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CloudStra · 08/02/2024 13:06

I've been dealing with DH jealous ex wife for quite some time now. She writes things on FB about me and DH, our house and cars etc. My husband is a high earner and she is totally obsessed with what we are doing and the fact she doesn't have access to his money anymore. She constantly complains about her own finances in comparison and how unfair it all is despite receiving a large settlement upon divorce which she also lies about.

I'm at the point that I want to actually give her something to moan about! Is it spiteful and petty if I do a bit of social media bragging (not usually my style) just to piss her off?

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CloudStra · 09/02/2024 21:05

CloudStra · 09/02/2024 21:00

I agree that does look like a contradiction, I have genuinely misspoken there, I meant the first year after SEPERATION.

@vivainsomnia

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Nonewclothes2024 · 09/02/2024 21:25

CloudStra · 08/02/2024 19:09

@Anjea

Where do I start? It can be anything from he has brainwashed the kids to 'he hid money so I didn't get a penny' or that I'm an unemployed gold digger (I work). The most recent things were bitching about our house and 'snazzy holidays' whilst she can't afford anything as she 'gets no maintenance' effectively trying to make my DH look like a deadbeat dad.

Custody is 50/50 so nobody receives or pays maintenance.

Sometimes maintenance is payable even at 50/50 if one parent is a high earner.
Someone I work with has 50/50 and her husband still has to pay his ex.
It's to do with the difference in lifestyle.

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