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To want every women in England to vote Tory at the GR

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Hurrydash · 28/03/2024 02:01

So I don't agree with Angela Rayner's description of the Tories as scum, but I get her drift and if she'd been more tempered in her language I probably would have bought in.

HOWEVER

For me - and actually should be got everyone - the only real issue at the next GE is freedom of speech/women's rights.

I see Labour as the destroyer of these and so must vote against them. The only meaningful way to do this is to vote Tory which I am reluctant but prepared to do.

Is this unreasonable?

Happy to be convinced - for real not just words - if there is evidence Labour (Starmer 1 in 1000 women have a dick) may see the light before the GE.

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ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:11

ColleenDonaghy · 28/03/2024 11:38

You know that beloved trope on here, where someone says that there are transphobes posting on MN, and then the response is a faux-concerned request for evidence?

The repeated equating of transwomen and rapists on this thread is an example of the transphobia that is left to stand on MN.

If that's your 'evidence', you'd better look for something else to try to prove your point.

Not having RTFT, I read back in the quote history attached to your post & can see where a reasoned debate was misunderstood (at best) by another poster & it's now grown into an attack on MN itself.

Move on. This is a thread about the next general election.

lb191302 · 28/03/2024 12:14

Hopefully for the good of the country, more women will demonstrate more intellectual prowess than you do at the GE.

Soapboxqueen · 28/03/2024 12:14

Acapulco12 · 28/03/2024 11:49

Out of curiosity, why do you not want to vote Labour? You don’t have to reply, of course.

I really want to be able to vote labour. They are just making it very difficult.

Tbh it started with Brexit (always been a labour voter and even member). I was pissed off with the lackluster efforts of the labour party during the campaign. I know it was the Tories' clusterfuck but they were hardly a shining example either.

Then at the next general election, when everyone was encouraged to vote labour or lib dem to show they didn't support Brexit. Only for a senior Labour MP to say that every single labour vote was an endorsement of Brexit. Even though there was still considerable infighting within the party about it. The end result was that my vote was perceived as a Brexit vote.

This has very much influenced my voting since. I might not be massively bothered by many party policies but I have to make sure that might vote is not an endorsement of something I'm really against.

Add to that labour's stance on women's rights. Labour MPs stating male rapists should absolutely be in women's prisons if they identify as women.

The general sneering at women trying to make a point and being dismissed as bigots. Like some things in society are just settled and should not be discussed further. This in itself frustrates me as it leaves a wide open goal for the tories to capitalise on.

Couple that with the general air of not really wanting to be in power and you've got major issues. Now, I think people like Kier Starmer do want to be in power, but a significant number of labour don't want it. They say they do but they don't. They don't want to do the work. They prefer to criticise from the side lines and pontificate about the nature of socialism. Which in part explains the disconnect in traditional labour areas and why some went blue last time.

For the last ten years at least they've being going through some sort of schism but a lot don't want to really tackle it or acknowledge it.

Which gets distilled down into many people are not voting for labour. They are voting not tory which doesn't translate into labour being in a strong position.

Anyway. Apologies for the long reply.

BIossomtoes · 28/03/2024 12:15

WaterWeasel · 28/03/2024 12:11

Yes this is so apparent in this thread. The name calling and aggression at women who may chose to NOT vote Labour is also revolting. I still think that Labour are in for a surprise at the election - it will not be the win that they expect it to be.

The mouthpiece of the Tory party and the UK’s most highly respected political expert disagree with you:

BRITAIN’S foremost polling guru has said there is a “99 per cent chance” of Labour winning the next election.

Prof Sir John Curtice said that it is “clearly” very unlikely the Tories will be in power after the autumn, when Rishi Sunak is widely expected to call a vote.

The political scientist also said he believes Labour will be in a “much stronger position” to form a minority government in the event of a hung parliament, as the Tories “have no friends in the House of Commons”.

It comes as a new survey for The Telegraph has found the Conservatives have sunk to their lowest poll rating since the “bloody aftermath” of Liz Truss’s misfiring mini-budget.

Just 24 per cent of people polled by Savanta said they planned to vote Tory, compared with 44 per cent who backed Labour.

ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:15

Wonderfulstuff · 28/03/2024 11:49

I love nothing more than when a Tory threatens doom to anyone not voting Tory as if we have been all living through the golden years.

Nothing in my life has been improved in the last 14 years.

