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Men with long fingernails....

105 replies

Noangelbuthavingfun · 29/02/2024 08:41

Omg just yuck ! Why? It gives me the ick... currently sat on a train next to a very pleasant man by all accounts and then I see his long fingernails ...think like 3mm or so long. Why ?? Is it just me that really gets out off by it ? Cut your nails short ! I can't even explain it....
I'm not talking about guitar players where there's a function or similar. Normal men (this one is definitely going into an office job). Tell me what also icks you ??

Oh and don't get me started on woman that have phones on loud speaker holding it by their ears as if the sounds comes out of the underside of the phone 😆

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whyamiawakestillitssolate · 29/02/2024 09:54

I don’t even like “neat” nails on my DH - if he has even a hint of white nail end I ask him to get them bitten - well manicured / long nails give me the ick

hydriotaphia · 29/02/2024 09:54

Yawn. But of course, you 'don't believe in gender'.

whyamiawakestillitssolate · 29/02/2024 09:55

just to add - I don’t care what other men do - just don’t like on anyone that’s romantically with me

Dis626 · 29/02/2024 09:55

I'm the same. I can't explain why but I find it absolutely disgusting.

GalileoHumpkins · 29/02/2024 09:56

While I don't find it particularly attractive all the absolutely revolting, gross, ick, makes me queasy comments are over the top.

giraffesaregreat · 29/02/2024 09:58

I don't understand why long nails on men are gross but okay on women? I don't like either! Short, clean, bare nails for everyone is the way to go!

Hillarious · 29/02/2024 10:03

giraffesaregreat · 29/02/2024 09:58

I don't understand why long nails on men are gross but okay on women? I don't like either! Short, clean, bare nails for everyone is the way to go!

I'd argue they're not okay on women either. Totally impractical. But maybe that's the kind of life they lead.

redalex261 · 29/02/2024 10:04

I find long nails on men utterly revolting, regardless of the reason. It seems to indicate neglect of personal hygiene to me (rightly or wrongly). I have mostly noticed it on elderly men with dementia etc - used to see it on nursing home visits - poor buggers obviously couldn't attend to it themselves and no-one else was helping them enough.

p1ppyL0ngstocking · 29/02/2024 10:10

I was introduced to a man once who was a midwife and he had one, really long finger nail that didn't look very clean 🤢

If he had been assigned to me when I was pregnant, I genuinely think I couldn't have let him examine me, it was disgusting 🤮

TeabySea · 29/02/2024 10:15

Strugglingtodomybest · 29/02/2024 09:00

The stuff of nightmares!

I find that quite attractive, although the mails are a bit long.

strugglingnd · 29/02/2024 10:19

Grim ! Son had a friend at primary school with long nails …really strange ! Am not a fan of long finger nails generally.

TheChosenTwo · 29/02/2024 10:29

I don’t like long fingernails on anyone!
Creepy and also dirt collectors.

pastypirate · 29/02/2024 10:33

Long nails on men and young children!! So grubby.

HavfrueDenizKisi · 29/02/2024 10:34

I mean men can do what they like with their fingernails BUT it gives me the ick too. If I came across a totally gorgeous man and he had long nails I just couldn't go there. See also horrid feet.

schnubbins · 29/02/2024 10:35

Long nails are horrible on both men and women .Those long pointy ones are just disgusting.

KreedKafer · 29/02/2024 10:51

Omg just yuck ! Why? It gives me the ick... currently sat on a train next to a very pleasant man by all accounts and then I see his long fingernails

So what? He's a random stranger. Pretty sure he wasn't going to offer to shag you anyway, so what does it matter what you think of his fingernails? He's not there to look nice for you.

Fine to have a personal preference for short nails, but it's weird to get so worked about long nails (or any style choice) on a complete stranger. Ultimately, I'm sure there are things about you that would also give some people 'the ick' too.

I'm also interested at how many people think long nails are 'unhygienic' and can't imagine 'how you keep them clean'. They're no more difficult to keep clean than short nails.

I've varied my nail length a lot over the years and if anything, I'd say that it's easier to clean underneath long nails than short ones.

cerisepanther73 · 29/02/2024 11:02

@Noangelbuthavingfun

We're they clean his fingers nails 💅 or like my ex fingers nails manky heavy nicotine stained
he works wipe a bit of bleach on them to remove those nails of his,

cerisepanther73 · 29/02/2024 11:03

Typo mistake would *

VaddaABeetch · 29/02/2024 11:06

I know of 2 women who don’t wash their hands enough as ‘it ruins their manicure’. Revolting & a disease promoter.

catscatscurrantscurrants · 29/02/2024 11:25

A friend of mine has longer nails. He lost all feeling in his finger tips due to a medical condition and has to use the nails for gripping things. It does still make me feel a bit queasy though!

catscatscurrantscurrants · 29/02/2024 11:26

He does keep them very clean and neat btw.

TestingTestingWonTooFree · 29/02/2024 11:30

Midwives used to keep one long nail so they could swipe and release a tongue tie in newborns, or so I’ve read.

spiderlight · 29/02/2024 11:56

My DH is a guitarist and will periodically grow the nails on his right hand long. I absolutely hate it - it gives me the serious ick even though I know why he does it.

CattingAbout · 29/02/2024 11:59

I'm another one who doesn't really like long nails on anyone tbh.

Handyweatherstation · 29/02/2024 12:51

I saw something the other day about children with long nails collecting dirt and probable issues with 'potty residue' 😬Tbh, long nails on anyone look gross and if they're dirty then they're gag-inducing.

I've recently seen photos of women with false nails that have a good bit of the underneath nail showing and that's gross too.