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To think Black Out nights in theatre ARE important

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PenguinLord · 06/04/2024 13:07

I know there was a theatre that did it last year and a thread about it- but there is a West End venue this year which will host two or three black out nights (where "all-black-identifying audiences" are invited) of the Slave Play. I had mixed feelings, but after having read a few articles on it, I actually agree with the concept- for the record I am very much white.

Spokesperson for the PM criticised black out nights saying "“The prime minister is a big supporter of the arts and he believes that the arts should be inclusive".

But let's face it, theatre experience is far from inclusive or accessible. Having 2 out of a few dozen nights will not really make a difference, nor excludes people who are not black to attend literally 80 if not more other performances. I was in theatre this week, and had a good look around. 98% of the audience were white. There were a few Asian people and 1 (one) black person- in the audience of around 300.

I suppose Id be far less likely to attend an event where I would stick out like a very sore thumb, is it really such a big deal to have two performances where people who dont usually feel theatre is an inclusive space can feel welcome, surrounded by people that belong to the same community?

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GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 19:56

I think people can be aware of injustice in its many forms without accepting white privilege as a concept

Well this is where we disagree then, because how can I properly be aware and accept that injustice and discrimination exists between different skin colours if I refuse to acknowledge that by having white skin that in itself is a form of privilege?
I don't have the worry and anxiety of wondering if someone is going to abuse me whether physically or verbally on stepping out my front door and going about minding my own business just because I'm white.
That's the privilege, how does it not exist?

mids2019 · 14/04/2024 20:15

@GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight

Jews for instance may disagree with the notion of not facing abuse because they are white and this is why I think there are challenges to the whole concept.

Abuse against non white people can be attributed to racism committed by racists. I don't think this is a problem that needs to be an implied guilt for all white people.

There is also obviously discrimination between people with similar skin colour and this form of discrimination is minimised by the idea of white privilege and I also think this is wrong.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 20:27

Jews for instance may disagree with the notion of not facing abuse because they are white and this is why I think there are challenges to the whole concept
Yes, they face abuse too, I'm not disputing that, but it's that they're Jewish that any abuse comes from, not from being white.
I'm meaning more like if you're English British for example.

mids2019 · 14/04/2024 20:44

@GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight

I just think it is a lot more beneficial to focus on racism in all its forms and call it out rather than having a 'privelge' that you are less likely to experience abuse. The onus is taken away from the racism and it seems like white people are all supposed to be aware of privilege and have some form of collective guilt that our race has some that seem to find it acceptable to be racist.

I also think focusing on a narrow white privilege of to accept the concept misses or sidelines other forms of privilege . For example should we acknowledge a 'Christian' privilege in that we aren't routinely subject to Islamaphobia? If an Eastern European suffers abuse due to nationality isn't this somehow minimised by having some form of overarching white privilege that ball white people should be aware of?

I think it is also implied from such a theory that the world is set up to smooth the way for white people and I think that is an exaggeration that leads simply to resentment from poc and is quite disheartening.

ChristinaXYZ · 14/04/2024 20:50

Lazykitten · 06/04/2024 13:45

If there was, for example, a play about a women's event, or say on sexual violence, I'd really appreciate an option to attend with a female only audience. I don't want to watch something about my oppression sat next to my oppressor. Can imagine it's the same.

But you're talking about something historical not something within living memory so it is very far from the same as contemproary women's issues.

I think it is ignorant. I think it is segregationist. And it is certainly incredibly divisive.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 21:00

ChristinaXYZ · 14/04/2024 20:50

But you're talking about something historical not something within living memory so it is very far from the same as contemproary women's issues.

I think it is ignorant. I think it is segregationist. And it is certainly incredibly divisive.

Racism isn't historical though, what are you talking about?!
Racism stems from slavery, it is very much still sadly current.

missmollygreen · 14/04/2024 21:06

Lazykitten · 06/04/2024 13:45

If there was, for example, a play about a women's event, or say on sexual violence, I'd really appreciate an option to attend with a female only audience. I don't want to watch something about my oppression sat next to my oppressor. Can imagine it's the same.

So all white people oppress black people and all men oppress women?? right....