  • I pay more tax than I ever did under a labour government
  • My pay doesn't go as far - the government could have taken more action to mitigate the COL crisis as seen in other countries but it chose to allow mainly foreign owned companies prosper at our cost.
  • Schools have less funding and the flogging off of schools to MAT is a disaster in the making.
  • My county council has less funding and has had to cut back nearly all children and family services including selling off of properties (i.e. they're never coming back)
  • NHS services are the worst I've experienced in my 40 odd years
  • Can't get GP appointments and when you can you can't get a prescription filled
  • The cost of getting work on public transport is now taking a higher proportion of my salary for a pretty terrible service
  • Crime has increased in my local area and police presence has decreased. Some of the police services have been merged with the next county which means less police covering greater geographical areas
  • Over development in our local area without upgrading infrastructure means that water shortages are now a reality for may homes in the summer and standpipes are a common sight. Additionally local children aren't able to get places in local school as there has been little investment in additional school places.
  • Wages have stagnated

I could go on further but I find it hard to understand why anyone would vote Tory again at this election. Unless you are in the 0.01% of billionaires of course... or maybe think you are.

What does anybody think Labour will/can do about any of that? Where would the money come from?

BIossomtoes · 28/03/2024 12:17

ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:15

What does anybody think Labour will/can do about any of that? Where would the money come from?

There won’t be any more of our money going on pointless ideology for a start - have you seen what they’ve spent on HS2 and Rwanda?

AdamRyan · 28/03/2024 12:18

Thelnebriati · 28/03/2024 11:51

Out of curiosity, why do you not want to vote Labour?

Labour expelled loads of female members who were against self ID.

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-politics-51465800

That was a pledge and I don't think they ever enacted it (although they did expel some members when Corbyn was leader).

Worth noting Starmer never signed up to it. The party is very different now to what it was under Corbyn. Hence Owen Jones leaving.

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/politics/2020/feb/13/labour-leadership-contenders-split-over-trans-group-pledge-card

Labour leadership contenders split over trans group pledge card

Candidates differ on pledge that describes Woman’s Place UK and LGB Alliance as ‘trans-exclusionist hate groups’

https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/politics/2020/feb/13/labour-leadership-contenders-split-over-trans-group-pledge-card

windowframer · 28/03/2024 12:18

Crikeyalmighty · 28/03/2024 12:09

Well I for one won't be. It's all very well banging on about the single sex rights etc - but the current situation is with the Tory's in power- they enabled it-

Yeah but only because the woke left forced them to. Or something.

Acapulco12 · 28/03/2024 12:22

ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:15

What does anybody think Labour will/can do about any of that? Where would the money come from?

It could partly come from putting up taxes, which is unpopular but is also a traditionally Labour policy.

Jovacknockowitch · 28/03/2024 12:22

Soapboxqueen · 28/03/2024 12:14

I really want to be able to vote labour. They are just making it very difficult.

Tbh it started with Brexit (always been a labour voter and even member). I was pissed off with the lackluster efforts of the labour party during the campaign. I know it was the Tories' clusterfuck but they were hardly a shining example either.

Then at the next general election, when everyone was encouraged to vote labour or lib dem to show they didn't support Brexit. Only for a senior Labour MP to say that every single labour vote was an endorsement of Brexit. Even though there was still considerable infighting within the party about it. The end result was that my vote was perceived as a Brexit vote.

This has very much influenced my voting since. I might not be massively bothered by many party policies but I have to make sure that might vote is not an endorsement of something I'm really against.

Add to that labour's stance on women's rights. Labour MPs stating male rapists should absolutely be in women's prisons if they identify as women.

The general sneering at women trying to make a point and being dismissed as bigots. Like some things in society are just settled and should not be discussed further. This in itself frustrates me as it leaves a wide open goal for the tories to capitalise on.

Couple that with the general air of not really wanting to be in power and you've got major issues. Now, I think people like Kier Starmer do want to be in power, but a significant number of labour don't want it. They say they do but they don't. They don't want to do the work. They prefer to criticise from the side lines and pontificate about the nature of socialism. Which in part explains the disconnect in traditional labour areas and why some went blue last time.

For the last ten years at least they've being going through some sort of schism but a lot don't want to really tackle it or acknowledge it.

Which gets distilled down into many people are not voting for labour. They are voting not tory which doesn't translate into labour being in a strong position.

Anyway. Apologies for the long reply.

You seem a bit confused about Brexit. Both Labour and Tories have significant numbers of Brexit supporters. If you wanted to express an anti-Brexit vote, the Lib Dems has very clearly articulated this as their policy.

Almahart · 28/03/2024 12:22

CBA to read the whole thread but you must be fucking joking.

Successive Conservative governments have been a disaster for women and children, highest levels of child poverty ever, rape effectively legalised.

It makes me angry to even type those words, the thought that they have the interests of women at heart is ridiculous.

justteanbiscuits · 28/03/2024 12:23

Not a bloody chance.

I care way more about women than a simple definition. I care about their healthcare, I care about their rights to bodily autonomy, I care about their rights to be safe on the streets, I care about there being a adequately funded police force to protect them, I care about their right to be believed when they have been raped, I care about their access to affordable childcare, I care about menopausal women.

If you don't care about the above, and only care about a description, then knock yourself out and vote Tory. But do not say you are voting Tory on the basis of supporting women. Because you aren't.

