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Sick of this fucking weather. No wonder we are all ill and fat.

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Wayofliving · 08/04/2024 18:25

The heating has been on at home at some point every day for the past 7 months. I’ve no inclination to get out and walk or do anything at all after work. I come home and cook comfort food as there’s sod all else to do. Drying washing everywhere, house always looks untidy.

It’s always cold, dark, rainy, depressing. If we’re lucky we’ll get 2-3 months of a bit of warmth and sunshine before it all starts waning towards winter again.

No wonder there’s lots of bugs and colds around, we’re all indoors all the time! Couple the shitty weather with high costs of living, crap public services and it makes me wonder why I didn't feck off to Australia when I was younger.

No point to this post, just a moan!

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Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:26

I think wfh is maybe a problem as well. If you go out to work, you have to get up, properly dressed, get out of the house and have a different perspective. It's really not great to be indoors all the time.

NeedToChangeName · 09/04/2024 08:26

I'm neither ill nor fat

Good quality waterproofs

Parks nearby, where i can walk without getting drenched

Heated drying rail for drying clothes overnight, with help of dehumidifier

Can watch out for times when rain eases off a bit to go out (no dogs, horses etc)

Prefer soup to salad

Plenty of jumpers. Don't feel the need to strip off to Tshirts at home

Not a farmer

So, lots to be thankful for, and poor weather probably easier for me than for many

But i struggle a bit with how relentless this rain has been

And the "no bad weather, just bad clothing" brigade may be fortunate to have good quality clothing, several jackets, space to dry clothes, can afford to take children to soft play instead of the playpark etc

It's not hard to imagine how much harder it is when you only have one cheap cagoule, toddlers to entertain and can't afford softplay. Or the PP who can't go out in the rain cos their wheelchair isn't waterproof

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:27

The washing is a pain.
Get a tumble dryer, it really does help.

TimeGrabsYouByTheWrist · 09/04/2024 08:28

Wellhellooooodear · 08/04/2024 21:21

Smug

Not smug. Just someone who recognises that life is precious.

willWillSmithsmith · 09/04/2024 08:30

TimeGrabsYouByTheWrist · 09/04/2024 08:28

Not smug. Just someone who recognises that life is precious.

I also appreciate that life is precious (had cancer) but that doesn’t mean I’m loving all the rain.

Thankfully today, so far, it seems to be dry although I got woken up during the night because of the wind and rain.

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:31

TimeGrabsYouByTheWrist · 09/04/2024 08:28

Not smug. Just someone who recognises that life is precious.

You can realise that and still get fed up.

Mercurial123 · 09/04/2024 08:31

Nice excuse OP you can exercise at home.

FizzingAda · 09/04/2024 08:31

Campervan stuck on drive. Thinking of selling it and building an ark.

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:32

The wind and rain has been horrendous this last couple of days. It's certainly because of climate change, and it won't get better. We recently got a new roof and it's proved to be an excellent investment!

MrKDilkington · 09/04/2024 08:32

My husband retrained into a trade 18 months ago and works outside, all day long, every day. He's soaked to the skin EVERY day. He owns every recommended item of waterproof clothing, including oilskins, and it's still impossible to stay dry. It's making him ill and there isn't time to get everything dry overnight ready for tomorrow's shift.

Honestly, all of these 'positive posters' sound like they're missing a few brain cells.

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:32

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:26

I think wfh is maybe a problem as well. If you go out to work, you have to get up, properly dressed, get out of the house and have a different perspective. It's really not great to be indoors all the time.

Christ one of the biggest advantages of home working is that I no longer have to do the commute in freezing driving rain and then spend all day with wet shoes. At least WFH I can get out for a rainy walk and change into dry stuff after.

HolidayAtNight · 09/04/2024 08:34

BatteryPoweredPeacock · 09/04/2024 08:24

I love walking and take the dog out at least twice a day, every day - regardless of weather. My wardrobe looks like an outdoors hiking shop, I have so many clothes to cope with all weathers.

Anyone trying to say walking in the wet with the right clothes on is anywhere near as nice as a warm, dry, clear walk is having a laugh. It's just not. The most breathable cold/wet weather gear still gets sweaty and is, inevitably, bulkier than clothes for fine weather. The most waterproof walking boots still eventually let water in - I've never found a pair that can cope with long, wet grass or constant liquid mud - so that means walking in something rubbery to be really water proof. Even then, slipping in mud is far tricker and less preferable than good grip on dry ground.

Getting back home means a half hour clear up job, drying the dog, cleaning my shoes, getting all the gear off and drying it out.

I do the wet weather walking, I live in the UK and mostly just get on with it. But these last two winters - this one especially - have been a bloody nightmare.

