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Sick of this fucking weather. No wonder we are all ill and fat.

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Wayofliving · 08/04/2024 18:25

The heating has been on at home at some point every day for the past 7 months. I’ve no inclination to get out and walk or do anything at all after work. I come home and cook comfort food as there’s sod all else to do. Drying washing everywhere, house always looks untidy.

It’s always cold, dark, rainy, depressing. If we’re lucky we’ll get 2-3 months of a bit of warmth and sunshine before it all starts waning towards winter again.

No wonder there’s lots of bugs and colds around, we’re all indoors all the time! Couple the shitty weather with high costs of living, crap public services and it makes me wonder why I didn't feck off to Australia when I was younger.

No point to this post, just a moan!

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GoodnightAdeline · 10/04/2024 12:02

Still fucking raining. Kids are going spare in the lounge, but it’s torrential out there. It’s utterly miserable and I can’t believe it’s kept it up for so long.

Tlolljs · 10/04/2024 12:08

Allfur · 10/04/2024 11:20

Isn't Bristol a good cycling city

Not when it’s blowing a fucking hoolie it ain’t.

Asuitablecat · 10/04/2024 12:22

Didn't rain until 8am this morning. I got out for a run early.
Currently sitting in my livingroom with a pot noodle to warm my hands up and my feet in my heated foot warmer.
This is my easter holiday. I planned to do the garden. Even if it's dry tomorrow, the soil will be heavy as fuck and I so won't be able to cut the grass

RampantIvy · 10/04/2024 12:29

Tlolljs · 10/04/2024 12:08

Not when it’s blowing a fucking hoolie it ain’t.

Or raining, and it's very hilly.

phoenixrosehere · 10/04/2024 12:29

However, for those saying they haven't been able to go out for weeks, or can't move north because of the weather, give me a break! Most of the rain is torrential and there are breaks in it, if you actually want to go out. Timing is all, though I appreciate not so easy to work around for those with FT jobs, wheelchairs and/or caring responsibilities.

The weather is simply one of many reasons I don’t want to move to the NE of England. People (if they can and/or have the choice) will move to places they know they are more likely to thrive in. It isn’t preposterous not to want to move or live somewhere because you don’t like the weather.

Overthebs · 10/04/2024 12:30

SAME!
We lived in aus and returned because of covid and missing family- i just miss being warm.. I feel so down all the time because it’s gloomy I dont want to work out, because it’s cold I dread getting a shower cos getting out in the freezing cold - I do these things obviously but I just hate being so cold 24/7.
Also I look at making plans for summer.. maybe a little bottomless brunch or a festival or an outdoor cinema date … then I think hmm that’s like £50/£60 and it’ll probably PISS DOWN so I don’t bother booking anything and I sit in my misery and be angry about it 🤣
Oh it’s fun being british!

RampantIvy · 10/04/2024 12:33

Most of the rain is torrential and there are breaks in it

I live on the edge of the Pennines. We have had weeks and weeks of no breaks in the rain. We have dodged out for walks in between rainy spells in the very few muddy areas we can access, but it is not a joy to do so.

Misthios · 10/04/2024 12:38

Raining again and 7c in Glasgow. All the toxic positivity people wanging on about how it's not that bad, and how you just need a nice jacket and a positive attitude are deluded. They like dark and wet and cold and windy because it means they feel justified at hiding away in their "cosy" houses under their "blankets" with their "hot chocs".

Never in my 50 odd years have I asked someone where they're off to on holiday and they've answered "oooh dunno, somewhere that's cold and windy, and guaranteed to piss it down for a fortnight. Lovely".

RampantIvy · 10/04/2024 12:39

8 degrees and a cold wind here today, with rain forecast.

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My exercise bike is arriving today.

Crikeyalmighty · 10/04/2024 12:47

@Misthios yep I personally find all this hiding under blankets very odd. When we lived in Copenhagen the Danes love their hygge! But it usually involved a lot of staying in plus steaming warm cafes and great lighting for a few months- not most of the year

Newtonianmechanics · 10/04/2024 12:58

After another day of rain. I agree. It is just miserable.
I love waking up and seeing the sun shine through the kitchen but no just wet and cold. I am sick of being cold.

GoodnightAdeline · 10/04/2024 13:28

AtomicBlondeRose · 10/04/2024 06:53

I love the classic Mumsnet cognitive dissonance of insisting that a walk in the pouring rain is pure joy, while admitting in the same sentence it’s because there’s nobody else outside.

If something is fun, free and generally nice to do it is usually very popular (hence the traffic at Dovedale on a sunny day), so if nobody else wants to do something, surely that’s a very good sign that it’s actually a bit shit?

