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Grandmother killed by 2 XL bullies

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ABCDEFGHIJK123456 · 05/02/2024 07:36

Grandmother killed by 2 XL bullies whilst apparently separating fighting bully pups.

Longer jail sentences, minimum of 5 years for owners of dogs that kill people for not controlling them.

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elledee412 · 05/02/2024 17:03

brrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr · 05/02/2024 08:47

All dogs that a toddler could not beat in a fight should be put in grave. No exceptions.

This is unhinged. You’d have all Golden Retrivers, Labs, Shepherds, Setters, most Spaniels, and almost every other family dog put to sleep? All of those breeds - and plenty more perfectly safe breeds - are bigger than a toddler.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 17:03

Pallando · 05/02/2024 16:12

I have to post in defence of Dobermans! If you look up deaths from dogs in the UK, there is only one Doberman in the list and if you look at the details it seems that the dog was trying to help its own who had had a seizure.

We have a 21 month old Dobie, and we have to be careful of people in the house as he loves everyone so much he sometimes manages to give them a "Glasgow Kiss" in his enthusiasm. He tried to jump into the plumbers arms...

He is super-tolerant as well (of our kids and the 9 month old sprocker). I wouldn't let him loose near small children as he is big and clumsy. I have lost count of the number of little old ladies who want to say hello as they had Dobermans in the past!

I have had words with him about the fact that he is bred to be a personal protection dog, and he can't do that if he is a mile away chasing deer (he is not let of the lead outside secure fields any more).

Breed does matter, but also the individual dog!

My grandad in Germany had a childhood Doberman dog who was very loyal and a family dog as well as protective.

My uncle and aunt in England had a Doberman too, who was the soppiest thing ever with family and friends but sounded aggressive when barking and could attack burglars if needed. Fine when they had children.

My other aunt and uncle had and have long haired German Shepherd dogs who are family and protective dogs.

Totally down to owners and training of their dogs. Some breeds are stronger and harder to control.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 17:05

MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 05/02/2024 16:21

I queried because 911 isn't the number for police or any emergency service in the UK and a Met police offer would know that.

I got it mixed up in my mind. He probably did say 999. I mistakenly thought the number had changed. I was wrong.

Morvillehrs · 05/02/2024 17:12

I’m not scared of dogs, grew up around different breeds but these terrify me, I walk with a limp and one dog (xl bully) looked irked by it, looked like it wanted to rip my face off. And the muppet walking it couldn’t control the lead.

Its not the dogs fault they were bred and I’m sure they are generally okay but that one time they go they really go and there’s no getting them off you. So sorry for yet another victim.

Ravensky · 05/02/2024 17:13

@SweetBirdsong completely agree with you. Its so sad to see communities deteriorating like they are with seemingly no one or no organisation trying to stop the rot as it were. Council estates used to be a hell of a lot safer than they are now and many were lovely communities to bring up children.

I was literally having the same conversation with someone yesterday about the road we grew up on 25/38 years ago. There was maybe one family who were considered a bit of a pain but it that amounted to them being maybe a bit untidy and their kids being a bit loud and occasionally picking fights with other kids in the street. But it was always incredibly safe for children to play out.

Now it's a different story.

Now it's at least half the road that cause trouble and the trouble is on a whole other level. It's drugs, violence between adults and teens/kids, shouting and screaming in the street, driving like absolute idiots. Never safe for children to be out playing anymore and of course, XL bullies.

I too moved away and live similarly to yourself and I'm so glad I do but I feel so sorry for my friends and family that have to live near these types of people.

It seems to me, you're okay if you're wealthy enough to be able to choose to not life anywhere near scum or you're the scum. Everyone in middle has to suffer the scum.

The scum breed like bloody rats as well but the authorities have neither the will nor the funds to do anything about it because guess what? They're wealthy enough to not have to live near the scum themselves.

Funshrubs · 05/02/2024 17:15

SweetBirdsong · 05/02/2024 14:34

Sadly I have to agree with your posts @Ravensky I don't like the idea of an eye for an eye (makes the world go blind and all that!) But you're right - this country needs much stiffer sentences for EVERYTHING, including people who breed aggressive dogs (basically train them to be aggressive.)

There is a whole generation of horrible, entitled-to, aggressive 'I will do what the fuck I like' arseholes in the UK now - in fact probably 2 generations and possibly a 3rd - who think they can do what they want and are constantly breaking the law.