EasternStandard · 28/03/2024 12:23

ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:15

What does anybody think Labour will/can do about any of that? Where would the money come from?

Good question, although expectations on extra money funding or provided always seems high on these threads

ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:23

BIossomtoes · 28/03/2024 12:17

There won’t be any more of our money going on pointless ideology for a start - have you seen what they’ve spent on HS2 and Rwanda?

The sort of answer I'm looking for is a straight one: what will/can Labour do & where's the money coming from?

Previous Labour governments have not been perfect either, btw.

WaterWeasel · 28/03/2024 12:23

ArcticOwl · 28/03/2024 11:21

Making your personal feelings about Transfolk and the impact on womens rights the focus of you vote is SO SO blind, and beyond stupid.

I can't even.

Oh god....'Transfolk'...😂

AdamRyan · 28/03/2024 12:24

justteanbiscuits · 28/03/2024 12:23

Not a bloody chance.

I care way more about women than a simple definition. I care about their healthcare, I care about their rights to bodily autonomy, I care about their rights to be safe on the streets, I care about there being a adequately funded police force to protect them, I care about their right to be believed when they have been raped, I care about their access to affordable childcare, I care about menopausal women.

If you don't care about the above, and only care about a description, then knock yourself out and vote Tory. But do not say you are voting Tory on the basis of supporting women. Because you aren't.

Very well said

AdamRyan · 28/03/2024 12:25

This thread has been immensely cheering to read. Thanks for starting it OP

anniegun · 28/03/2024 12:25

This is the type of thinking that has ruined the country. Broken NHS and schools, the economy in tatters, the Tories syphoning public money to their mates. But you know ....(insert one minor issue with Labour here).. vote for 5 more years of this shit

Jovacknockowitch · 28/03/2024 12:26

EasternStandard · 28/03/2024 12:23

Good question, although expectations on extra money funding or provided always seems high on these threads

Well for a start, the most urgent policy priority at every turn won't be funnelling as much cash as possible to the already wealthy.
Millions won't be given to the likes of Mone for fuck all.
And hopefully we won't be wasting any more on not sending anyone but politicians to Rwanda.
Just for a start.

EasternStandard · 28/03/2024 12:26

Crikeyalmighty · 28/03/2024 12:09

Well I for one won't be. It's all very well banging on about the single sex rights etc - but the current situation is with the Tory's in power- they enabled it-

The GRA enables and underpins gender ideology. You’ll find the same in countries with similar legislation. Some go further than others Canada etc and you can see it with puberty blockers, only a few have stopped them

Iwasafool · 28/03/2024 12:27

ifIwerenotanandroid · 28/03/2024 12:23

The sort of answer I'm looking for is a straight one: what will/can Labour do & where's the money coming from?

Previous Labour governments have not been perfect either, btw.

So if Labour aren't perfect we should vote Tory regardless of the shitshow they have caused in this country? I'm not following the logic.

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 28/03/2024 12:28

I've seen nothing from Labour that convinces me anything will be better under them, and quite a lot which suggests things will be worse..

They seem equally likely to set up structures that cream off funding for the 1% whilst things crumble - PFI and the expenses scandal (MP housing- where many Labour politicians got rich quick by flipping properties in London using taxpayer funded 'expenses').

No plans to renationalise the railway / water etc. They're even keener on unaccountable arms length control and top down diktat (like MATs) than the Tories. At least with the Tories it's 'market forces' so there's more wriggle room do something different if things are going wrong by going with a different provider (of course this doesn't work for things like railways, which is why they should be renationalised IMO).

Most politicians are out for personal gain and not that interested in the needs of the electorate. Labour openly sneer at people's views on things like immigration, even when founded in a reality of not enough GP appointments / school places etc. They're not willing to debate, they just label anyone who speaks up as racist.

The few politicians that care about normal people are spread across all parties.

Am hoping for a decent independent to vote for but I won't vote Labour - unless Rosie Duffield or a few other decent ones move into my constituency

Iwasafool · 28/03/2024 12:28

Jovacknockowitch · 28/03/2024 12:26

Well for a start, the most urgent policy priority at every turn won't be funnelling as much cash as possible to the already wealthy.
Millions won't be given to the likes of Mone for fuck all.
And hopefully we won't be wasting any more on not sending anyone but politicians to Rwanda.
Just for a start.

Well to be fair sending some of those politicians to Rwanda wasn't a bad shout. The issue was letting them come back.

Junothatsagoodidea · 28/03/2024 12:28

I'd vote Labour just because of Angela Rayner alone, quite frankly!

Dumbledoreslemonsherbets · 28/03/2024 12:30

Oh and I see a lot more to worry about in terms of removal of free speech with Labour. The Tories seem to be happy for us normals to say what we like as long as we don't interrupt their cash flow. Labour seem to need to get rich whilst also pretending they are morally superior so controlling everyone else's speech and deciding what is 'right'.

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