And that's not to even start on the garden.... I love gardening but haven't not been able to start on the garden (pun int.) because walking on the sodden ground is too damaging to it and gardening in wet mud is a pita.

Exactly! Even breathable waterproofs aren't as breathable as, well, non-waterproofs. And unless you're into gorpcore, it's hard to find them beautiful. Not to mention the shoes.

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:34

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:32

Christ one of the biggest advantages of home working is that I no longer have to do the commute in freezing driving rain and then spend all day with wet shoes. At least WFH I can get out for a rainy walk and change into dry stuff after.

It's not what I mean.
I mean that you have to get out of the house.

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:35

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:34

It's not what I mean.
I mean that you have to get out of the house.

Yes which was totally miserable.

I have to get out of the house every day anyway, I have other errands to run besides commuting.

swayingpalmtree · 09/04/2024 08:36

It's perfectly possible to realise that life is precious and still not enjoy the weather being grey, water logged and gloomy. Some of us are able to appreciate two different points of view at once. Crazy, I know!

My idea of a precious life is getting out and about and actually enjoying nature. I am not enjoying it currently due to constantly being wet, cold, and covered in mud whenever I take the dog out. I miss being in sunlight under the dappling of trees and it being warm and balmy. Thats my idea of "precious".

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:37

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:35

Yes which was totally miserable.

I have to get out of the house every day anyway, I have other errands to run besides commuting.

Not my point. I just think if people don't have to, they don't, which is understandable. I've bloody hated going out every morning in the howling wind and rain 🤢. However, if I don't get out of the house every day, I don't feel great.
I have a friend who hasn't left the house in nearly two weeks!

HiGunny · 09/04/2024 08:41

I am so fed up with grey skies. Even last July during a really warm spell we had grey skies, so warm and muggy.
Interestingly, I was watching Blue Zones on Netflix and every single one of the areas where people live longer was in a Mediterranean type climate. So I definitely think a nice climate improves healthier choices and enhances socialisation etc.

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:42

On Sunday it was actually dry and sunny for an hour from 8am! I got up and went out for a walk to get some exercise and some vitamin D synthesised....then came home, made a cheese toastie and went back to bed! (Interrupted only by the wind and rain hammering at the windows)

Corinthiana · 09/04/2024 08:43

HiGunny · 09/04/2024 08:41

I am so fed up with grey skies. Even last July during a really warm spell we had grey skies, so warm and muggy.
Interestingly, I was watching Blue Zones on Netflix and every single one of the areas where people live longer was in a Mediterranean type climate. So I definitely think a nice climate improves healthier choices and enhances socialisation etc.

It most definitely is linked.

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:43

The weather was beautiful over the first lockdown in 2020. At that point we were in a second storey flat with no outside space. Now we are in a house with a generous garden and loads of nearby green space we have hardly seen it not in the rain since we moved in last summer.

SallyWD · 09/04/2024 08:43

We all know we have a slightly cool, wet climate here but I have to say it's been a particularly miserable winter/early spring. However, I do make an effort to be positive and get out every day. If I thought "Oh it's miserable out there!" and never went out I'd feel awful, mentally and physically. So I go out and I do my 10,000 steps each day and it really lifts my spirits.
Let's be honest, even though it's been exceptionally wet lately, it doesn't rain all day, every day. For example, yesterday we had a wet morning so I went out in the afternoon. It was actually warm and sunny.
I walk to and from work (3 miles each way) unless it's absolutely torrential. Usually the worst I'll get is a bit of drizzle. I don't arrive at work drenched. I wear a good coat and boots and am fine when I arrive at work.

Nannyfannybanny · 09/04/2024 08:45

I haven't got any brain cells missing. People can't seem to accept it isn't raining everywhere,at the same time.! We got a puppy last year born on 1st July,we had rain in September she didn't want to go out in the garden,it freaked her out because she hadn't seen it. I don't have expensive fancy wet weather gear, waterproof trousers and thin jacket, from when we cycled. Yes, I'm in the SE fairly near the sea, the South Downs often keep rain off,I have 5 water butts. We had a hosepipe ban last year, they are talking of one for this year. My postman always wears shorts, thought he was just hardy, nope,he said it's easier to dry legs than wet trousers. Our wet coats just get hung in the airing cupboard or porch. Presumably kids still walk to school in the rain!

Plumeface · 09/04/2024 08:46

TBF I'm 22 weeks pregnant and really struggling to walk anything near 10,000 steps (which I'd usually be fine with) so the rain and wind don't help.

Whinge · 09/04/2024 08:50

We got a puppy last year born on 1st July,we had rain in September she didn't want to go out in the garden,it freaked her out because she hadn't seen it

Confused I refuse to believe there was anywhere in the UK last year that didn't experience some rain between 1st July and September.

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