TV documentaries feature them, like the police chase programmes, the nightmare tenants ones, and even the hospital/ambulance ones. Littered with ugly abusive, vile articles - many whom have never done a day's paid work in their life, and act like the world owes them a living. Shouting and spitting at the police and attacking paramedics, and causing fights and brawls outside clubs and pubs, and carrying weapons (knives and shivs etc.)

I'm in my mid-late 50s - and I was a child/youth in the 1970s and 1980s, and I NEVER remember behaviour like this, or people like this. I have no idea where it all went wrong, and when this type of person emerged.

This type of person is one of the reasons me and DH moved to a little rural village off the beaten track. 4 miles from a little town, with less than 400 people, no buses, no shops, no nothing, just a Church and a pub, and a village hall where they have social events for people. Oh and a little primary school that has 31 pupils - just 2 classes. And one nursery. So 9 kids in the nursery, 11 in class 1 (that has 5 to 8 year olds,) and 11 in class 2 that has 9 to 11 year olds.

There are another 20 or so 11-18 y.o. kids but they go to the Comprehensive school in town. The bus takes them and brings and back every school day. The kids here are hugely respectful and polite and pleasant. And there are ZERO people like 'that type' in my village.

It's like a breath of fresh air being here compared to the town we lived in before for some years. It was fine 25 years ago and earlier, when we were a lot younger, but since around the late 1990s, it has got quite rough in some parts. Lots of crime and violence in some parts of the town. Where we lived was OK, but was only half a mile from a 'rough area,' and a lot of break-ins and car thefts started to occur near us, and you never felt safe outside your own garden after dark/after 7pm...

You can hear a pin drop at night here, there's nothing but fields and woodlands for 4 miles, (and the canal and the river.) And I can walk for miles - even in the evening/in the dark, and feel perfectly safe!

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The exact same reason why I’m so glad and thank my lucky stars everyday that I live rurally and can bring my DC up rurally.

I feel so sorry for people (especially people with young families) that live in these horrible neighbourhoods/ towns/ cities that can’t afford to leave and have to put up with encountering arseholes like this on a daily basis.

The U.K. has gone to shit.

Fizbosshoes · 05/02/2024 17:17

Dj spoony was on the radio last week to defend XL bullies (he got one as a family pet and it allegedly proves everyone who thinks it's unsuitable, wrong, when they see what a big softy he is 🙄)

The nature/nurture argument. Irresponsible dog owners will be and are irresponsible with any type of dog. However the risks are too great when an irresponsible owner is combined with an aggressive breed of dog who weighs the same as an adult human. There was a dog mentioned on the radio that weighed 52kg, last week.
Last year in some news story there was a dog that weighed 12st. I imagine even the most experienced and responsible owner would struggle to control, or , if needed, overpower a breed that big. There surely has to come a point where the size/muscle mass/jaw strength etc has to make it unsuitable as a domestic pet in any circumstances.

Most fatal dog attacks seem to happen in a home setting so the muzzle in public won't prevent that.

Emotionalsupportviper · 05/02/2024 17:19

MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 05/02/2024 15:26

I agree with you. Unfortunately, XL's don't appear to have a 'pet strain' line at all and instead seem to be a toxic combination of intensively bred for purpose (reactive aggression) and utterly unsuitable environment (overcrowded homes, young families, insecurely fenced, no socialisation, no appropriate enrichment or redirection of unwanted behaviours).

I agree.

There will never be a "pet strain" of a breed like this.

RubyEarWax · 05/02/2024 17:19

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HeartShapedBox · 05/02/2024 17:21

Schnauzersaremyheros · 05/02/2024 08:02

This poor woman was advised to use a broom to separate the puppies - with the parent dogs in the same room!

WTAF?! Of course the parent dogs were going to react to a perceived threat towards their pups 😡

Exactly what I thought.

It's a shame for the woman who died and her poor wee grandson, but from the dogs perspective they were protecting their babies.

SomeCatFromJapan · 05/02/2024 17:25

It's a shame for the woman who died and her poor wee grandson, but from the dogs perspective they were protecting their babies.

This is utter victim-blaming. Male dogs don't have protective instincts towards their own puppies yet it was happy to join in mauling the woman to death. Normal dogs don't behave like this.

LakieLady · 05/02/2024 17:29

@SicParvisMagna , my DB lives in Jaywick, three streets away from the house where this happened.

