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Aibu to ask if you have a famous DH

756 replies

MeadowL · 29/03/2024 21:02

Does it bother you? I have a semi famous DH, he gets paid to gig and go on podcasts etc if we go out locally he does get asked for selfies so we tend to go away for weekends as a family.

I do find it slightly annoying but I guess it pays the bills 💃

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murphys · 30/03/2024 09:40

I went on a date with a singer from a band that were pretty well known back in the day.

There was no second date as he was a prize prat and talked about himself and his has-been days the whole time. And he was about 10 years older than he claimed, although it was partly my fault for not checking that out first.

It was so bad that every now and then during his speaking (which was non stop) he'd sing the line out 🤣. Talk about drying up a fanny instantly.

I deleted his number as I got back into my car to go home.

ItsVeryHyacinthBucket · 30/03/2024 09:40

Not my DH, but one of my extended family was really famous actor in the 90s. He has worked since but nothing so main character/high profile, eh he was in GOT but a small part only. He gets recognised very occasionally, but hasn’t really worked since, struggled a lot with mental health and addiction, etc. Fame is no guarantee of anything.

Everythinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:46

Hoppinggreen · 30/03/2024 09:35

My friend (who I met on here but we have both NC) has a v famous comedian Husband. She messaged me as we had something in common and we discovered we live close to eachother and arranged to meet but as she uses her maiden name I had no idea. Before we met I looked her up on FB to make sure she wasnt an axe murderer and saw a photo of her with her H, googling confirmed who she was.
We then had an odd situation where I didnt ever refer to it but she dropped lots of hints when we met like "H lives mostly in London" and "H is in television" and I pretended not to have any idea who he was until eventually she asked if I had heard of X as he was her H and I was torn between acting surprised and admitted I had known all along - I actually admitted it and we had a good laugh about it.
They live somewhere quite unassuming as she has MH issues and needs to be near her family, sometimes there will be rumours on the local FB page that X was spotted in Sainsburys or whatever but most people just say thats ridiculous as what would he be doing round here. I have never met him but watch him on TV sometimes

I've always thought the very famous who are unassuming are the ones who are in it for the craft and not the fame, and fame is just a consequence.

Sidebeforeself · 30/03/2024 09:47

I wish posters doubting my claims to be Camilla would stop being so rude and judgey.I could have you locked up in the tower.

Anyway, I once wrote into Magpie and got a badge “Eight for a wish” I think it was.

Palmtreechacha · 30/03/2024 09:47

A singer from a still famous band asked me out in the 90s but I said no because I didnt find him remotely attractive.

I am lol at SHABBA 😂

faffadoodledo · 30/03/2024 09:48

MyDHusedtobeanMP · 30/03/2024 09:37

My DH used to be an MP and his minor celebrity it was an inconvenience at the best of times and horrendous at others.

The inconvenience was some people fawning over him or awkward conversations when people were slagging him off. Being lectured by taxi drivers and others. Every time I bought and paid for tickets to something getting accused of freebies. I could never express my opinion online in case it ended up in the local paper as MP's wife says...

Horrendous varied from hate on social media through to rubbish being dumped in our garden, threats of violence, having to carry attack alarms, emergency plans with school for the children's safety. Having to install CCTV on the house and twice being told by special branch to leave our home for days for safety.

He's no longer one and enough time has passed for him to be lovely and obscure again.

Friend of ours will be standing next election. I'm astounded that he'd want to put himself through all this tbh. His wife is being very stoic about it but must be bricking it. He has a good chance of winning too.
Gulp.. and your story is presumably from a few years ago too, when things weren't apparently as bad. Awful. Bet you're glad your DH left politics!

IVFendomum · 30/03/2024 09:51

Brandnewskytohangyourstarsupon · 29/03/2024 21:08

I’ve got a really fucking annoying husband.
So annoying he could be famous for it.

😂

Downunderduchess · 30/03/2024 09:51

wizzbitt · 29/03/2024 21:33

I
I am Camilla 😉

You can’t be, I am Camilla and my husband is the King of Engerland

Palmtreechacha · 30/03/2024 09:51

Horrendous varied from hate on social media through to rubbish being dumped in our garden, threats of violence, having to carry attack alarms, emergency plans with school for the children's safety. Having to install CCTV on the house and twice being told by special branch to leave our home for days for safety

This is awful. There was an article in the paper recently about MPs not wanting to do the job any more due to death threats and harassment of their families. I dont blame them.

Cattyisbatty · 30/03/2024 09:52

AGodawfulsmallaffair · 30/03/2024 09:22

The bogie sketches will make me laugh until the end of time. Especially in the library 🤭

Same! I‘M still tempted to shout ‘bogies!’ In quiet places. Dick and Dom are (ironically) DJs now!!!

