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ClareBlue · 29/04/2024 09:57

@123anotherday yes, I do think there is a danger of people feeling helpless and powerless and moving to support more extreme policies that they wouldn't naturally support. One of the big questions for progressive liberals around migration is how they reconcile the integration of fundamental religious beliefs that are so out of alignment with western social policies in our societies. Their answer so far is to enable communities that can hold these beliefs to operate separately within our society. Again, reference is made to Denmark who have very much recognised the problems this can cause for all concerned.

Underthinker · 29/04/2024 09:58

There are a small number of extremists in any religion who would like to see their countries run more in accordance with their religious beliefs.

It's not unreasonable to highlight incidents of this.

But also we should keep it in proportion. 1100 people at a protest doesn't mean 1100 people agreeing with the most inflammatory sign there.

zoom1982 · 29/04/2024 09:59

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 09:40

This is exactly the conversation the OP and posters like you want to have.

Regardless of facts. And regardless of how it makes Muslims (and anyone non- White British) feel.

You are being racists, general default position with no evidence.
The evidence is jumping on a thread about a small protest in another country to extrapolate to how Europe is at risk of becoming a caliphate and WW3 will start as a result. Including a bunch of conspiracy theories for good measure.

I don't know why MNHQ are leaving this up, the thread is appalling imo.

You want a thread deleted because it offends your opinions? You want to shut down any discussion that doesn't 100% align with your political ideals? There's a name for that...

MsLuxLisbon · 29/04/2024 09:59

YANBU. It's funny that this place is so clear sighted when it comes to TRAs crying transphobia in order to shut down women's legitimate concerns, but is happy to cry Islamaphobia in order to do the same thing. MIMS.

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:00

EasternStandard · 29/04/2024 09:55

Not just Fox then.

Thanks for searching for the links

Have you actually read them? The tone is very different.

This protest was by a small group, with links to extremists. Germany is considering banning them. The march had a large police presence and if the marchers had broken the law they would have been arrested. There were no arrests.

How you get from that to "I'm petrified of an Islamic Caliphate in Europe" is beyond me.

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:01

zoom1982 · 29/04/2024 09:59

You want a thread deleted because it offends your opinions? You want to shut down any discussion that doesn't 100% align with your political ideals? There's a name for that...

I want it deleted because its full of anti-Muslim statements that I find extremely offensive. I'm not MNHQ though, if they don't think its breaking talk guidelines up to them.

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:02

MsLuxLisbon · 29/04/2024 09:59

YANBU. It's funny that this place is so clear sighted when it comes to TRAs crying transphobia in order to shut down women's legitimate concerns, but is happy to cry Islamaphobia in order to do the same thing. MIMS.

The difference being "legitimate concerns"

zoom1982 · 29/04/2024 10:05

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:01

I want it deleted because its full of anti-Muslim statements that I find extremely offensive. I'm not MNHQ though, if they don't think its breaking talk guidelines up to them.

No,it's full of anti Muslim extremist statements there's a huge difference.

Primroseoil · 29/04/2024 10:06

Lottie2shoes · 29/04/2024 09:32

As a Muslim, I did wonder whether to write a post or not as I know I will get flamed etc.
But just wanted to put out there another opinion as I've read alot on this thread about separation and how all Muslims want caliphate etc.
The majority of Muslims I know, including my family just want to live normal peaceful lives. Being able to follow our faith but not affect anyone else.

I pray in my own home, eat halal food etc, wear a hijab but I would never expect others whether they are Muslim or not to do the same. All the Muslims I know are also like this.
I funnily enough, also like interactions with non Muslims and chat on a weekly if not daily basis with people of all different faiths. I have no problems with them.
But as a Muslim, when I hear people talk of no go areas, the whole rhetoric of separate lives and how Muslims wish to take over the world.... people then coming on and saying islamophobic stuff, it does make me be wary of talking to new people wondering if the majority of people feel the same. Then it's a catch 22 because then I do stick to the people I know (ie people similar to me) which probably creates the no go areasÛ”

People hearing about the other "sides" hatred with inflammatory posts like we are scared of the Muslims and they all "West " hating people etcÛ” (and vice versa)
This is actually what had divided us and separated us and then we hear all about the segregation, not realising our actions have caused that.
I grew up with Muslims and non Muslims and never had any issues at all. They were respectful of us, just as we were respectful of their values. Its just this last 10/20 years or so, its become more of an issue.