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 21:09

missmollygreen · 14/04/2024 21:06

So all white people oppress black people and all men oppress women?? right....

Nobody has said that anywhere. 🙄

ChristinaXYZ · 14/04/2024 21:11

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 19:56

I think people can be aware of injustice in its many forms without accepting white privilege as a concept

Well this is where we disagree then, because how can I properly be aware and accept that injustice and discrimination exists between different skin colours if I refuse to acknowledge that by having white skin that in itself is a form of privilege?
I don't have the worry and anxiety of wondering if someone is going to abuse me whether physically or verbally on stepping out my front door and going about minding my own business just because I'm white.
That's the privilege, how does it not exist?

This drives me mad. People get abuse in the street for all kinds of reasons; because of any factor that makes them different. This can be age, sex, sexual orientation, race, disability, religion, looks (being both good looking or the opposite can get you the wrong kind of attention) and class. Being very tall can get abuse shouted at you or being very small. Limping, lisping, not speaking English (or Welsh) as your first language, your school uniform, your work uniform, your social culture, football club, music culture, being a Goth, tattoos, short skirt, headscarf or no headscarf, your politics, not being very bright, being too bright in the wrong place, being in the wrong place at the wrong time, having parents that don't look after you, having parents who look after you in an area where that's odd, being sexually promiscuous, being an apostate to your religion, standing up to bullies, giving evidence to the police/courts, joining the police, being a teacher off the premises confronted with kids from your school, having been in prison...

The list goes on and on. Priviledge is meaningless, unless you want to make yourself feel better by claiming you have it.

ChristinaXYZ · 14/04/2024 21:30

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 21:00

Racism isn't historical though, what are you talking about?!
Racism stems from slavery, it is very much still sadly current.

The play is about slavery. Racism does not stem from slavery! It may well be a huge factor in it but it exists whether there was slavery or not. The whole premise of the inlcusion or exclusion here is that the people they think they're excluding have not suffered slavery in their family history. You cannot tell that from looking at someone. Most black people in the world are not descended from the American slaves so not all black people have slaves in their ancestry by a large majority. Also some white people have slaves in their ancestry. There are also many people in this country who are not black and not white either. Someone of Indian descent or Arab descent for example? They may be descended from slave holders or not as well. Are they allowed in or not? What about mixed heritage people? Who judges their background? The arrogance of it! The whole premise makes no damn sense.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 21:32

The arrogance of it!
Why are you so bothered at people who are black maybe wanting to watch a play without white people around?
Why does it bother you so much?

SpidersAreShitheads · 14/04/2024 23:55

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 14/04/2024 21:32

The arrogance of it!
Why are you so bothered at people who are black maybe wanting to watch a play without white people around?
Why does it bother you so much?

Well I guess that’s part of the bigger question isn’t it?

Why DO black people feel unable to watch a play with white people in the room?

And that’s where I struggle with this a bit.

I’m all in favour for initiatives to reach audience that might face barriers - but in this case they’ve asked other groups (ie/white people) not to attend.

I said this earlier - there are often showings aimed towards neurodivergent people. The showings are promoted to be inclusive but at no point are other groups asked NOT to attend. Thats where I think these showings marketed to black people are different - they’ve specifically asked other groups not to come along, which is why several posters have said it feels divisive. Because it is.

I think nights encouraging black audiences are brilliant and there should be more initiatives. But not if they’re framed like this.

So back to the original question - why are white people specifically being told to stay away? Slavery is relevant to many groups but black people in the U.K. don’t have a recent history with it that would make it directly personal and relevant (compared to Jewish people and the Holocaust, for example). The play explores biracial relationships so while it’s really important to reach black people, surely there’s space for white people in the room too - particularly given the fact the play directly addresses biracial interaction?

The only reason that I can see for white people being told not to attend to create a “safe space” - is because somehow all white people are being viewed as colonial aggressors and shouldn’t be involved in conversations about slavery. That’s certainly the undertone.

And again for emphasis, great to encourage black peoples to attend with dedicated nights. Just don’t tell other groups to stay away.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 15/04/2024 02:16

Well I guess that’s part of the bigger question isn’t it?

Why DO black people feel unable to watch a play with white people in the room?

