I have friends I won't discuss this with because they are from the same background and demographic as me, but think their views about "the real state of the country" are better informed than mine because they "don't rely on MSM and seek out a range of views".
I find it impossible to discuss because it just comes across as ill informed prejudice.
Hopefully that's not what you are doing OP. I assume you aren't from a white, mc background.