Thanks so much for your post lottie X It's really important that you speak on here too, like every single religion all have their extremists Xx

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zoom1982 · 29/04/2024 10:08

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:01

I want it deleted because its full of anti-Muslim statements that I find extremely offensive. I'm not MNHQ though, if they don't think its breaking talk guidelines up to them.

I actually live in the ME in a Muslim country and believe me,they don't want these extremists here either because they're damaging to Islam and extremely damaging to the way of life and the tolerance that exists here for ALL religions.

CranfordScones · 29/04/2024 10:09

Of course it won't ever happen.

What recent example is there of a group of fanatical Islamists seizing power and oppressing or killing anyone who doesn't conform to their punitive diktats? Apart from Iran, obviously. And Afghanistan, but that doesn't count for some reason, and it's a long way away so it doesn't matter. For those reasons, progressive liberal politicians are absolved of their shameless silence and inaction about all the girls denied an education and the freedoms we claim for ourselves and our own daughters.

MsLuxLisbon · 29/04/2024 10:10

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:02

The difference being "legitimate concerns"

The danger from extreme Islam is at least as great as that from the trans lobby. I'm also not white, by the way.

DifficultBloodyWoman · 29/04/2024 10:12

AdamRyan · 29/04/2024 10:01

I want it deleted because its full of anti-Muslim statements that I find extremely offensive. I'm not MNHQ though, if they don't think its breaking talk guidelines up to them.

Really? I thought you wanted it deleted because you were losing the argument.

Personally, I hope it stays up. I consider myself a liberal. We should live and let live. Be tolerant. Of everything except intolerance.

I’m in favour of free speech whether on Mumsnet or at a march. I think the sunlight on issues is important.

DifficultBloodyWoman · 29/04/2024 10:13

CranfordScones · 29/04/2024 10:09

Of course it won't ever happen.

What recent example is there of a group of fanatical Islamists seizing power and oppressing or killing anyone who doesn't conform to their punitive diktats? Apart from Iran, obviously. And Afghanistan, but that doesn't count for some reason, and it's a long way away so it doesn't matter. For those reasons, progressive liberal politicians are absolved of their shameless silence and inaction about all the girls denied an education and the freedoms we claim for ourselves and our own daughters.

Also Syria. And Egypt. And Nigeria. And…

Jk8 · 29/04/2024 10:14

Primroseoil · 29/04/2024 08:51

https://www.telegraph.co.uk/world-news/2024/04/28/protesters-call-for-islamic-state-in-germany/

For all you being disparaging about Fox news, the telegraph have also reported on it as well as many other media outlets.

But their calling for because Germany doesn't have one..... terrorism in Germany is extremely low compared to most of Europe & extremism is viewed very poorly because of the Nazism hence why when it happens it's such a shock (christmas market attack/the Olympics ect.)

Germany is an extremely passive country for the most part with a 'history' of extreme backlash (ww1 & ww2) not a highly aggressive you-do-you lets see where it goes sort of place

They want a terrorist group because they dont have one

EasternStandard · 29/04/2024 10:17

DifficultBloodyWoman · 29/04/2024 10:12

Really? I thought you wanted it deleted because you were losing the argument.

Personally, I hope it stays up. I consider myself a liberal. We should live and let live. Be tolerant. Of everything except intolerance.

I’m in favour of free speech whether on Mumsnet or at a march. I think the sunlight on issues is important.

Agree re deletion, not doing it that is. Let the op say how they feel and people respond.

Lemoncakeandcoffee · 29/04/2024 10:20

zoom1982 · 29/04/2024 10:08

I actually live in the ME in a Muslim country and believe me,they don't want these extremists here either because they're damaging to Islam and extremely damaging to the way of life and the tolerance that exists here for ALL religions.

Tolerance for all religions in the Middle East, really?https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/59786a0040f0b65dcb00000a/042-Persecution-of-Christians-in-the-Middle-East.pdf

https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/media/59786a0040f0b65dcb00000a/042-Persecution-of-Christians-in-the-Middle-East.pdf

Namechange666 · 29/04/2024 10:21

Extremists of any kind are bad news. They have their own mentality and no one will change that.