No.
That's not what I asked.
Why answer a question with yet another question?
Have you even bothered to read the thread?

SpidersAreShitheads · 15/04/2024 03:49

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 15/04/2024 02:16

Well I guess that’s part of the bigger question isn’t it?

Why DO black people feel unable to watch a play with white people in the room?

No.
That's not what I asked.
Why answer a question with yet another question?
Have you even bothered to read the thread?

Excellent answer. Top notch conversational skills. Not.

If YOU had “bothered to read” the fucking thread you’d see I was on it earlier.

Of course I’ve read the thread. In parts it’s been thought provoking from both sides but mainly just a bun fight.

Your hostile reply is a perfect example of why there’s never any useful outcome to controversial issues like this. All that ever happens is people get aggro with anyone who dares question their view.

I was asking a genuine question - as I explained earlier I’m very open to the idea that I’m missing something. As I also explained earlier I’m autistic and sometimes see things as black and white (no pun intended!). It’s helpful listening to views because I miss nuance sometimes.

But never mind, you carry on being irrationally aggro at someone who was just trying to be part of the discussion, and genuinely asking a question to try and understand a different viewpoint.

Fucking hell 🙄

Gruffallowhydidntyouknow · 15/04/2024 13:03

Daisybuttercup12345 · 10/04/2024 06:53

What would happen if there was a white only play?

Woulld never be allowed.

GoodAfternoonGoodEveningAndGoodnight · 15/04/2024 16:24

Gruffallowhydidntyouknow · 15/04/2024 13:03

Woulld never be allowed.

Why would there be any need for a "white only" audience?
What would be the reasoning behind it, why would it be of benefit?

mids2019 · 16/04/2024 04:59

I was talking to a cousin o of mine ('white') from South Africa about the concept of white privilege and he basically said in South Africa the term has morphed into the politics of resentment. SA is a country where all the cabinet are black and all the major inistitutions , judiciary, police etc. are dominated by people of colour. In theory there is certainly no white privilege in SA in the sense people here want to define it. This is a nation that is 80% poc.

However there are many that cling onto a philosophy akin to white privilege to excuse the large amounts of poverty, crime and unemployment within the country. In general it appears many of the white people are more economically wealthy and the wealth can't be explained by government policy or racial dominance as apartheid ended many years ago. White privilege which did exist 50 years ago has morphed into resentment.

HRTQueen · 16/04/2024 07:50

I really think you need to read up on South African history

PlasticOno · 16/04/2024 08:10

mids2019 · 16/04/2024 04:59

I was talking to a cousin o of mine ('white') from South Africa about the concept of white privilege and he basically said in South Africa the term has morphed into the politics of resentment. SA is a country where all the cabinet are black and all the major inistitutions , judiciary, police etc. are dominated by people of colour. In theory there is certainly no white privilege in SA in the sense people here want to define it. This is a nation that is 80% poc.

However there are many that cling onto a philosophy akin to white privilege to excuse the large amounts of poverty, crime and unemployment within the country. In general it appears many of the white people are more economically wealthy and the wealth can't be explained by government policy or racial dominance as apartheid ended many years ago. White privilege which did exist 50 years ago has morphed into resentment.

This is an outrageously under-informed post. And surely it’s not that hard to grasp that a system that had at various points restricted access to political, social and economic status on racial grounds, removed the Black right to vote or sit in parliament, had rules about what races were allowed to have sexual relationships with one another, and caused some of the largest scale mass evictions in history to the ‘homelands’, and which was only dismantled in the 1990s, is going to take a long time to recover from?

I won’t comment on your ‘friend’s bias.

mids2019 · 16/04/2024 09:06

The end of apartheid happened some time ago yet successive government's haven't addressed the economic problems of the country.

