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Would you make a complaint about these paramedics?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 10:30

I went to my GP the other day as I kept fainting when coughing. The GP said my HR was sky high. Then I coughed and fainted in front of the GP. Afterwards I couldn't move my legs properly. She phoned the hospital who said I need an ambulance. The GP got someone to get me in a wheelchair and take me to the nurse's room where I was put on a bed in a cubicle.

Anyway a few minutes later the ambulance crew turn up (3 of them). They did an ECG - ok but tachycardic. I said my legs were feeling ok by then. They did a lying and standing BP and checked I could feel both sides of my face, could hold both arms up, checked pupils etc. So they say they need to take me to hospital. They start heading off and so I follow them on foot. They're all walking ahead of me, chatting away, not one seeing if I'm ok. So consequently we get into the car park - I have a coughing fit and next thing I know I'm waking up on the car park floor.

I can't stop thinking about it. Were they at fault? Should they have used a wheelchair or at least someone walked with me? At the hospital they wouldn't even let me go to my scans etc in a wheelchair, I had to be taken in my bed. So if GP and nurse wouldn't let me walk was it right that the paramedics did?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:37

Concannon88 · 16/04/2024 11:59

Ditto. They put their arms under my arms and walked very slowly out to the street in my pyjamas whilst I felt like dying.

That's the thing thinking back I don't understand why they didn't at least do that knowing I was liable to faint. And yeah, I thought I was going to die.

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Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 12:38

Not all ambulance workers are paramedics. Most are ambulance crew which is a far lower level of training. Just FYI.

they may not even be being paid (SJA volunteers).

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:40

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 12:15

Absolutely ridiculous and a report should be made. The coughing and collapsing should have led to an extra awareness if risk of spontaneous collapse while walking she should have been in a wheelchair or stretcher. Incredibly unprofessional and risky. They should be reported so that training can be offered and the stats are correct.

Despite the PP who excuse this its piss poor treatment. If an ambulance is called the goal us to get the person safely to the hospital not to spare the EMTs work.

This is what I'm thinking. More training is needed surely?

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WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:41

Thickandquick · 16/04/2024 12:18

How do you know it took them a while if you were unconscious?

Because I had come round before they noticed.

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BabySnarkDoDoo · 16/04/2024 12:42

I would raise with PALS. If there was a wheelchair to hand I'm not sure why they wouldn't have used it. It's not about getting the ambulance crew into trouble, but it sounds like they could use a reminder about not taking unnecessary risks when transporting patients. Next time the head injury could be much worse for someone.

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 12:42

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 12:38

Not all ambulance workers are paramedics. Most are ambulance crew which is a far lower level of training. Just FYI.

they may not even be being paid (SJA volunteers).

Edited

Is that some kind of excuse?

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:44

FuckOffTom · 16/04/2024 12:18

I’m sorry you’ve been unwell and hope you feel better soon.

However, you’ve just said that you were fainting frequently after coughing fits that were brought on by moving and you made the decision to walk out to the ambulance with them. You could have asked for help getting out there. Were they even aware you were following or did they expect you to wait where you were for them to come back?

I am not saying that there is NO fault on the part of the paramedics but you should really take some responsibility for this.

I was too unwell to be making any kind of decision. (I'd actually had a brain bleed). They were aware I was following. Whether they expected me to wait I don't know and can't really say what was said to me as I was so unwell.

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Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 12:44

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 12:42

Is that some kind of excuse?

No. But not everyone is a paramedic. They’re registered professionals but not everyone on an ambulance is, a
so there are different codes of conduct.

Not saying this was good care but the OP may have made several assumptions.

WillimNot · 16/04/2024 12:47

We are going to enter "dare not question NHS workers" territory @WatermelonWaveclub

However, yes, they were clearly negligent here.

They had been told you were fainting, that you had experienced numbness on regaining consciousness, you were tachy. Yes, you should have been watched, they aren't there to chat they're there to provide care and in this case fell short.

I would report it. You could've injured yourself falling on concrete, you're lucky not to have sustained a head injury or broken bone. I would wonder how long it took them to notice you had lost consciousness again, so would ask to see CCTV from the car park.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:48

wplaf · 16/04/2024 12:31

Disgraceful - they definitely need to understand that they shouldn’t do this again.

Fine to have you walk to the ambulance, based on their observations - if they were going to walk next to you, making sure you were ok. But they put their backs to you, ignored you and you fainted and fell.

i cannot believe that anyone thinks this is ok. It’s plain fucking stupid. I wonder if people realise what can happen when someone falls down - how bout hitting head on a rock/hard surface, having a haemorrhage and dying. Stupid risk to take. People are so lacking in common sense - paramedics and posters on here.

I do find it hard to understand. Why risk a patient falling? Can anyone tell me why they think they made me walk? I honestly, don't get it.

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Wavywoo · 16/04/2024 12:49

I think I would conplain in the spirit of constructive criticism. I expect their Trust would want to ensure training for similar circumstances is up to date, as this is exactly the sort of situation that does lead to them being sued.

You fell and bumped your head whilst under their care, that is not optimum care and should be addressed, as the outcome could gave been much worse, both from the perspective of your health, and from the perspective of their legal liability.

I hope you're feeling better, sounds like you've been really poorly.

mumda · 16/04/2024 12:49

As they couldn't guarantee you not coughing a chair would have seemed sensible.

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:50

BeanThereDoneIt · 16/04/2024 12:33

I’m so baffled by some of these responses. Of course one of them should have been with you as an absolute bare minimum. How bizarre to think that they assessed you as needing an ambulance but because your legs felt fine they’re ok to go off ahead and leave you walking alone.

