To want DH to stop sending me photos of things that displease him?

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Notasaruleno · 12/04/2024 15:03

So - interests of fairness he is a decent man generally but he has this one habit that really puts my nose out of joint.

Say I have done something minor but I appreciate annoying he sends me a photo on WhatsApp, like a top left off a bottle or if the cat has killed a mouse (he hates cats) or similar. He just sends a photo, no accompanying message. I absolutely hate it, I think it’s really passive aggressive and I never know how or if to respond.

AIBU if I tell him to stop it?

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Grammarnut · 25/04/2024 12:35

Your DH is gaslighting you. Tell him to stop. If he doesn't you are looking at divorce, this only gets worse (I know).

WoosMama13 · 25/04/2024 17:23

Mimimimi1234 · 16/04/2024 15:10

I personally would enjoy the image banter and create some fun memes to send to him. In fact this is what I actually do, capcut is a great app for this. Get creative. He wants to be petty and childish sending pictures, take it up a notch, get your editing skills out and have fun, you could make a montage set to sad music of all the images hes sent and title it 'favourite memories'

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Just showered the cat with coffee!! 🤣🤣🤣 This is fantastic. The sad accompanying music. Perfect!!

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