I would be interested to know thoughts on this.
Let me say up front, I am firmly with Sharron Davies - Trans-women have no place in female sports. It’s unfair, end of.
But where I’m struggling is an answer to a practical problem.
I recently attended a wedding of two trans-women. Both look/behave/sound to all intents and purposes like women. Feminine, dressed immaculately, hair and make-up (way more than me!), and you wouldn’t have a clue they were biological men. They are a loving couple and pose no threat to anyone.
Where do folks expect them to go to the toilet?
In my opinion they would be in very great danger using a men’s toilet.
Yes I’m totally aware there are so-called trans-women who are opportunistic predators.
And I have zero interest in unisex toilets. The whiff at my local pub tells me no thanks.
But what are feminine, and dare I say, genuine trans-women supposed to do.
Now you might say, well I don’t care, as long as it’s not in female loos. But that’s not really an answer, or realistic. They have to go somewhere. And until society introduces a law that says every hotel, restaurant, pub, venue, sports hall, swimming pool, gallery etc has to have a non-gender assigned loo (at let's be honest great expense), we are where we are.
Fuck know what that lovely couple do now. I assume they use the female loo and nobody notices.
The issue is more nuanced than the current debate allows.