To ask what your biggest problem in life is at the moment?

[Biggybigbiggles]

Just that really... mine is that I feel frumpy and ugly. Having always been tiny, I've gotten to 30 and I suddenly just feel disgusted with what I see any time someone takes a photo of me.

If you could click your fingers and remove a problem you have, what would it be?

I have nothing to add to all of these posts as you all have such awful things to contend with, and I am sorry for that. life is so Very cruel, and so very short.
I wish we could all be kinder and just treat each other with respect and empathy. I have the usual problems but nothing can compare to some of the problems raised on here. I will think about these posts so that I am more greatful for all the things I do have. Thanks to everyone for sharing these heartbreaking posts.

I especially want to say how sorry I am to @Iom92 as a parent this would be my biggest fear.

I'm sorry to hear that HesterPricess.
My dad is very sick at the moment and I really love him the way you describe.
My mother was never a good mother and im not the golden child either, I'm finding it very difficult to relate to her.
I don't know what to say, I completely understand the way you feel.

I am very sorry about your loss x

Debt

The pain in your few words is heartbreaking, I’m so sorry for you and your child. Can’t do anything for you but sending hugs. x

It's nothing compared to some on this thread, but our flat is neither habitable nor saleable due to storm damage last year, and our baby is due in June.

It may Autumn before we're able to move back in and then we'll have to try and sell it and secure a bigger mortgage while balancing maternity leave and childcare costs.

I'm so grateful that we're healthy and safe, but I so wish we had our own home (rather than a temporary rented place) to prepare and take our baby home to.

Sorry, my msg is to Iom92

• being in an abusive relationship
• feel emotionally too weak to leave
• due to the above my self esteem is at rock bottom
• bored with my job
• in my thirties and don't own a home

On the other hand, I'm really trying to see the positives in my life/each day

• I have 2 beautiful children
• I have my health
• my job could be worse and I have the ability to progress (if I could afford to restrain)
• I have a lovely family (just unfortunate they live far away).

God I’m so sorry xx

Sending love xx

I’ve name changed for this. It’s so not a problem in real terms but I have a massive crush on my osteo. He’s just very easy to talk to (and yes, I know that’s his job). It’s just frustrating because why can’t I meet a lovely man like him in the real world instead of in a scenario where it’s entirely impossible? To all my friends, I say I’m unfussed by meeting someone. Really, I want to. It’s easier to pretend I’m good being single when there’s no potential!

Dislike the person who will probably be my future daughter inlaw. Feel sad as I know it's not my choice but things could've been so different for ds.

Lom92 I did not see your post and would not have posted about my trivial problem in comparison. I am so sorry for the stress you and your family are enduring.

I'm at least 6 stone heavier than I'd like to be. Went to the Dr last week for an NHS check up (I'd never heard of one previous to being invited), and they weighed me. I'm tall, and a size 16, even so, I was in shock. I need a huge amount of fat to be gone, however I'm currently only able to do 1 day in the gym per week 😢😢😢

My daughters’ health problems ☹️

My DP and the pressure arising circumcision for our DS. I am terrified for him and don't know what to do. I can't really see any way around it, even if I do leave him, which I would if it guaranteed it wouldn't be happening. It's meant to be a milestone in certain cultures, but it makes me feel ill as I know my son will be scared and not trust me 😭

What a heartbreaking thread. I'm a bit sad and lonely, but my heart goes out to all of you dealing with such overwhelming problems. There's nothing I can say to help, but it's good to know we're not alone with our struggles in life. X

Me, my anxiety, the bad things that have happened that have left me a bit scared of life.

I’m really sorry for what a lot of you are going through,

❤️ for each and every one of you

Suspecting I have tonsillitis.

Don’t apologize. It’s all relative.

Huge financial pressure
Relative’s divorce from narc husband and the effect on their children
Trying to help disabled relative with complicated problems
Poor physical and mental health
Full time exhausting job

@Iom92 I’m so sorry to hear that. Sending positive vibes out into the universe for you and your family.

Another breast cancer one here, seems to be quite a few. Sending well wishes to all of you.

Yes, so true. Pain is pain. It isn’t a competition. So long as you sympathise with others, you have every right to vent your grief. It’s only the people who don’t care about others but are full of self-pity who deserve a slap.

DW having a chemical pregnancy last week. I know it probably will, but it feels like it will never happen for us.