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Sick of this fucking weather. No wonder we are all ill and fat.

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Wayofliving · 08/04/2024 18:25

The heating has been on at home at some point every day for the past 7 months. I’ve no inclination to get out and walk or do anything at all after work. I come home and cook comfort food as there’s sod all else to do. Drying washing everywhere, house always looks untidy.

It’s always cold, dark, rainy, depressing. If we’re lucky we’ll get 2-3 months of a bit of warmth and sunshine before it all starts waning towards winter again.

No wonder there’s lots of bugs and colds around, we’re all indoors all the time! Couple the shitty weather with high costs of living, crap public services and it makes me wonder why I didn't feck off to Australia when I was younger.

No point to this post, just a moan!

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Samlewis96 · 09/04/2024 14:08

Allfur · 09/04/2024 09:06

I am happy to walk/run/cycle in the rain. I don't mind bad weather but appreciate that's just me. I'm also never ill, which maybe helps.

Not so easy when damp/ wet weather causing stiffness in hips/ knees ) ankles.

Feel like walking around like a 109 year old is not good. Fortunately I spent the winter in Asia so didn't hurt so much and mobility much better. But not fun to return to UK to find the weather STILL shit

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:09

Go to the gym! Had a lovely swim yesterday followed by a very warm sauna

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 14:12

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:09

Go to the gym! Had a lovely swim yesterday followed by a very warm sauna

Not everyone can afford the gym. It's £50 a month minimum for one near me and a lot more for one with a sauna.

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:14

@Plumeface I don't pay that much and I live in the south east.
Have a hot bath, cup of tea and a book with a blanket, do yoga at home. Ultimately a lot of it is mindset, I go out in all weathers that's not good everyone, so do something else, or you can sit around and complain but don't expect to be happy

Samlewis96 · 09/04/2024 14:15

olivehaters · 09/04/2024 12:39

Finding it hard but force myself and the kids to do stuff anyway and always happy after I have. Did a massive three hour walk in the rain with the kids on the back holiday. My eldest even carried on some more with his dad. Try and get out a little bit every day. There is normally a gap in the weather at some point.

But the " gap" in the weather is most likely when you are at work.

Sharptonguedwoman · 09/04/2024 14:15

Rosesanddaisies1 · 08/04/2024 22:06

This! I’m not fat or ill. Just dress appropriately or make the most when it has been dry. And there’s plenty of fun active things to do whatever the weather. Find it mad people let the weather affect their lives.

You have obviously never been in a caravan in the rain in Wales. Fun active things' whatever the weather? What on earth are they, without paying squillions for indoor play or dragging cold, fed up kids (yes I know about appropriate clothes, thanks) around in the rain and the mud?

theonlygirl · 09/04/2024 14:16

I totally hear you OP. Its utterly vile where I am today and has rained everyday of the school holidays, thank god my kids are older and don't need entertainment.
I've made it very clear to DH that I will not spend my last years staring out a nursing home window as the rain smashes it. I'm off somewhere sunny. The difference in how I feel when I wake up to that warm smell will add at least 10 years on me I think.

Sallysappho · 09/04/2024 14:16

I agree, can't fly fish as we never get enough settled weather for the river levels to fall and the wind to drop and temp to rise for a decent fly hatch.
Our rivers seem to be in a perpetual state of flood or else are brimming with sewage

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 14:17

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:14

@Plumeface I don't pay that much and I live in the south east.
Have a hot bath, cup of tea and a book with a blanket, do yoga at home. Ultimately a lot of it is mindset, I go out in all weathers that's not good everyone, so do something else, or you can sit around and complain but don't expect to be happy

I don't want to do yoga, it bores me to tears.

I'm quite happy to complain, we all need a rant now and then without having our feelings invalidated.

TheDogsMother · 09/04/2024 14:20

I like to do 10k steps a day and I'm not going to go down the 'wrong clothes not wrong weather route', but life has been transformed by my new Mountain Warehouse coat (I'm not a rep honestly). Two layers, one is a down puffer coat and the outer layer is a long 10000mm rated waterproof raincoat. A complete game changer compared to my previous coats that always sprung a leak. Even after the heavy rain I get home cosy and dry.

KievLoverTwo · 09/04/2024 14:20

It hasn't stopped raining where I am since June last year, and we're on our 13th storm of the season (45-60mph winds).

