Cheeky Fckers

[thisisasurvivor]

I had a work trip on mon and Tue

Tue was a 12 hour day and was up since 4 working

My friend text at 9.30pm to let me know she needed to drop her soon uo at 8am
The next fcking day to be looked after

I text back that I was not even home yet

She didn't respond

7.40am next day knock on door
She dropped her son off

I was so angry/tired/ bewildered to go bat shit

SHE DIDNT TEXT AFTER TO EVEN SAY SORRY OR TO THANK me

I'm so done with letting this shit happen

Sorry I just need to vent

Next time she asks I need a firm response

No doesn't seem to work as she has been known to come up anyway and say she has no one

I'm a single parent and I work from home

She has dropped her kids to me many times while I work from home

Fcking cheek

She has many sister in laws who can step in wt f is she still as this utter shit

@thisisasurvivor

How the hell do I get myself in these situations

The same way I used to, by not speaking up for ourselves. By being 'nice' and 'ladylike' like our parents (usually our mums) and society told us to.

But now I'm old and if I don't like the way I'm being treated or if I feel someone is taking advantage, I give them a hard stare and say "I can't believe I'm hearing your correctly" or "No, that won't be happening" or as a last resort "Fuck you, the horse you rode in on, and the stable you're keeping it at".

There are benefits to growing old.

Hehe these are great responses !!!!

Update

She has moved on to my sis

Asked for a hand this morning
Dropped kids up for an hour at 8am
Now text to say it could be 3pm when she returns

Fck sake
I'm out of it now thankfully

She has zero shame

Zero

My sister is a doctor Been on nights all week

No way! What did your sister say?

Is your sister stupid?

Well my sister agreed initially to an hour

She can't believe this hour is now a 3pm pick up

She just text me

I don't know what she said to her

Fcking cheeky

I'm not having any of this

I have huge debt to pay and no time for other people's kids
The guilt would destroy me

Yeah a total thicko if she is a doctor.
I doubt she will put up with it either!!

No need to be mean

She is a big walk over too

Charming as always

Is she not able to be assertive?

Presumably OP and her sister were brought up in the same family.

People-pleasing can be baked in. It’s not a sign of low intelligence.

She has been warned about the shit she pulled on me

Shame she did not have an excuse for today
She text to say
I can't get back to you until 3pm
My sister called her and no answer

Her kids have a party to go to at 2pm and she has a tiny car so how will she drop them off no Fck sake !!!!

Neck of her

She has gone for brunch it appears (tagged on an Instragram story ) 🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

OP, please do not get involved. If you go and bail your sister out, you'll both be at square one with CF.
You've warned your sister. Hopefully this situation will help her put her foot down next time

I hope so
I really do

Lessons learned the hard way

Her gift hasn't won me over

So you watch your sister’s kids for an hour whilst she takes Brass Neck woman’s kids to the brunch. Drop and go.

Defintely stay on your guard. There is a real danger of CF trying to wheedle her way back in with you, as shown with the gift.

Unfortunately your sister will need to learn this lesson herself

What bullshit reason did she give for needing to drop them off for an “hour” at 08:00 on a Saturday anyway?
I honestly would call her and say - you come back for them now or they’re in their way to your brunch.

Can you tell where the brunch is? I would offer to have your sister’s kids while she takes CF kids to the brunch.

I'm working this morning

Paid my childminder

I would 100 per cent do this otherwise

Fck her she has messed this up so bad

Tell her to come and get them now or you're calling the police and social services. I can't believe the cheek of her!

I did suggest that
No reply From sister

She did not think this would happen today

She is not a total walkover tries to help others

I paid for childcare today I would not dream to send mine up to her after she had such a heavy week

CF knew she was on nights too

Doesn't care less

That's good too my sister needs to provide from 8 to 3pm

And they don't like dogs so dogs had to be locked up in the garage
Fck sake !!!!!!!

If you know where CF is having brunch then your sister definitely needs to go and drop them off.
In future she needs to say no, every single time! Not an hour. Not half an hour. Just a big fat NO!

What did I tell you.

God this is so infuriating

If I was your sister, I would go to where CF was having brunch and drop her DC off

Also I would say to the group that it was agreed that I would watch your DC for 1 hour and that I am a DR who has been on nights all week and I need my downtime which is more important than a brunch.

Basically I would publically shame her - not in a hysterical way; a calm, deliberate way so that CF would know in no uncertain terms that she was a fucking bitch and don't pull this shit again.