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To think that using a chainsaw at 10am on a Sunday is a bit early/inconsiderate?

187 replies

namechangeaaargh · 02/04/2024 10:01

Just that really. We were woken up by it and thought it was 9am as we hadn't yet changed the clocks.

OP posts:
Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:19

brocollilover · 03/04/2024 10:16

you care about the majority

@Kalevala is focussed on the minority

I can assure you the majority of my neighbours are not asleep until late morning! Maybe it depends on the neighbourhood, many young families here. I try to do my best to be considerate of my neighbours.

xSideshowAuntSallyx · 03/04/2024 10:19

Zonder · 03/04/2024 08:58

The two incidents are quite different. If they do the 7am pulling of the bin again I would very calmly just mention that it wakes you up and would they mind putting the bin back later.

10am on a Sunday is perfectly acceptable, even if it's annoying for people who work late / nights on a Saturday.

I'd tell the OP to sod off if she spoke to me about taking my bin back later so she could sleep. How fucking entitled do you have to be!

There is no law to say when I can take my bin back.

brocollilover · 03/04/2024 10:22

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:19

I can assure you the majority of my neighbours are not asleep until late morning! Maybe it depends on the neighbourhood, many young families here. I try to do my best to be considerate of my neighbours.

late morning? you said you’d basically fire up the chainsaw at 9am

that isn’t “late morning”

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:24

brocollilover · 03/04/2024 10:22

late morning? you said you’d basically fire up the chainsaw at 9am

that isn’t “late morning”

11am is

PersephonePomegranate23 · 03/04/2024 10:25

9am or 10am is fine!

RavenswoodFalls · 03/04/2024 10:27

So if people can’t do things in the morning because others may be wanting to lie in, in the afternoon because people might be napping, in the evenings because of children’s bedtimes or overnight because that really is antisocial, when exactly are they meant to undertake audible home and garden maintenance?

fieldsofbutterflies · 03/04/2024 10:27

All of your examples seem absolutely fine and normal to me.

If I was woken up at 6am regularly, then I'd be annoyed but 7am during the week and 10am on the weekend is perfectly acceptable. The world doesn't stop just because you want to have a lie in.

PersephonePomegranate23 · 03/04/2024 10:28

namechangeaaargh · 02/04/2024 14:21

As I work late most saturday nights I prefer to sleep late on sunday morning. Controversial I know. Earplugs are ineffective againt a petrol chainsaw that's just a few metres away. Well mine are anyway. If anyone knows of a good brand please let me know.

I haven't been stewing, it's just that another neighbour asked me about it this morning as they thought it was us making the noise. My partner was also cross and he is normally incredibly laid back. So I was wondering whether to have a friendly word, but given the consensus I won't.

How late?! Even if you went to bed at 2am that's still 8 hours sleep, or 7 with the clocks changing!!

brocollilover · 03/04/2024 10:28

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:24

11am is

yes indeed

but i said 10 and it was me you were quoting

Screamingabdabz · 03/04/2024 10:30

YANBU op - that would probably be my DH because he’s an annoying ‘morning person’ who makes a lot of noise when I’m still delicately facing the world. To him 10am is the middle of the day as he’ll have been up 6 hours.

Those early morning jet wash, strimmers and lawn mower fuckers ought to be shot. Especially if they disturb the peace on a Sunday - what wrong with people? It’s Sunday, just chill the fuck out and enjoy the birds tweeting.

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:33

RavenswoodFalls · 03/04/2024 10:27

So if people can’t do things in the morning because others may be wanting to lie in, in the afternoon because people might be napping, in the evenings because of children’s bedtimes or overnight because that really is antisocial, when exactly are they meant to undertake audible home and garden maintenance?

Yes, it all gets a bit ridiculous! It's being considerate of night owls but no one else that doesn't make sense to me. Either noise is fine in daylight hours or else think about more than one group.

