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To feel sorry for Shamima Begum?

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EWAS · 23/02/2024 12:56

I do, I’m afraid. I think she should be able to come home. She was 15! Have any men been stripped of their citizenship that we know about?

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Keychangeoff · 23/02/2024 19:18

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caringcarer · 23/02/2024 19:19

Newchapterbeckons · 23/02/2024 17:59

The tax payer(s)

It's disgusting that she gets Legal Aid the UK tax payers are paying for.

hattie43 · 23/02/2024 19:19

MrsDoylesTea · 23/02/2024 19:15

I completely despair at how bleeding-heart wet this country has become. She was months away from being able to get married and have sex legally, knew exactly what she was getting into and is a danger to all right-minded non-terrorist citizens.

That people are making excuses for her and saying the feel sorry for her makes me worry for the future of this company. I dread to think what the outcome would be now if there was a world war that couldn't be solved by tea and sympathy and group hugs.

We're doomed . The UK has become a toilet full of people who hate it but don't seem to want to live elsewhere .

This trend of extreme liberalism is worrying .

AboutYouTalk · 23/02/2024 19:19

Dweetfidilove · 23/02/2024 19:07

I agree leaving her stateless should not be permitted under international law.

It’s also made me question whether my British born/raised child is truly British or if she is more of my nationality, depending on… She is not Bangladeshi, never has been. She was groomed on British soil, left Britain to join Isis and Britain is where she should return to.

This to me feels like an extension of some children not being treated as children. Any documentary on ISIS recruitment will show you they are very adept at grooming and warping young minds, hence they can attract young people of all colour and creed. She was a child like any other child being groomed and she should come home.

Exactly, you are not truly British if you have links elsewhere. It’s wrong.

HenndigoOZ · 23/02/2024 19:20

I live in Australia and many very long term British citizens resident here never actually take on Australian citizenship. One of the things they do in this country is to deport convicted criminals back to the UK after serving out their prison sentences. This happens even if they have lived in Australia since early childhood and have no UK support structures or connections. Many of these people are serious criminals such as paedophiles, others are guilty of multiple offence of minor crimes. Some have partners and children in Australia but they still get deported regardless. The UK has complained about it but still takes them back because they are British citizens.
So if the UK can be responsible for full blown adults who have actually been tried and convicted, they can be responsible toward someone who was groomed, a minor and who literally has nowhere to go.

Cornettoninja · 23/02/2024 19:20

our children are allowed to join the armed forces in the UK at 16 entirely legally and of their own volition

15 isn’t 16 and it’s illegal to deploy anyone under 18 to the frontline.

theres plenty of criticism of the UK’s military recruitment of minors and efforts to change this practice is being actively phased out. Because we’re talking about minors. Children.

The recruitment of minors has been criticised by the United Nations Committee on the Rights of the Child, Parliament’s own Joint Committee on Human Rights, and children’s charities amongst others. The Armed Forces Bill is an opportunity to phase out the recruitment of people under 18 in line with international standards, while introducing greater protection for 16- and 17-year-old personnel in the meantime

https://www.parliament.uk/globalassets/documents/joint-committees/human-rights/Briefing_from_Forces_Watch_age_of_recruitment.pdf

Julianne65 · 23/02/2024 19:20

Antiguadreams · 23/02/2024 19:11

YANBU

it makes me chuckle at how as a society we empathize with the victims of grooming gangs in Rochdale for example, but can’t extend the same thought process to other girls impacted by grooming

Oh piss off. This is nothing like the Rochdale grooming gangs. I’m horrified you would even compare the two!

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 23/02/2024 19:20

I 100% believe she was groomed. For comparison, why did those girls in Rochdale not just say no? Why did they do such stupid things, made awful decisions and it's everyone else's fault? Because they were 14/15 and as a society we have decided they do not have the capacity to make intelligent decisions including consent to sex. Either we accept a 15 is capable or not, but it can't change depending on the circumstances. Compare her to Lisa Smith, the Irish female solider who joined ISIS. Completely different people and circumstances yet she went home to Ireland where she was convicted.

Newchapterbeckons · 23/02/2024 19:20

It is possible to remove citizenship if a person is entitled to citizenship elsewhere, in another country. This is especially the case if national security is at risk.

In this case Shamima is of Bangladeshi descent hence the reason why it was legally possible to remove her.

If Bangladesh have decided they don’t want her due to her terrorist activities- understandably, then she is free to apply for citizenship in Syria where she has chosen to spend all of her adult life.

GreekDogRescue · 23/02/2024 19:21

God no.

Tatonka · 23/02/2024 19:22

LankyCranky32 · 23/02/2024 13:06

I always find it amazing because if I was 15 ad a blonde white English teenager who hanged out a lot with different people from different cultures and had left the country in the way she did there would have been an instant search to find me, and I would have been classed as kidnapped from grooming.