And the comments about how nothing will come from a complaint are baffling too. I don’t think you’re expecting financial compensation here, right? What will (hopefully) come from a complaint is a review of procedures and possible staff training, which would be an excellent outcome. I think if you have the energy to make the complaint, do it, for the sake of future service users.

Not looking for compensation, no. Just wanting it not to happen to anyone else. It was the last thing I needed when so unwell.

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easylikeasundaymorn · 16/04/2024 12:50

I used to work in health complaints and would raise it. Everyone acts as if complaint = expectation of public flogging and abject apologies but they are often welcomed as one of the best ways of learning. Nobody learns from things that went perfectly!

It doesn't have to be aggressive or accusative, just send an email setting out the facts, say you're not making any sort of liability claim just wanted to highlight it to consider if anything should have been done differently to learn for next time. If they did anything particularly good you could highlight that at the same time.

Tbh I'm impressed you got an ambulance within a few minutes!

DragonGypsyDoris · 16/04/2024 12:52

What would a complaint achieve? It wouldn't guarantee better future care for other patients, because every case is treated on what they see at the time. You can't blame them for what happened.

FiveShelties · 16/04/2024 12:53

Did they make you walk, or did you just follow them? I don't understand why one if them didn't stay with you, but I would not have followed them, especially if I thought I might fall.

I hope you are OK.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 16/04/2024 12:54

Concannon88 · 16/04/2024 11:37

I've asked my mate who is a paramedic and no, they shouldn't have let you walk and they shouldn't have walked ahead, if they wanted to let you walk they should have had to people either side of you.

As a nurse (in a former life and a different century), I agree completely with this.

Whilst there was nothing wrong in the paramedics expecting @WatermelonWaveclub to walk to the ambulance, they should have walked with her, rather than ahead of her. Basic common sense.

In your shoes, OP, I would complain because what happened shows they need a reminder that they should be escorting the patient to the ambulance. And if they were heading off to get the chair or trolley to wheel you, they clearly didn't communicate that to you properly.

Baconking · 16/04/2024 12:54

DragonGypsyDoris · 16/04/2024 12:52

What would a complaint achieve? It wouldn't guarantee better future care for other patients, because every case is treated on what they see at the time. You can't blame them for what happened.

Maybe not guaranteed better future care but surely some training based on this scenario will mean they will likely be over cautious rather than under cautious in the future to avoid a worse outcome

WatermelonWaveclub · 16/04/2024 12:55

CharlotteBog · 16/04/2024 12:34

Perhaps they didn't realise you'd got up and followed them. Maybe they were returning to the vehicle to pack their stuff away intending to return for you.

Why did you get up if you were feeling so unwell? Did they give you the impression they wanted you to walk behind them?
It's unlikely they would have left you there.

I agree, someone should have been keeping an eye on you, or explaining thing and I suppose if you had further injured yourself under their care then they would have had to explain how it happened.

I think it would be reasonable to let them know what happened and how you felt.

I was extremely unwell and not thinking straight so just followed them. I obviously got the impression I was to follow but can't say what was said or they definitely wanted me to follow. But I do remember one held the door open out of the nurse's clinic so they knew I was there. Noone stopped me following.

I keep thinking did they think I was making it up how unwell I was?

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JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 12:56

pikkumyy77 · 16/04/2024 12:42

Is that some kind of excuse?

Shouldn't be an excuse and it's also not true, it's not a "far lower level of training"- a technician is the grade just below paramedic. There will always be either a paramedic or a technician on the crew.

Infectiousdisease · 16/04/2024 12:56

DragonGypsyDoris · 16/04/2024 12:52

What would a complaint achieve? It wouldn't guarantee better future care for other patients, because every case is treated on what they see at the time. You can't blame them for what happened.

Dear God what a bizarre attitude!!

OP I would definitely bring it to the attention of PALS, for future patient safety.

Really hope you're ok, that sounds horrible.

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 12:57

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 12:44

No. But not everyone is a paramedic. They’re registered professionals but not everyone on an ambulance is, a
so there are different codes of conduct.

Not saying this was good care but the OP may have made several assumptions.

There is absolutely not a different code of conduct between registrants and non registrants.

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 12:57

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 12:56

Shouldn't be an excuse and it's also not true, it's not a "far lower level of training"- a technician is the grade just below paramedic. There will always be either a paramedic or a technician on the crew.

Absolutely not true. You can have 2x Ambulance Crew with no EMT or paramedic on board. And it’s more likely now they’re using SJA as the ambulance auxiliary in England.

Itsaloadofbollocksbut · 16/04/2024 12:58

JuvenileBigfoot · 16/04/2024 12:57

There is absolutely not a different code of conduct between registrants and non registrants.

A non-registrant can’t be struck off or suspended by their professional body though.

AnotherVice · 16/04/2024 13:01

@WatermelonWaveclub I do find it hard to understand. Why risk a patient falling? Can anyone tell me why they think they made me walk? I honestly, don't get it.
I work for the ambulance service. The crew would have made a dynamic risk assessment that would have included the fact that you felt well enough to get yourself to the surgery rather than call 999 from home if you felt the risk of falling so great. We go to lots of collapses/faints/syncopes which occur for many different reasons from a simple vasovagal episode to a heart attack or stroke. They would have considered all of this. Many, many patients are able to walk after they have recovered from a faint and we would not routinely carry people as much for patient dignity as well as for our backs. I do think they should have walked with you/kept an eye on you though but they're human and as a PP said, when there are 3 instead of the usual 2 it can be easy to think somebody else is. For what it's worth, they would have thought 'oh shit!' and reflected on this already, especially if they had a student with them.