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To feel sorry for Shamima Begum?

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EWAS · 23/02/2024 12:56

I do, I’m afraid. I think she should be able to come home. She was 15! Have any men been stripped of their citizenship that we know about?

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Livinghappy · 23/02/2024 15:50

Does anyone know what happened to the other girl she travelled with? Why has one girl attracted all the negative publicity and others haven't??

L0bstersLass · 23/02/2024 15:51

DragonFly98 · 23/02/2024 13:49

Yes she was a groomed child and regardless of her crimes she is British.

@DragonFly98 - Not anymore she isn't.
I have zero sympathy for her.

Zone2NorthLondon · 23/02/2024 15:51

Livinghappy · 23/02/2024 15:50

Does anyone know what happened to the other girl she travelled with? Why has one girl attracted all the negative publicity and others haven't??

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They all died

Nightjaaard · 23/02/2024 15:51

@phishy Can you please stop pushing the narrative its because of her skin colour and that she was groomed.

All those who are comparing her to other groomed girls are spectacularly missing the point.

The UK The Security Service has already advised that the threat from individuals who returned to the United Kingdom from ISIL-controlled territory could manifest itself in a number of ways:
(1) involvement in ISIL-directed attack planning,
(2) involvement in ISIL enabled attacks,
(3) radicalising and recruiting UK-based associates,
(4) providing support to ISIL operatives, and
(5) posing a latent threat to the United Kingdom.

In relation to the first of these possibilities, the Security Service’s assessment was that the United Kingdom was a priority target for ISIL terrorist activity. In relation to the second possibility, the statement noted that ISIL encouraged women to carry out attacks.

Any individual, male or female, who returned to the United Kingdom having spent a prolonged period of time in ISIL-controlled territory was likely to have developed the capability to carry out an attack.

At the end of the day, even if initially she was wrongly groomed, the person she has become and trained to be is not the same person. Why cannot you get your simple minds round this.

That young girl at 15 is no longer the same person she is a threat to all our safety.

HollyKnight · 23/02/2024 15:52

Bramshott · 23/02/2024 15:24

And your relatives in NI who became terrorists @HollyKnight - have any of them been deprived of their citizenship subsequently?

Why would they have? They never left the country. They never rejected their nationality.

None of that is relevant to whether a 15-year-old knows if terrorism is right or wrong.

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MyGooseisTotallyLoose · 23/02/2024 15:52

Sureaseggs44 · 23/02/2024 15:49

Because allegedly there is evidence she is a threat . So what do we do ignore that and just “ keep and eye “ on her ?

That and welcoming her as a victim is what they seem to want!

Sharptonguedwoman · 23/02/2024 15:53

YeahIsaidit · 23/02/2024 12:59

Whilst young yes, she played the fuck around and find out game. Ah well

She was a lonely, groomed 15 year old with a father who wasn't paying attention. Citizenship was removed by a showboating government. She's a UK responsibly and should be allowed to come home. Ankle tag, whatever. I repeat she was 15.

Sharptonguedwoman · 23/02/2024 15:54

HollyKnight · 23/02/2024 15:52

Why would they have? They never left the country. They never rejected their nationality.

None of that is relevant to whether a 15-year-old knows if terrorism is right or wrong.

15 year olds know very little and are easily influenced.

DillDanding · 23/02/2024 15:54

I also feel sorry for her. It would be a different story if she was white.

HelloMiss · 23/02/2024 15:54

@Sharptonguedwoman she was 15.... she's not anymore, yet she still shows no remorse and is ok seeing severed heads. Yeah she's cool with that...

FuzzyManul · 23/02/2024 15:55

phishy · 23/02/2024 15:18

So she has to pay the price for a shitty justice system?

What about the American woman who ran over and killed a British teen?

Where is the outrage for justice there?

"What about" is a logical fallacy and has nothing to do with the conversation. Anyone who is concerned about this case should start a thread about it so that it can be discussed there.

Bythefireside · 23/02/2024 15:55

EWAS · 23/02/2024 12:56

I do, I’m afraid. I think she should be able to come home. She was 15! Have any men been stripped of their citizenship that we know about?