Very good point

Newchapterbeckons · 23/02/2024 19:22

Quite frankly it is a fucking insult to those truly trafficked to compare the two.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 23/02/2024 19:23

Someone asked above if any men who have two citizenships have been stripped of the British one. There are quite a few. One is Jack Letts

Indeed, and there was a complicit family involved there as well

John and Sally Letts were convicted of entering into a funding arrangement for the purposes of terrorism, though of course they claimed they were only trying to help:

https://www.cps.gov.uk/cps/news/sally-lane-and-john-letts-sentenced-sending-money-daesh-supporting-son

tom0ve · 23/02/2024 19:23

Alalalalalongalalalalalonglonglilong · 23/02/2024 19:20

I 100% believe she was groomed. For comparison, why did those girls in Rochdale not just say no? Why did they do such stupid things, made awful decisions and it's everyone else's fault? Because they were 14/15 and as a society we have decided they do not have the capacity to make intelligent decisions including consent to sex. Either we accept a 15 is capable or not, but it can't change depending on the circumstances. Compare her to Lisa Smith, the Irish female solider who joined ISIS. Completely different people and circumstances yet she went home to Ireland where she was convicted.

Very good point

pilates · 23/02/2024 19:23

I would like to think the powers that be have a lot more information than we do which is why they are not allowing her back in our country.

Knitgoodwoman · 23/02/2024 19:23

To compare an adult engaging in terrorism with young girls being drugged and raped as young as 10 just isn’t the same. Comparing the Rochdale gang victims to her is disgusting.
The Rochdale victims also don’t pose a current terror threat and also they didn’t work with ISIL.

Cornettoninja · 23/02/2024 19:23

hattie43 · 23/02/2024 19:19

We're doomed . The UK has become a toilet full of people who hate it but don't seem to want to live elsewhere .

This trend of extreme liberalism is worrying .

Don’t worry, Truss is busy putting your case to the world and calling for less of that sort of thing.

Richard1985 · 23/02/2024 19:23

Poudretteite · 23/02/2024 18:18

She was a member of the ISIS morality police for years and was known for being particularly harsh. She was unfazed by beheaded corpses in bins and justified the Manchester bombings while trying to reenter the UK.

These 'teenager did something silly online' comments are unhinged.

If there is evidence that she committed a crime/crimes (and joining ISIS is one of them) then it should be presented in a British court of law and she should be dealt with appropriately

I don’t think anyone is suggesting she be allowed back into the country and re-enrol in college or get a job down Tescos but making someone stateless due to a decision she made at 15 years old doesn’t sit right with me at all

Voone · 23/02/2024 19:24

Newchapterbeckons · 23/02/2024 19:20

It is possible to remove citizenship if a person is entitled to citizenship elsewhere, in another country. This is especially the case if national security is at risk.

In this case Shamima is of Bangladeshi descent hence the reason why it was legally possible to remove her.

If Bangladesh have decided they don’t want her due to her terrorist activities- understandably, then she is free to apply for citizenship in Syria where she has chosen to spend all of her adult life.

She went to join the ISIS state, not because she chose to live in Syria. Syria didn't want those people there and tried to keep them out.

If terrorists went to the UK to join some terrorist group and were made stateless while being held in the UK would you think the UK should have to stay stuck with them? They're certainly not going to give them citizenship.

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 23/02/2024 19:24

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I can read all sorts of things and not swallow what they say. Funnily enough, I find Guardian readers more dogmatic and unthinking than any others.

I realise that’s heresy in these parts. But hey ho.

Totallymessed · 23/02/2024 19:24

LankyCranky32 · Today 13:06

I always find it amazing because if I was 15 ad a blonde white English teenager who hanged out a lot with different people from different cultures and had left the country in the way she did there would have been an instant search to find me, and I would have been classed as kidnapped from grooming.

Not if you were a white working class from a council estate, you wouldn't (see: the victims of multiple rapes in Rotherham and how they were treated by the authorities for decades).

forgotmyusername1 · 23/02/2024 19:25

Before saying it is racist consider

If a white 15 year old british person had seen videos of concentration camps and gone to modern day nazi Germany voluntarily to support the cause and while there taken up a job gassing people at auschwitz would they be allowed back if the opportunity was there to stop them? What if when interviewed they announced that England are the enemy, jews should die and heil Hitler?

HelloMiss · 23/02/2024 19:25

Newchapterbeckons · 23/02/2024 19:22

Quite frankly it is a fucking insult to those truly trafficked to compare the two.

This is true

Voone · 23/02/2024 19:27

forgotmyusername1 · 23/02/2024 19:25

Before saying it is racist consider

If a white 15 year old british person had seen videos of concentration camps and gone to modern day nazi Germany voluntarily to support the cause and while there taken up a job gassing people at auschwitz would they be allowed back if the opportunity was there to stop them? What if when interviewed they announced that England are the enemy, jews should die and heil Hitler?

That's not quite the same though because the nazis were in government.

She went to join ISIS, Syria didn't went ISIS there or those people to go there. So why on earth should they be stuck with them?

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