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To say F** OFF!!

740 replies

zunchie · 03/03/2024 13:38

Maybe I'm overacting but I don't think I am. The other day I was at a cafe with my friend (31F) and I was pouting my lips when she looked at me and said 'that reminds me' and started applying chapstick. I was a bit confused by this but then I realised what she meant and I was very angry. But then yesterday we went out again and I can't remember the conversation but I stuck my teeth out in a funny way and she looked me up and down and said in a smug voice 'I need to book my dentist appointment' and she set a reminder in her calendar. Am I overreacting or is this not on? And how do I approach it without sounding paranoid?

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DontCallMeKidDontCallMeBaby · 03/03/2024 20:17

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 03/03/2024 20:14

OP’s last message, which I’m guessing was a screenshot of her friend’s (ex-friend’s?) response, has been deleted for including identifying info. Could someone please take pity on me and tell me what it said? (Without identifying info obvs). I am on tenterhooks here!

It was basically the ‘friend’ asking op not to contact her anymore. But it included names of other friends who agreed that the op was nuts. There was also a request to return another person’s glasses.

L0bstersLass · 03/03/2024 20:17

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:54

I have blocked her back in response. I have no time for people like that!

Believe me, she will be thrilled.

notwavingbutdrowning1 · 03/03/2024 20:17

ReadingSoManyThreads · 03/03/2024 20:16

It was her (now ex) friend telling her to never contact her again and that she's mentally unstable and their other friends agree with her and to drop off someone's glasses.

Edited

Thanks, @ReadingSoManyThreads . Were the words 'mentally unstable' used or was it something more - ahem - colourful?

JaneAustensHeroine · 03/03/2024 20:17

Whyiseveryfuckinggoodnametaken · 03/03/2024 20:15

That reminds me I need to make an appointment with my psychotherapist.

😂

therealcookiemonster · 03/03/2024 20:18

HotChocolateNotCocoa · 03/03/2024 20:12

You’ve inspired me…

My mate envies my sexy pout
I thought, “It’s time to call her out”
But then things they got really murky
When I flashed the teeth I bought in Turkey

Now all of Mumsnet’s taking bets
On if I’m mad or it’s Tourette’s
They snipe at me and make me frown
Just cos I won’t write “lesbian” down 🙁

She’s jealous - I don’t mean to boast
But now it seems she chose to ghost
A funny face caused all this grief!
It's a proper kick in the (Turkey) teeth.

I bow to your poetic genius

you my friend should be the next poet laureate

EffortlesslyInelegant · 03/03/2024 20:18

You can't just start drama and then try and back away from it

Oh you so can. You need to do exactly this. Starting right now. Actually starting five minutes before your OP but it's a bit late for that. Do it now.

nosleepforme · 03/03/2024 20:19

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:54

I have blocked her back in response. I have no time for people like that!

Omg this actually got more immature!

JaneAustensHeroine · 03/03/2024 20:19

The money paid for teeth and fillers would have been so much better invested elsewhere (as is so often the case unfortunately)….

CustardySergeant · 03/03/2024 20:20

Would someone please be kind enough to tell me what the deleted post at 19.49 said? I have been cooking my dinner so missed it.

Thanks in advance.

😊 <---- sweet smile

HMW1906 · 03/03/2024 20:22

Jesus, you sound hard work!

InactionIsAWeaponOfMassDestruction · 03/03/2024 20:22

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 03/03/2024 20:05

Is it supposed to be "I can't get no sleep?" lol 😂I would have picked that one but my insomnia is under control atm.

This is where I heal my hurts?

🤣 Both good suggestions, but this is my fave. Discovered I have to type it in because I’d already posted on the thread with old name!

Love that we’re having a convo in the middle of this thread. Makes it a little more batshit 🤣

Starspangledrodeopony · 03/03/2024 20:24

zunchie · 03/03/2024 17:18

Omg! Everyone here must sit in complete silence in a cafe and not have any facial expressions at all.

If you can still pull facial expressions, you need to top up your Botox.

IloveAslan · 03/03/2024 20:24

Whycantiwinmillionsandsquillions · 03/03/2024 13:57

So you drew attention to your lips which made her think of her own lips.
Next you drew attention to your teeth which reminded her about her own teeth.
What next? You sitting looking at your fingernails which generates the response from her “That reminds me, I need a new nail polish.”
You sound a bit odd.

This. I can't see what she has done wrong? Lots of people say similar things, I've done it myself.

IloveAslan · 03/03/2024 20:27

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:54

I have blocked her back in response. I have no time for people like that!

Oh I'm sure she will be devastated Grin (probably opening the champagne right now!)

labamba007 · 03/03/2024 20:29

Whyiseveryfuckinggoodnametaken · 03/03/2024 20:15

That reminds me I need to make an appointment with my psychotherapist.

This is gold 😅 bravo @Whyiseveryfuckinggoodnametaken

hoonicorn · 03/03/2024 20:29

I just want to know what Sarah and Evelyn are going to say about this. Op you are in big shit now

Judydoes2 · 03/03/2024 20:30

If this thread isn't already on Reddit I'll show my arse in Harrod's window.

puzzledout · 03/03/2024 20:30

zunchie · 03/03/2024 19:54

I have blocked her back in response. I have no time for people like that!

She'll be relieved!

puzzledout · 03/03/2024 20:31

Judydoes2 · 03/03/2024 20:30

If this thread isn't already on Reddit I'll show my arse in Harrod's window.

GrinGrinGrinGrinGrin

You're safe!

SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 20:32

Look just tell a grown up in the morning that Sarah, Evelyn and Katy are being mean to you It’ll be ok .

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 20:33

hoonicorn · 03/03/2024 20:29

I just want to know what Sarah and Evelyn are going to say about this. Op you are in big shit now

Well OP isn’t on theirs or Katy’s or her ex friend’s Christmas card list that’s for sure.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 03/03/2024 20:34

SmileyClare · 03/03/2024 20:32

Look just tell a grown up in the morning that Sarah, Evelyn and Katy are being mean to you It’ll be ok .

Is this tell the form teacher at school?

savethatkitty · 03/03/2024 20:34

Grow up.

Trulyme · 03/03/2024 20:35

Whyiseveryfuckinggoodnametaken · 03/03/2024 20:15

That reminds me I need to make an appointment with my psychotherapist.

🤣🤣👏👏👏

AlisonWonderbra · 03/03/2024 20:35

What the fuck have I just read?

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