I think they just want the weather to reflect their dysthymia and enjoy everyone else being down as well

Missamyp · 10/04/2024 13:35

I agree the rain is incessant for poor DP. For me, however, 200 miles south of his address is nearly always pleasant.🤔
Really putting me off moving ooop there.

Samlewis96 · 10/04/2024 13:39

ArseInTheCoOpWindow · 10/04/2024 10:10

😂😂😂😂

Do you live in the North? We have no trains. Our bus service in a big northern city suburb has been reduced from every 10 minutes to one every 45 minutes.

I’d love to reduce my reliance on cars, but we have no public transport. Unless you live in SE of course. They seem to get a new tube/train line every year.😏

Nope I'm in SE. Bus to village a couple of times a day in weekdays. Nearest train service has replacement buses and engineering works at least 40 weekends a year it seems and every bank holiday.

London is very different. Have to laugh at Londoners who whinge about a 10 min wait for a bus

RampantIvy · 10/04/2024 13:50

We now have pouring sideways rain, and I have to go out in it in half an hour.

GasPanic · 10/04/2024 13:51

The rain is miserable and seemingly relentless.

Not sure it is making me fat though. It is hard to make it to the shop full of snacks when you have to wade through a river and get soaking wet.

Lavenderblue11 · 10/04/2024 13:55

Whinge · 10/04/2024 07:38

We've had shit weather since last summer. Even those who like wintery weather are beginning to get sick of the wind and heavy rain. Houses and businesses have flooded, fields are too wet for crops and I want to go out without having to wear boots and a bloody coat.

Absolutely agree with you, it's pissing me off no end. Sick of looking out of the window at grey gloomy skies, our grass is a foot long, hubby hasn't been able to mow it because it's been piss wet through since last September 😆

Tomatina · 10/04/2024 13:56

It's official, not just a matter of opinion (let alone weatherproof clothes, hot bloody chocolate or relentlessly positive attitudes)
Just seen this in the Guardian.
From the article:
The NFU vice-president, Rachel Hallos, said: “People should be in no doubt about the immense pressure UK farm businesses are under thanks to this unprecedented and constant rain."
https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2024/apr/10/uk-food-production-down-record-rainfall-farmers

Farmers warn ‘crisis is building’ as record rainfall drastically reduces UK food production

Reduction in yields means UK will be dependent on imports for wheat in coming year and possibly beyond

https://www.theguardian.com/environment/2024/apr/10/uk-food-production-down-record-rainfall-farmers

Plumeface · 10/04/2024 14:01

Missamyp · 10/04/2024 13:35

I agree the rain is incessant for poor DP. For me, however, 200 miles south of his address is nearly always pleasant.🤔
Really putting me off moving ooop there.

Out of interest where is it that you are in the UK that it is "nearly always" pleasant?

My definition of pleasant in this instance is sunshine, no rain and minimal wind.

Plumeface · 10/04/2024 14:03

Allfur · 10/04/2024 11:20

Isn't Bristol a good cycling city

Not with young children whilst heavily pregnant. Not in the pissing rain and howling wind. Not when bike theft is rampant. Not when most roads don't have cycle lanes.

Bloom15 · 10/04/2024 14:10

Newtonianmechanics · 10/04/2024 12:58

After another day of rain. I agree. It is just miserable.
I love waking up and seeing the sun shine through the kitchen but no just wet and cold. I am sick of being cold.

Same - I am really fed up. It was supposed to be dry here until about 11. I had to collect a prescription so took DS out just after 8 - 2 minutes after we left the heavens opened and we got soaked.
Again .

BashfulClam · 10/04/2024 14:15

Misthios · 08/04/2024 19:08

I live in central Scotland too. We had some nice weather in June 2023 for sure. And as soon as the schools broke up for the summer holidays the rain started, and hasn't stopped since. There was SNOW on the Campsies on Friday, and it was 2C. Raining again now.

It is shitty enough getting rain in the winter months when it's dark by 3.45pm. But at this time of year when the nights are stretching out it's even worse. I don't want a heatwave summer. I want a DRY summer.

I agree. Mind you I remember in 2011 there was snow on the Campsies and it was the warmest day of the year a few days later. It’s so changeable out that way. I used to live right at the broom of the Campsies (could see them from our window so wearing shorts but seeing snow on higher ground was odd).

We had such glorious weather in 2020 (when no fucker could actually enjoy it). Bring that back!

Missamyp · 10/04/2024 14:42

Plumeface · 10/04/2024 14:01

Out of interest where is it that you are in the UK that it is "nearly always" pleasant?

My definition of pleasant in this instance is sunshine, no rain and minimal wind.

On the border of Buckinghamshire-Northamptonshire. It's not always sunny but DP lives on the Pennines situated near half a dozen dams. It's always wet or at least 4-8c cooler than where I live.
TBF he hates it as well.

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