To want DH to stop sending me photos of things that displease him?

[Notasaruleno]

So - interests of fairness he is a decent man generally but he has this one habit that really puts my nose out of joint.

Say I have done something minor but I appreciate annoying he sends me a photo on WhatsApp, like a top left off a bottle or if the cat has killed a mouse (he hates cats) or similar. He just sends a photo, no accompanying message. I absolutely hate it, I think it’s really passive aggressive and I never know how or if to respond.

AIBU if I tell him to stop it?

'Irritated of Tunbridge Wells' 😂😂

Tell him to stop, along with a pic of his shriveled inactive Penis.
Think he might get the message.

Who are the 6% saying @Notasaruleno is unreasonable?

I actually would be furious it's definitely passive aggressive.
Send laughing faces back 🤣

Get rid what an arsehole. Has he nothing better to do?

Just this every time.

Very passive aggressive behaviours which to me are slightly alarming. In the meantime thumbs up would be a response..

Even better.

Send him a photo of himself.

Send him photos of things he's done that annoy you?
Or of major disasters in the world to give him a sense of perspective?
Like he sends a missing bottle top pic then you send him a photo of a major flood.

This one made me smile 😻

Block him.

My hubby used to work with a passive aggressive colleague, and every time he would message my hubby an annoying text, hubby would reply with a cat meme 😆 when I asked him why he did that, he said its the only pussy his colleague is getting, coz he's just too annoying. 😆

So I'd send your hubby a cat emoji or cat meme, and warn him that if he carries on, then that's the only pussy he will be getting from now on 😆

Definitely this! Thumbs up or leave him on read continuously and when he finally sends something that he wants/needs a response to just let him know when you see him that you thought it was just another BS message

Literally 'check mate' 🔥🔥😂

Middle finger emoji every time
I'd dump him for hating cats tbh

Yeah I couldn’t be with anyone who didn’t like cats if I had one as a pet. I’d have no hesitation about dumping him and having a happier peaceful life with my cat.

he sounds utterly pathetic for sending you these pics, can’t you just block him? What a pathetic loser honestly I cba with people like that.

Reply with a different one of these each time

I’m laughing so hard at this thread. The ideas for responses are giving me life.

My other half once texted me a list of things that “needed doing” from upstairs.
Texted back I wasn’t his maid and he wasn’t my manager.
To which he replied: You can raise any grievances in your next one to one.
Then we howled for ages and sorted all that stuff out together.

I think it’s so sad when people are so PA. Like, just talk to the person, or screw the bottle top on yourself if your are that bothered.

Overall I think the suggestions of sending back his face or a screenshot of his message as that’s what’s annoying you are brilliant. 🤣

Love the shocked cats.😂

THIS 🤣🤣😂

Me 🤣I have been known to do this with DH. E.G we don’t wear shoes in the house, by choice he would. He stepped in dog shit and thank god took his shoes off by the door. Cue photo of poo covered shoe- your welcome. I will say it is in jest and he does it too. We just find it funny.

Perhaps my DH needs to LTB (leave the bitch). 🤣

He ... Hates ... Cats???? 🧐

He behaves like a Victorian father / schoolmaster?

So what first attracted you to him?

Anyway.

What do you want? - for this to stop.

You could go the equally pass ag route and do exactly the same thing back.

You could take the piss and do funny comments and emojis and links in return.

Trouble is both of these would probably turn him even more into Victor Meldrew.

The only option is for you both to use your words.

Love this!

I might reply “are you trying to sext me??”