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To say F** OFF!!

740 replies

zunchie · 03/03/2024 13:38

Maybe I'm overacting but I don't think I am. The other day I was at a cafe with my friend (31F) and I was pouting my lips when she looked at me and said 'that reminds me' and started applying chapstick. I was a bit confused by this but then I realised what she meant and I was very angry. But then yesterday we went out again and I can't remember the conversation but I stuck my teeth out in a funny way and she looked me up and down and said in a smug voice 'I need to book my dentist appointment' and she set a reminder in her calendar. Am I overreacting or is this not on? And how do I approach it without sounding paranoid?

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ForTonightGodisaDJ · 03/03/2024 20:35

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 20:33

Well OP isn’t on theirs or Katy’s or her ex friend’s Christmas card list that’s for sure.

Unless it's a "hope you have a shit Christmas" card 😂Sorry joke from another thread.

OldBeyondMyYears · 03/03/2024 20:35

Hillrunning · 03/03/2024 15:22

Also, is anyone else currently pulling odd faces simply to try to work out how ones sticks their teeth out?

Yes me! I've literally just been doing that...and laughing at myself for even thinking about it!

Top teeth about...I looked like a demented camel! Bottom teeth out...I looked like one of those hideous concrete gargoyles 🤣🤣

Pebbles16 · 03/03/2024 20:36

I feel like I've entered an alternative reality where people like the OP really exist.
Some of my friends are bonkers, but this is madness!
ooooo... and you have reminded me that I must invest in some Turkey teeth and filler to look better than all those around me...and then blame them for their chapped lips and poor oral hygiene

SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 20:36

Its a kick in the turkey teeth 😬

TinkerTiger · 03/03/2024 20:36

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:36

I think I have been blocked on whatsapp, I am going to message her on imessage. You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it.

You are the drama

Threemusketeers80 · 03/03/2024 20:36

Hold on...you said I must be a lovely person sarcastically because I said I avoid women like you...

The women who has basically called her friend ugly, started drama with her and blocked her. I mean I've had friends for 15 year's I've never fallen out with. So I'll stick to my previous comment.

Anyway I think your friend has had a lucky escape.

cockapup · 03/03/2024 20:37

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 03/03/2024 20:14

OP’s last message, which I’m guessing was a screenshot of her friend’s (ex-friend’s?) response, has been deleted for including identifying info. Could someone please take pity on me and tell me what it said? (Without identifying info obvs). I am on tenterhooks here!

Her friend responded and asked her what was wrong with her and she seemed mentally unstable. She said 2 other friends agreed with her. She asked OP not to contact her again but could she return K* glasses.

LuckySantangelo35 · 03/03/2024 20:37

I think I love you op

SpidersAreShitheads · 03/03/2024 20:38

Does anyone else think this might be the OP? 😂😂

To say F** OFF!!
ForTonightGodisaDJ · 03/03/2024 20:38

InactionIsAWeaponOfMassDestruction · 03/03/2024 20:22

🤣 Both good suggestions, but this is my fave. Discovered I have to type it in because I’d already posted on the thread with old name!

Love that we’re having a convo in the middle of this thread. Makes it a little more batshit 🤣

I'm going look that one up..

I know it's nice to have something a bit lighthearted in the midst of all the drama. 😄

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 20:39

Pebbles16 · 03/03/2024 20:36

I feel like I've entered an alternative reality where people like the OP really exist.
Some of my friends are bonkers, but this is madness!
ooooo... and you have reminded me that I must invest in some Turkey teeth and filler to look better than all those around me...and then blame them for their chapped lips and poor oral hygiene

But sadly women out there like this exist. I had a best friend who got veneers, then Botox, everything you could wish for. She basically looked a bit like a dark haired Barbie. She tried to get me to be like her but was never me.

Pebbles16 · 03/03/2024 20:40

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 20:39

But sadly women out there like this exist. I had a best friend who got veneers, then Botox, everything you could wish for. She basically looked a bit like a dark haired Barbie. She tried to get me to be like her but was never me.

Bloody hell
I feel like I have dodged a bullet

DontLeanOnTheKeyboard · 03/03/2024 20:43

Teeny takeaway for you op. People without fillers Botox blow up boobs Brezhnev eyebrows or weird ass fake fluorescent white teeth don’t envy you. Honestly.

puzzledout · 03/03/2024 20:43

SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 20:36

Its a kick in the turkey teeth 😬

GrinGrinGrinGrin

Gobble gobble

isitshe · 03/03/2024 20:44

This is one of the weirdest threads I've seen in quite some time.

SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 20:44

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 20:39

But sadly women out there like this exist. I had a best friend who got veneers, then Botox, everything you could wish for. She basically looked a bit like a dark haired Barbie. She tried to get me to be like her but was never me.

Did she pout in a coffee shop and get incandescent with rage and later demand to know your problem on WhatsApp when you didn’t say “nice lips,”? 🤪

puzzledout · 03/03/2024 20:45

isitshe · 03/03/2024 20:44

This is one of the weirdest threads I've seen in quite some time.

But very entertaining Grin

zunchie · 03/03/2024 20:46

Everyone on here is vile, telling me I need psychotherapy and god knows what else. I told her that if she wants the glasses she can come and get them herself but not sure if the message sent. I'm not a lapdog

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Henbags · 03/03/2024 20:46

You are a psycho and you type like a 15 year old.

zunchie · 03/03/2024 20:46

And thank you to the 12 percent of people who know I'm being reasonable, I expected a lot more but I suppose some people just don't get it.

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Wellhellooooodear · 03/03/2024 20:47

If the wind changes you'll stick like that 😂

Pebbles16 · 03/03/2024 20:48

zunchie · 03/03/2024 20:46

And thank you to the 12 percent of people who know I'm being reasonable, I expected a lot more but I suppose some people just don't get it.

No, because you are bonkers. And the 12% - are you on glue?!!

TheEyesOfLucyJordon · 03/03/2024 20:49

Judydoes2 · 03/03/2024 20:30

If this thread isn't already on Reddit I'll show my arse in Harrod's window.

Very sophisticated. My arse has an ongoing thing with Poundstretcher 😝

I reckon we're safe 🥰

Bitsiemcgee · 03/03/2024 20:49

zunchie · 03/03/2024 20:46

And thank you to the 12 percent of people who know I'm being reasonable, I expected a lot more but I suppose some people just don't get it.

Assuming this is real, do the million responses saying your reaction isn't the one of someone mentally well mean anything to you? I'm not having a dig, I'm really asking you, op

Bitsiemcgee · 03/03/2024 20:50

zunchie · 03/03/2024 20:46

And thank you to the 12 percent of people who know I'm being reasonable, I expected a lot more but I suppose some people just don't get it.

So you simultaneously unblocked each other then...?