There is wealth disparity but the there can't be accusations is systemic racism in a country which is majority black Athe point is a lot of south Africans are now wanting a much more class based perspective in wealth inequality. There is also a feeling if all South Africans viewed themselves as a common people then it would be helpful in leaving the past behind

Quatty · 21/04/2024 18:54

HRTQueen · 16/04/2024 07:50

I really think you need to read up on South African history

No kidding!

yesmen · 22/04/2024 03:40

PenguinLord · 14/04/2024 08:50

@mids2019 But this brings us to the original question- is there or is there not white proiviledge?
Just ebcause some people dont experience it, does not mean it does not exist.
There are some amazing Japanese/Chinese/Korean etc actors around the world. And yet when employed in the West, they often play stock 'Asian martial arts person' type of roles.
If Japan was a country with the economy of Cambodia, the post-war racism towards the Japanese would be a lot more visible.
A similar situation happens in Europe with Germany and Eastern Europe. There is a lot of racism against Polish, Ukrainian, Lithuanian people etc. Does it mean that they can't be successful? No, some will make careers for themselves and do well. But jokes about Polish car thieves told on national TV by well known presenters are happening.

I suppose to tie all of this to the original idea- I dont think you can deny that there is a white priviledge (which does not contradict the fact that white people are facing challenges- they are just different). And that in a country with a difficult history, you will have a lot of citizens who are made to feel unwelcome and don't feel they belong.

This article I linked before I found really interesting, I have seen the performer and one of the play she mentions- she tackles the idea you mentioned earlier about Shakespeare and accents (and in the play you heard a bit of everything,) https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2024/apr/12/romeo-and-juliet-shakespeare-black-actors-francesca-amewudah-rivers

A similar situation happens in Europe with Germany and Eastern Europe. There is a lot of racism against Polish, Ukrainian, Lithuanian people etc. Does it mean that they can't be successful? No, some will make careers for themselves and do well. But jokes about Polish car thieves told on national TV by well known presenters are happening.

But they are all white? So, in Germany (following on from your example) there will be class, immigrant, migrant, colour and religious problems, with the larger resident group looking down on, blocking, or being racist against the newer incoming groups or existing groups of different colour, class or creed.

In any country where there is a majority of sameness - that group will have the privilege surely.

I mean, every country in the world will have that play out including in Black majority countries. The majority group will have the privillage. In Germany they will be White. In Ghana they will be Black.

yesmen · 22/04/2024 04:16

mids2019 · 16/04/2024 04:59

I was talking to a cousin o of mine ('white') from South Africa about the concept of white privilege and he basically said in South Africa the term has morphed into the politics of resentment. SA is a country where all the cabinet are black and all the major inistitutions , judiciary, police etc. are dominated by people of colour. In theory there is certainly no white privilege in SA in the sense people here want to define it. This is a nation that is 80% poc.

However there are many that cling onto a philosophy akin to white privilege to excuse the large amounts of poverty, crime and unemployment within the country. In general it appears many of the white people are more economically wealthy and the wealth can't be explained by government policy or racial dominance as apartheid ended many years ago. White privilege which did exist 50 years ago has morphed into resentment.

Bloody hell.

The history of South Africa, and really good analysis of that history, is freely available almost everywhere.

It would be worth researching a bit before posting about the country.

Josette77 · 22/04/2024 04:50

YouSetTheTone · 06/04/2024 14:40

I take your point and I’ve thought about why I don’t agree with it. Because I DO believe in some women only spaces.
The reason is that women require them for reasons of privacy, dignity and safety. Men are overwhelmingly more likely to be a perpetrator of sexual assault or violence than a woman. When a woman is changing or undergoing an intimate procedure (for example) and feels vulnerable it is an entirely reasonable biological impulse to prefer being around the same sex only.

Segregation based on race is a different thing. It’s racism. And that applies whichever race is requesting the segregation surely.

Black people are vulnerable to white people. That's the point. Still vulnerable. It is not always safe to be black around white people.

Josette77 · 22/04/2024 05:05

mids2019 · 12/04/2024 14:44

@PenguinLord

I think you can see with Beyonce what may be considered as a black women doing extremely well in a genre associated with white people i.e. country currently (which is great).

I think though that racial crossover of genres maybe works one way with white people getting accused of cultural misappropriation if they go into certain genre of music perhaps rap.

I suppose I was trying to point out that if we are using simplistic racial divided such as white/colour then invariably you will get people that are hard to place in these binary categories. Dua Lipa is white but given her Kosovan Muslim heritage may wish to identify herself with some of the prejudice faced in the UK (who knows).

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