

If you're so lazy and unengaged that you can't be arsed to check whether the OP of eg: a 200+ post thread in Relationships has added anything or updated their situation, why not just consider scrolling on by?

Cheers.

OP posts:
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5YearsLeft · 08/05/2024 14:43

@Snugglemonkey

Edited to say, I’m sorry yours looks different. I’m trying to help troubleshoot. Are you on Android? I’m on Apple. Here’s the app right now and it has these options. See photos. First photo. Second photo: filter. Third photo: what happens after you press filter.

edited again, sorry. Can you make sure you don’t need to update the app?

To ask you to just READ THE FUCKING THREAD before posting your wisdom?
To ask you to just READ THE FUCKING THREAD before posting your wisdom?
To ask you to just READ THE FUCKING THREAD before posting your wisdom?
OldHabitsDieScreaming · 08/05/2024 14:46

Allfur · 08/05/2024 14:43

I don't like being sworn at by anyone, however close our beliefs

It's cute how you've taken it all so personally.

Chill out, maybe? 😘

OP posts:
Bramshott · 08/05/2024 14:50

5YearsLeft · 08/05/2024 14:43

@Snugglemonkey

Edited to say, I’m sorry yours looks different. I’m trying to help troubleshoot. Are you on Android? I’m on Apple. Here’s the app right now and it has these options. See photos. First photo. Second photo: filter. Third photo: what happens after you press filter.

edited again, sorry. Can you make sure you don’t need to update the app?

Edited

I think on the Android app you can't filter by OPs posts - that's definitely my experience. You can't quote posts either.

coxesorangepippin · 08/05/2024 14:51

I don't have time to rtft

Saw wee

5YearsLeft · 08/05/2024 14:56

@Bramshott Thanks so much! I was about to ask for feedback if anyone else on the thread had the Android app so I could help @Snugglemonkey . If this is true, it kind of changes this entire thread. I mean, if EVERYONE who has the Android app can’t actually filter by OP posts, what are they supposed to do? I use the mobile website because I like it, but people should have the choice of the same functionality on their apps. Here, I can make all the OP posts green, it’s a breeze to scan a thread for them, but I don’t even have to because of the “see all” button. That’s awful about the Android app, and so ridiculous.

Allfur · 08/05/2024 15:00

OldHabitsDieScreaming · 08/05/2024 14:46

It's cute how you've taken it all so personally.

Chill out, maybe? 😘

I'm aware its far from personal, you're just shouting and swearing at anyone, sorry you feel so angry n shit

Snugglemonkey · 08/05/2024 15:01

@5YearsLeft I appreciate that you are trying to help, thanks. I just don't think it is possible. It is annoying.

EatCrow · 08/05/2024 15:06

Allfur · 08/05/2024 14:43

I don't like being sworn at by anyone, however close our beliefs

That’s ok, we don’t have to agree.

Allfur · 08/05/2024 15:09

EatCrow · 08/05/2024 15:06

That’s ok, we don’t have to agree.

I know, it's great we can disagree without swearing!

Atethehalloweenchocs · 08/05/2024 15:56

I dont have as much of an issue with not reading the entire thread, but the people who have not read the OP properly or the updates do my head in.

Littlestminnow · 08/05/2024 16:11

Delia123 · 08/05/2024 11:20

Tell me more about the chickens.

Holy hens.

StaunchMomma · 08/05/2024 16:31

Doesn't bother me. Some people might be having a flick through Trending on on a work break or something and not have time.

Best to just ignore the comments.

StaunchMomma · 08/05/2024 16:32

PS - I purposefully didn't RTFT before posting.

It just felt apt.

Allfur · 08/05/2024 16:42

StaunchMomma · 08/05/2024 16:32

PS - I purposefully didn't RTFT before posting.

It just felt apt.

What, not even the updates?!😮

StaunchMomma · 08/05/2024 16:44

Allfur · 08/05/2024 16:42

What, not even the updates?!😮

Especially the updates.

It's just how rebellious biatches roll.

crockofshite · 08/05/2024 17:02

OldHabitsDieScreaming · 08/05/2024 10:52

Or at least, for the love of sweet baby Jesus and all his chickens, read the OP's posts?

Especially if it's a long thread which may, you know, have moved on a little since the first post?

If you're so lazy and unengaged that you can't be arsed to check whether the OP of eg: a 200+ post thread in Relationships has added anything or updated their situation, why not just consider scrolling on by?

Cheers.

I had no idea jesus kept chickens. Did they live with the wee donkey?

PuppyMonkey · 08/05/2024 17:03

Soukmyfalafel · 08/05/2024 14:10

So you want me to read through hundreds of posts just to please you do you? You might have hours to do that, but I don't. I can barely read through some OP's they are so long.

Have you never considered that if a thread is already hundreds of posts long and you just haven’t got the time to read all the replies because of your super busy schedule..maybe your point has already been made so you actually don’t need to go to the trouble of composing a reply? And that will save you loads and loads of time.

Cherryon · 08/05/2024 17:06

I know you are right OP, but there are some exceptional threads where you don’t need to read the entire thread or even all the OP posts to know what to say or how to vote; this thread is one of those exceptions.

LadyMonicaBaddingham · 08/05/2024 17:07

AnnieBuddyHere · 08/05/2024 11:25

Chicken tikka messiah 😂

I stopped reading here 😂 This thread is won 🏆

5YearsLeft · 08/05/2024 17:10

@Snugglemonkey I’m sorry as that’s incredibly annoying!

@MNHQ Is there any plan to change the Android app in the future so that a user can just view OP’s posts? Seems like a huge oversight that we can do it in the iPhone app and the Android app users can’t. People have been talking about this on the Android app since 2022, when I looked back in history.

ohfook · 08/05/2024 17:12

It's a thing now! I was listening to a podcast the other day about how fake news spreads and this woman's job was to sort of track it.

She said when people share news stories etc on Twitter or comment and like them, 80% of the time they haven't even clicked on the article. They've read the headline and thought they know everything they need to about it. Hence why really inflammatory headlines spread so fast. Basically people don't want to engage with something anymore - only voice their opinion or have their opinion validated.

There was an awful story in the daily mail the other day about a boy in the US abused and killed by his father. A very very cursory browse told me that mum had done everything in her power to keep the child away from dad but had ultimately been told that if she continued he would be awarded full custody. I'd say about 50% of the comments were people blaming the mum - asking where she was in the scenario, why didn't she protect him etc. it was literally explained in the first paragraph!

ohfook · 08/05/2024 17:13

Although I don't actually read the full thread if it's long, I just read the op's posts before commenting.

SnakesAndArrows · 08/05/2024 17:17

vodkaredbullgirl · 08/05/2024 11:45

Reminds me I need to get some chicken out for tonight.

Oh goodness so do I. It’s a bit late now😫

CelesteCunningham · 08/05/2024 17:22

IT WAS THE FRUBE!

CelesteCunningham · 08/05/2024 17:23

coxesorangepippin · 08/05/2024 14:51

I don't have time to rtft

Saw wee

Ok, but many many people are going to think you're a gobshite if you post after three days and 500 posts thinking you have something new to add based on the OP alone.