I totally agree

newmomaboutthreads · 23/02/2024 15:56

The British government raised this child. She was born here, went to school here, was groomed here. She's a British responsibility.
You raised your child and they act up you can't claim they aren't yours. You might not like it but they are.

Emotionalsupportviper · 23/02/2024 15:56

2dogsandabudgie · 23/02/2024 15:45

phishy - Of course the Appeal Court has to listen to evidence from the Government and the security services. The security services know an awful lot of information about who is a security risk than the general public do.

Indeed. And a lot of the information they have is high security and can't be released to the public. The courts will be informed in camera for reasons of state security.

2dogsandabudgie · 23/02/2024 15:56

Sharptonguedwoman · 23/02/2024 15:53

She was a lonely, groomed 15 year old with a father who wasn't paying attention. Citizenship was removed by a showboating government. She's a UK responsibly and should be allowed to come home. Ankle tag, whatever. I repeat she was 15.

Oh well that explains it then, let's just give her a slap on the wrist and an ankle tag. Honestly! 🙄

Nightjaaard · 23/02/2024 15:56

Sharptonguedwoman · 23/02/2024 15:53

She was a lonely, groomed 15 year old with a father who wasn't paying attention. Citizenship was removed by a showboating government. She's a UK responsibly and should be allowed to come home. Ankle tag, whatever. I repeat she was 15.

So how does an ankle tag prevent her doing the following?

(1) involvement in ISIL-directed attack planning,
(2) involvement in ISIL enabled attacks,
(3) radicalising and recruiting UK-based associates,
(4) providing support to ISIL operatives, and
(5) posing a latent threat to the United Kingdom.

And are you expecting the UK public to fund not only the current 5 million, legal costs but all the subsequent legal costs and security costs to monitor her for the rest of her days? are you giving up your NHS care and your families fund this cost,🙄

MCOut · 23/02/2024 15:56

Emotionalsupportviper · 23/02/2024 15:44

Yes - the girls targeted by the Muslim grooming gangs were really well protected by the British police and government.

Intersection is important here. My understanding is that by and large they were poor and had little or no adult protection. This was not the case with Shamima. She seems to have had an engaged family who at the time were horrified and attempted to get her back. If they were all white, there absolutely would be more sympathy.

WhatsTheUseOfWorrying · 23/02/2024 15:57

DillDanding · 23/02/2024 15:54

I also feel sorry for her. It would be a different story if she was white.

Samantha Lewthwaite. Look her up.

Hufflemuff · 23/02/2024 15:57

Shes being made an example of, which is shit for her, but necessary to prevent others doing the same.

We are so soft in this country all the time, I'm glad we are sticking to our guns for once! Certain things you just can't come back from and this is one of them.

Voone · 23/02/2024 15:57

Livinghappy · 23/02/2024 15:50

Does anyone know what happened to the other girl she travelled with? Why has one girl attracted all the negative publicity and others haven't??

Edited

The other 2 are believed to be dead.

Shamima was found in a camp and was trying to arrange to come home, which is why she has attracted the negative publicity.

No one has heard from the others in years. If they were alive and trying to come home they would have attracted the same negative publicity.

wildernesssw · 23/02/2024 15:58

It shows that according to the government some British citizens are second class citizens - usually those with brown skins.

She wasn't a dual citizen, she never held any other citizenship than the UK. She was born here and grew up here. She was radicalised here as a teenager.

If she has committed any crimes she should be put on trial for them - but is innocent until proved guilty, just as any other accused person is.

The government is scraping the barrel, it is purely a political decision to desperately try to get some support from those who don't see people with brown skin as 'properly' British

FuzzyManul · 23/02/2024 15:59

ASGIRC · 23/02/2024 15:31

Its not! Under the the UN convention, it is illegal to make one stateless... The UK shouold not have done it.

Which UN convention is this? The word "the" suggests that there is only one.

RoyalCorgi · 23/02/2024 15:59

The important thing, surely, is that she was a British citizen, and governments shouldn't start removing citizenship from people, however ghastly they are. Bring her back to the UK and give her a fair trial.

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