Cuwins · 03/04/2024 10:34

Problem is everyone has such different sleeping habits that nobody can take them all in to account!
My partner works nights but I wouldn't expect neighbours (and we are in a flat so noise definitely travels) to take that in to account.
On the other hand we have a 2 year old who regularly starts the day at 5am! I do try to keep her quiet till 7am (and thankfully have a very good relationship with downstairs!) but 10am is practically lunchtime here, wouldn't even occur to me to limit noise (beyond what is always polite in a flat) at that time of day.
Same 2 year old goes to bed at 7:30pm, bedroom wall is shared with the flat stairwell so people regularly go past chatting and laughing loudly, she has been woken by this before but I wouldn't complain before 9/10pm as it's not their fault she is asleep so early.
We sleep with a white noise machine to help with outside noise, started when we had very noisy upstairs neighbours in a previous flat and now wouldn't be without it. Toddler also sleeps with one on.

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:35

brocollilover · 03/04/2024 10:28

yes indeed

but i said 10 and it was me you were quoting

Not in this quote chain. Sorry, I can't keep track of what everyone has said.

hookiewookie29 · 03/04/2024 10:36

10am is fine. Wish my neighbour left it thst late- he was smashing up a rockery one Sunday at 7.10am!!

StaunchMomma · 03/04/2024 10:39

Annoying if you like a lie in but not too early, no.

I was a bit pissed of this Sunday to have our door knocked at 9.30am by a man selling his bloody paintings 🙄Stings a bit when the clocks have gone forward that night as well but it is what it is, really.

Soigneur · 03/04/2024 10:41

It's fine - and pretty expected to hear chainsaws after the storms we've had - loads of trees down and roads blocked.

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 10:51

Soigneur · 03/04/2024 10:41

It's fine - and pretty expected to hear chainsaws after the storms we've had - loads of trees down and roads blocked.

Especially with the weather still being so variable. If it's light and dry you need to get on with it!

destroyess · 03/04/2024 11:52

You should really be up by 10am OP.

Zonder · 03/04/2024 12:14

xSideshowAuntSallyx · 03/04/2024 10:19

I'd tell the OP to sod off if she spoke to me about taking my bin back later so she could sleep. How fucking entitled do you have to be!

There is no law to say when I can take my bin back.

There's no law about it but in my experience neighbourhoods work better when there's a little bit of consideration all round.

fieldsofbutterflies · 03/04/2024 12:20

Zonder · 03/04/2024 12:14

There's no law about it but in my experience neighbourhoods work better when there's a little bit of consideration all round.

But consideration works both ways, and complaining about normal household noise at 7am isn't great way to foster neighbourly relations.

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 12:20

Zonder · 03/04/2024 12:14

There's no law about it but in my experience neighbourhoods work better when there's a little bit of consideration all round.

I agree, as long as it's consideration both ways between people who favour daylight hours and those who prefer to stay up into the night.

We have decent neighbours who will message on the WhatsApp group 'Hey guys, we are having some friends around for a small party in the garden on Saturday evening, will be moving inside by x time, please let us know if we are too loud.' They are the ones that will get a bit of extra consideration on Sunday morning!

Kalevala · 03/04/2024 12:23

fieldsofbutterflies · 03/04/2024 12:20

But consideration works both ways, and complaining about normal household noise at 7am isn't great way to foster neighbourly relations.

Yes, if you have the type who complain about normal daytime noise then call people party poopers when they complain about loud talking/laughing/music at 1am then it doesn't work.

Zonder · 03/04/2024 12:28

Asking a neighbour to take their bin in after work rather than before shouldn't cause too much distress, surely? And if it did OP could offer to put their bin back later.

fieldsofbutterflies · 03/04/2024 12:31

Zonder · 03/04/2024 12:28

Asking a neighbour to take their bin in after work rather than before shouldn't cause too much distress, surely? And if it did OP could offer to put their bin back later.

It depends how you approach it, doesn't it?

"Your bloody bin wakes me up at 7 every week and I'm sick of it" vs "Don't worry about your sorting your bins before work, I'm happy to do it when I sort mine as it's been waking me up".

Zonder · 03/04/2024 12:34

Absolutely @fieldsofbutterflies