Hélène79 · 29/04/2024 10:23

@AdamRyan I actually agree there's a couple of pretty awful anti-Muslim statements on here that need deleting. (There's also some very balanced discussion). But I do find it interesting that this can be called out when some of the same people will quite happily talk over Jews on other threads, lecturing to them what is and isn't antisemitism, while completely ignoring the more blatant Jew-bashing on those threads from other posters. Either call it all out, or don't call it out at all.

@Lottie2shoes Thanks for your detailed and considered post. I found your perspective interesting, especially about the stress it causes seeing people talk about Muslims wanting to take over the world. As someone Jewish, this is so similar to what we deal with, because apparently Jews (often coded as Zionists and globalists) want to control the media and also take over the world. We have so much in common, and it's such a shame a lot of the division is actually caused by non-Muslims/non-Jews.

AnxiousRabbit · 29/04/2024 10:23

I am scared of fox news too

Primroseoil · 29/04/2024 10:24

DifficultBloodyWoman · 29/04/2024 09:54

The point I am making is that a very small group can have a very big impact on a society. Disproportionately so.

Although, I’d should also like to point out that few people thought the Nazis would come to power. They were initially dismissed as a small band of nutters with a fascist bent. (Yes, socialist in name and fascist in nature. A surprisingly common theme in politics).

And it can happen. The British birthrate has declined rapidly, the Muslim birthrate & the birthrates of other groups is also high so I'm years to come who knows.
This is a fact before anyone jumps down my throat, the British birth rate has radically declined.. British women are waiting until much later to have kids, due to cost of living or choice may only have one max 2 etc.. It's a lifestyle choice in a way. Abortions are widely avaliable & are socially acceptable in our society. So many factors...

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AllesAusLiebe · 29/04/2024 10:27

This isn't the first instance of extremists calling for a caliphate to be established in Germany. There have been others in the Ruhr area that actually had higher attendance than this one, however, I don't think they captured the attention of the global media in the same way.

The real issue is the useless Interior Minister and that whole department who have proven themselves utterly incapable of managing this relatively minor threat from a handful of fanatics who have been emboldened by the war in the Middle East.

Gettingonmygoat · 29/04/2024 10:37

Booksoverbros YANBU too many refuse to see what is happening because their lives are not affected, yet. One day their lives will be changed and the middle class will demand change but it will be far too late.

KarmaCaramello · 29/04/2024 10:41

ClareBlue · 29/04/2024 08:41

All those saying this is never going to happen and just glibly mock someone for watching Sky news obviously don't live in areas of West Yorkshire or Birmingham or London where who areas of the education system and community have already been completely separated. Whole areas of Berlin are already separated from traditional Christian German culture, if you are actually interested in the facts and not just making fun of someone. If you think Islamic cultural norms align with western values, particularly around women, you are wrong. The OP might have been a bit over the top with the words, but just dismissing them with sneary remarks about the news source is pathetic.
But of course middle class families can call out these views because they don't live in these disconnected areas or educate their children in the schools and keep saying their progressive Liberal views, whilst moving to nice areas with traditional schooling and western values. At least it makes them feel good about themselves.

Luxury beliefs. Just like those who house female prisoners with violent men because it doesn’t affect them.

Lottie2shoes · 29/04/2024 10:41

I think common sense is needed, personally.
Looking at some of these posts... I mean islamophobia and the whole taking over the world etc. Do they know how many Muslims live in this world? Is it not fact that the majority of Muslims are just living their lives as normal, with a house and the 2. 4 kids etc? Imagine if all these Muslims tried to do all these things that people are assuming they want to do.
I mean, just a snapshot of the area I live in, Muhammed down the road is working hard to provide for his family whereas Fatima is looking after the kids at home.
( I know I'm being stereotypical here, but I'm just showing that your typical muslim is not really looking to take over the world in real life).
Same as Jews, Christians, hindus etc. Day to day life, they are dealing with small world problems such as, does this outfit make me look fat? The kids are misbehaving again, shall I cut their device time or make them sit in the naughty corner?
I am not saying there aren't extremists. There are in every race, religion, city etc.
But we cannot tar with the same brush.
Another example being, what is happening in Palestine. It would be pretty stupid of me to just grab a jew on the street and start berating them.
Because I do not know how he or she actually feels about them.
Please do not let the scaremongering divide us further with a he said, she said.
We need as much peace and love in this world. It is already scary for everyone out there as it is