To want DH to stop sending me photos of things that displease him?

[Notasaruleno]

So - interests of fairness he is a decent man generally but he has this one habit that really puts my nose out of joint.

Say I have done something minor but I appreciate annoying he sends me a photo on WhatsApp, like a top left off a bottle or if the cat has killed a mouse (he hates cats) or similar. He just sends a photo, no accompanying message. I absolutely hate it, I think it’s really passive aggressive and I never know how or if to respond.

AIBU if I tell him to stop it?

I think I'd play stupid every time and ask him whether he was trying to tell me something.

Block him on WhatsApp!

This is brilliant. Do this, OP

Leave him. The icky, sniveling ball ache.

So if you leave a toast crumb behind on the table from your breakfast he might take a photo and send you the picture? That sort of thing?

Please tell me I am misreading this and he isn’t sending you photos of your infractions?

It’s passive aggressive. It’s also treating you like a child to be reprimanded. Reply: ‘Can we communicate with words, like adults?’

Block and divorce.

No woman needs this shit.

it's the David that killed me

Haha! Your last sentence killed me 🤣🤣

This, I love. Also the idea of sending back random facts about whatever he’s photographed.

OP is mia😶

Crop this and send it to him .... every time 😀

This is too funny !!

Hmm … someone needs a slap round the face with the wet fish of reality.

Time to tell him that in this world, the one that adults live in, we use our words like big girls and boys do. Then we get taken seriously.

Send him a picture of your bedroom with a single bed in it.

Or bedding and a pillow on the couch.

Or a patio with a shovel...

This is the only acceptable response

The only possible excuse the op has for not yet coming back is that she is looking up and saving photos for her replies to her Dh. This thread is excellent.

This is what you need to send back…

I'd probably post the photo on his wall on Facebook with no words.

That may embarrass him!

First I'd ask him to stop doing it. I'd say I don't need telling these things please stop.

If he continues I'd just do a thumbs up or ignore completely and then move on with your day.

My dh says things like"we really need to clean the fridge" it use to get my back up as it was obvious he meant me. And if I said "that fine when do YOU plan to do it". He would get arsey. Now I just say "yes we do" and go on my merry way.

Every time

I've nicked this from another thread it's actually @MoonWoman69 's cat but would do the job as a cat response.

I’d send a ? Back!

@OhamIreally Oh yes, my Spooky will do the trick, that's for sure!!! 😁❤