On a happier note, at least I won't feel obliged to attack the foot-high grass, as it's now swamp land underneath.

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:20

@Plumeface miserable people bore me the most

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 14:21

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:20

@Plumeface miserable people bore me the most

That's fine, I like grumpy people. Relentlessly positive people do my nut in.

Mouldiwarp1 · 09/04/2024 14:25

fightingthedogforadonut · 09/04/2024 11:44

I think Climate Change has made most people forget what British weather is meant to be like... it was always normal to have changeable, windy, rainy weather in March and April. And it's better for a lot of our native flora and fauna. Seasons have been so mixed up in recent years....

Changeable, yes. The problem this year is that it’s not been changeable, it’s just stuck on a wet and windy loop. My DH is a gardener and where we are, the weather has been appalling. We’ve not had more than three or four days without rain since October - and I’m not talking about a shower here or there. DH is running about two months behind with jobs, and now every time the sun comes out for two minutes he gets forty phone calls asking if he’s going to “cut my grass tomorrow” even though everywhere is waterlogged. He’s still got fences to put up, and patios to lay that should have been done months ago. I’m not even sure if he’s finished the hedge cutting yet and the birds are starting to nest.

Everywhere is so muddy, the pot holes are atrocious, lots of the lanes have been flooded repeatedly.

Oh, and I’ve got the right clothes for the weather, but the dog hates the rain and just refuses to go out in it. Thank God, tbh!

Finally, my 88 year old mother, who loves to sit in her garden in the spring, has been stuck indoors.

innerdesign · 09/04/2024 14:26

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:14

@Plumeface I don't pay that much and I live in the south east.
Have a hot bath, cup of tea and a book with a blanket, do yoga at home. Ultimately a lot of it is mindset, I go out in all weathers that's not good everyone, so do something else, or you can sit around and complain but don't expect to be happy

Omg, a hot bath and reading a book under a blanket is lovely in October when it's a novelty. It's fecking April! Six + months of 'cosy' activities gets boring.

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:27

@innerdesign I just go out but that's been robustly shot down on here!

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 09/04/2024 14:29

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:14

@Plumeface I don't pay that much and I live in the south east.
Have a hot bath, cup of tea and a book with a blanket, do yoga at home. Ultimately a lot of it is mindset, I go out in all weathers that's not good everyone, so do something else, or you can sit around and complain but don't expect to be happy

Well I can’t get home because the road is flooded and impassable so I can’t do any of that and I think I have the right to complain!

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:30

@Idratherbepaddleboarding haven't got the paddle board with you? 😁

cliovillee · 09/04/2024 14:32

MyOtherCarisAVauxhallZafira · 09/04/2024 14:27

@innerdesign I just go out but that's been robustly shot down on here!

Because people just want to moan, no one is asking for advice. Let people whinge!

Whinge · 09/04/2024 14:33

Idratherbepaddleboarding · 09/04/2024 14:29

Well I can’t get home because the road is flooded and impassable so I can’t do any of that and I think I have the right to complain!

I hope it's just the street and your house isn't flooded.

My street was badly flooded back in October and unfortunately lots of families woke up to water in their houses. Everytime we have heavy rain I spend the night worrying the same thing will happen, which has meant a lot of sleepless nights in the last few months.Sad

AngieRosess · 09/04/2024 14:35

cliovillee · 09/04/2024 13:19

I just sat outside in the howling wind for 10 minutes, as suggested by that poster, and was a) cold and b) miserable.

Sorry really made me laugh 😂😂😂

Ilostmyhalo · 09/04/2024 14:37

Was only thinking back to 2020 - April May June - all blooming marvellous - at least we didn't have this amount of rain in lockdown

NoisySnail · 09/04/2024 14:41

@fightingthedogforadonut what nonsense. It has been the wettest 18 months since 1836. Nobody has forgotten what is normal weather this time of year, we know it is not normally this wet.

DuesToTheDirt · 09/04/2024 14:41

BaronessEllarawrosaurus · 09/04/2024 13:10

Its 6°c here currently and raining. And I live on a peat bog. I just want some sun please

I'm imagining you standing outside on top of a peat bog, railing at the skies Grin.

Or maybe you are sinking, it's very easy to sink in a peat bog!

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