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To point out that the word is “faze” and not “phase” in this context?

384 replies

Anyotherdude · 03/03/2024 13:57

I’ve been reading so many threads where someone writes about being “phased” or “not phased” about something.
it was bothering me so much that I checked to see if it was me that was getting it wrong.
I didn’t.
To faze is to disturb, bother, or embarrass, but a phase is a stage or step, so you can be phased into a role, but if you’re not bothered by something, it doesn’t faze you!

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Bilingualspingual · 03/03/2024 14:48

I feel like posters on MN are happy to correct/be corrected about all sorts of things, but when spelling is corrected people are absolutely horrified and I don’t understand why it’s so much more of a big deal than anything else.

Elphame · 03/03/2024 14:49

Anyotherdude · 03/03/2024 13:57

I’ve been reading so many threads where someone writes about being “phased” or “not phased” about something.
it was bothering me so much that I checked to see if it was me that was getting it wrong.
I didn’t.
To faze is to disturb, bother, or embarrass, but a phase is a stage or step, so you can be phased into a role, but if you’re not bothered by something, it doesn’t faze you!

It bugs me too, but it's now pretty ubiquitous and not just on forums. It's creeping into books as well.

Not that I ever say anything (except in this thread) but I do silently judge.

DrPsy · 03/03/2024 14:50

There is also no such word as ‘unfazed’. An English teacher once corrected me on this so I’ll always remember that!

Mystro202 · 03/03/2024 14:50

Can someone help me out please with quash/squash. Is it not "quash a rumour" ? I've heard so many celebs and TV shows where they say "squash the rumour" I don't know why but it really annoys me when u hear it. Maybe I'm too old for the young ones vocab 🤣

ancienticecream · 03/03/2024 14:51

"it's time to rest your wary eyes," either spoken or spelt in that manner really gets me 🤣 It's WEARY.

Elphame · 03/03/2024 14:51

Is it a prerequisite of becoming an estate agent that you must be a 22 year old man in overly tight trousers and pointy shoes

Do they all wear blue suits with brown shoes, or is it just our local ones?

TwigletsAndRadishes · 03/03/2024 14:52

lemonmeringueno3 · 03/03/2024 14:42

I love threads like this. I always learn something. I never understand why someone would rather keep making mistakes or looking ignorant. Thanks, op.

Totally, totally agree.

Shutting · 03/03/2024 14:52

Deedee248 · 03/03/2024 14:39

I suppose I would say that either one of them can be a verb, affect can never be a noun! You can’t have “an affect” - only an effect.

Affect can be a noun! See my earlier comment.

Deedee248 · 03/03/2024 14:55

Shutting · 03/03/2024 14:35

And in mental health we talk about ‘affect’ being the visible expression of someone’s mood. Eg ‘flattened affect’. So it can also be a noun! But that’s niche.

I haven’t come across this use of affect as a noun, but I’m not doubting what you say.

Shutting · 03/03/2024 14:56

The thing is, these errors are not victimless crimes. Each time I read, ‘would of’, a minute is shaved off my life expectancy.

Bbq1 · 03/03/2024 14:57

The worst mistake I ever saw was written on a card up in a shop window. A person was trying to sell a glass bowel! I assumed it was actually a glass bowl.
Surely everyone knows the difference between bowel and bowl!

Doyoumind · 03/03/2024 14:58

Shutting · 03/03/2024 14:56

The thing is, these errors are not victimless crimes. Each time I read, ‘would of’, a minute is shaved off my life expectancy.

Agree. I'm not ashamed to be a pedant.

NewGirlinClass · 03/03/2024 14:59

Can we move on to nouns that are both singular and plural?
Goods and Services. A term used in economics by serious people.
Recently on radio talk of a 'good' and a service. I shouted at the radio.

AgnesX · 03/03/2024 15:00

Not remotely unreasonable. It's so irritating!

Doyoumind · 03/03/2024 15:01

Was it on MN or on Twitter where women were talking about loving the smell of their man's colon (cologne)? That has to be up there with the best.

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 15:01

Put the breaks on! Pendant's corner is that way ->

😉

ReadtheReviews · 03/03/2024 15:02

The word triggered triggers me because it reminds me that everyone is either in therapy or using therapy speak.

Spag is annoying OP bit prefer to take the Marcus Aurelius approach where you don't correct them but instead use the word correctly yourself to model it.

SirVixofVixHall · 03/03/2024 15:02

MereDintofPandiculation · 03/03/2024 14:35

I don’t understand why people are so triggered by typos and spag errors. Because if you're a fast reader, it puts a hiccup into the fluency.

Agree with this.

TwigletsAndRadishes · 03/03/2024 15:03

Doyoumind · 03/03/2024 15:01

Was it on MN or on Twitter where women were talking about loving the smell of their man's colon (cologne)? That has to be up there with the best.

😂

WillYouPutYourCoatOn · 03/03/2024 15:03

I love the FB ad I saw this morning.

Chester Draws.

ASighMadeOfStone · 03/03/2024 15:10

Anyotherdude · 03/03/2024 13:57

I’ve been reading so many threads where someone writes about being “phased” or “not phased” about something.
it was bothering me so much that I checked to see if it was me that was getting it wrong.
I didn’t.
To faze is to disturb, bother, or embarrass, but a phase is a stage or step, so you can be phased into a role, but if you’re not bothered by something, it doesn’t faze you!

Yet poor punctuation clearly doesn't bother you. Or the last remaining vestige of the subjunctive. Or relative pronouns. Or tense and verb cohesion in a text ("I didn't" referring back to your original verb of "was getting")

Interesting, isn't it.

Garlicking · 03/03/2024 15:10

DrPsy · 03/03/2024 14:50

There is also no such word as ‘unfazed’. An English teacher once corrected me on this so I’ll always remember that!

Your English teacher was wrong. It's an "informal" word, though; you should probably have written undaunted or unconcerned.

What you should definitely NOT have written was "nonplussed"! Nonplussed means Confused but is often misused as its opposite.

Mystro202 · 03/03/2024 15:23

A receptionist at my previous role was asked to pen a Christmas message to clients and send it out.
She included "Mary Christmas" on it and sent it out. She was so embarrassed when pulled on it by Management 😳