IVFendomum · 30/03/2024 09:53

BobnLen · 29/03/2024 21:48

Two threads on this semi famous sponsored DH. I would go the whole hog and do an AMA

Oh yes!

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/03/2024 09:55

GertrudePerkinsPaperyThing · 29/03/2024 22:34

No, I don’t think I’d like to be married to someone famous (I’m not married at all in fact)

My aunt is sort of famous. I think if someone close to you is famous, or at least well known, you don’t see them as famous but just as themselves.

My aunt was famous in 70s/80s as a model. But not like Jerry Jagger or anything. She was best mates with Robert Palmer (got photo of them) at 15 though and on tv in adverts a lot. I’ve got a Sunday paper magazine where she’s in a photo shoot with another model and Freddie Mercury. I don’t know which adverts but my stepmum said she’d seen her on tv, this was in 80s. But her DH was nasty and 15 years older than her and she now lives in Paris as it’s away from him but she was under police protection when they divorced. I wouldn’t say she’s famous though.

MrsSkylerWhite · 30/03/2024 09:56

Do you live in Norwich?

SparrowBarlo · 30/03/2024 09:57

MaybeRevisitYourWipingT3chnique · 30/03/2024 00:00

I don't want to be too outing, so let's just say... my name is Mrs Pickering and my DH shares the same name as both men in a top comedy double act from a few decades back.

He was already a celebrity in our town, but since then he's become a top YouTube star and everyday life is just horrendous, with all the fans. For some bizarre reason that I've never been able to fathom, they always seem to do owl impressions and shout "Whoooo" whenever they see him. Maybe they're taunting him because, owing to his immense fame, he can now only come out at night?

Your husband is a legend 😂 (perhaps not for all the right reasons though 😅)

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 30/03/2024 09:57

If it makes you feel any better OP I know people who know Fabio and grooverider (proper south London DJs). They’re completely normal. Locally to me live members of Soul to Soul, seen them in bars and chatted to them and you’d only know because they still have the high locs/dreads hairstyles. Very chilled guys.

HornyHornersPinkyWinky · 30/03/2024 09:58

FoxyLoxyLoo · 29/03/2024 22:58

I’ve just been looking for it and can’t find it 🥲

I think this might be it - https://www.mumsnet.com/talk/mumsnet_classics/1498923-Shouting-at-me-in-the-supermarket

IVFendomum · 30/03/2024 09:58

LovelyButteryBiscuitBase · 30/03/2024 09:18

No, I am Camilla!

Erm actually, I am 👑

KnightsAway · 30/03/2024 09:59

Yes it's extremely tiresome having other women fawn all over him.

Aibu to ask if you have a famous DH
CurlyTop1980 · 30/03/2024 09:59

My DH is famous amongst the elderly w. here we live. He spends ages talking to the old blokes.

Now yout DH sound pretty special being so famous. Is he the guy that does the school disco?

FoxyLoxyLoo · 30/03/2024 10:02

Thank you so much! I’ve been looking for that thread to re-read for months.

DistinguishedSocialCommentator · 30/03/2024 10:02

Over 35 years ago I met a guy at work. He had an ordinary, lowest grade admin job as he was starting out in this country. Talking to him one day (he was very educated with degrees from Nigeria and though he had an accent his English was cleary and that of an educated person)) he said, "did you know that I'm the 96th most well known person in Nigeria."? I looked at him and thought, WTH, '96th.... and also thought, WTH if he said he was the 2nd or 3rd I could understand that. All I said is 'ok' and its always stuck in my mind

He left soon after to run his own "business" he was a nice, polite and political man.

We are not famous and my OH was well known when they was in the papers years ago, local papers but that is about it

takemeawayagain · 30/03/2024 10:02

My husband was on Wide Awake Club in the 80's. He won a pillow case full of prizes. It does bother me as I am still jealous.

CJsGoldfish · 30/03/2024 10:03

MeadowL · 29/03/2024 21:24

I asked admin to take it down as it was outing 🙈🙊

😂😂😂

LasagneLasagne · 30/03/2024 10:04

My DH won £1,000 in a radio competition a couple of years ago. We had our picture posted on their FB page. We've tried not to let the money change us, buying just the one helicopter.

Freefree · 30/03/2024 10:07

A picture I drew in primary school was shown on a local TV show, my brothers friends parents rang to say well done..that was the height of it. I imagine everyone else who saw it was far too jealous to say anything to me.., I tell my children time to time of it and they quite rightly are amazed and very proud of me (aged 3 and 4).