I agree with every word of your post. It is, without exception, the most deprived and depressing place it has ever been my misfortune to visit. I grew up on the roughest council estate in Croydon in the 60s/70s, so my bar is set pretty low!

OhmygodDont · 05/02/2024 17:30

Normal dogs tend to bite once as a fuck off

This was a mauling also dogs don’t have people feelings. Yes a mother dog will protect her offspring but again a growl and a fuck off bite if you ignore.

Not a full on assault. Dad dogs are mainly not near pups because they can’t be trusted. All they care about is getting the fuck from the female again puppies get in the way of that.

RubyEarWax · 05/02/2024 17:30

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ThursdayTomorrow · 05/02/2024 17:32

We are in a climate emergency.
Regardless of their danger to humans, no one should be getting a dog as a pet - they are a luxury the planet cannot afford. Assistance and working dogs are, of course, an exception.

RubyEarWax · 05/02/2024 17:35

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MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 05/02/2024 17:38

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They've been lining the Cane Corso up for a while. The ones with more cash have Corsos and other large mastiff breeds (genuine breeds so cost more).

There will always be another 'It' breed for these morons. So there should be more done to develop and enforce proactive legislation as well as reactive. Unfortunately, proactive legislation is much harder and more expensive than reactive.

Pallando · 05/02/2024 17:43

I think that instead of the "XL bully ban" they should have cracked down on ear dripping. It's been banned in the UK for almost 20 years!

I would say that every single breeder who cuts their puppies ear is a shit breeder (and is unlikely to have breed for placid temperament) and everyone who buys a cropped puppy is either ignorant or wants their dog to look "hard". Neither are likely to be good owners. I think if all illegally cropped dogs had been seized and destroyed it would have helped (it's a shame for the dogs, as it's not their fault what happened to them, but humans are more important).

I would also like to see the import of cropped puppies banned - it must be traumatic to have their ears cut, taken away from their mother and then taken on a very long journey from somewhere where cropping is legal to the UK at such a young age!

RubyEarWax · 05/02/2024 17:51

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MatchingBedding · 05/02/2024 18:16

This whole case is bloody awful. I expect this prick thought he was a great owner. The bloody arrogance of him! I will guarantee he thought he could control his dogs and had “trained” them to obedience. Well here is the result, the scum bag.
There’s a stupid meat head at the bottom of our village that enjoyed intimidating owners and smaller dogs until his monster ripped a jack Russel to shreds. The dog was seized and destroyed. The poor JRs owners are still traumatised. The meathead had already let his monster impregnate his girl monster… so another litter of aggressive pups was sent out into the world. I doubt any of them will be registered but to be honest what good does registering/neutering/chipping do if they bite your face off in your living room?

oakleaffy · 05/02/2024 18:22

Pallando · 05/02/2024 17:43

I think that instead of the "XL bully ban" they should have cracked down on ear dripping. It's been banned in the UK for almost 20 years!

I would say that every single breeder who cuts their puppies ear is a shit breeder (and is unlikely to have breed for placid temperament) and everyone who buys a cropped puppy is either ignorant or wants their dog to look "hard". Neither are likely to be good owners. I think if all illegally cropped dogs had been seized and destroyed it would have helped (it's a shame for the dogs, as it's not their fault what happened to them, but humans are more important).

I would also like to see the import of cropped puppies banned - it must be traumatic to have their ears cut, taken away from their mother and then taken on a very long journey from somewhere where cropping is legal to the UK at such a young age!

ABSOLUTELY agree with this.
Ear cropping is absolutely barbaric.

It is done illegally in UK where it has caused dogs terrible pain.

It's utterly pointless.

They say ''It stops them getting torn in fights'' ..In Dobes, it's done to make them look more intimidating.

Some Pits have the ears almost amputated close to the head, like two ugly stumpy horns.

It should be illegal to import ear cropped dogs.

Pit and XL owners say ''But wot about neutering..that's worse''

jasflowers · 05/02/2024 18:24

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/02/2024 16:16

Like everything else and it is a huge failing with so much in the UK, there is little enforcement of the law

Ain't that the truth jasflowers Sad

I know, i was listening to R4 on the criminal gangs who put their shoplifters into squats, despite it being a crim offence, the Police take no action, the owners of these properties have to go through the civil courts, despite the shoplifters often being tagged, this takes years.

Link to XL bullies? Criminal gangs will use these dogs to threaten and intimidate, dog fights alongside illegal gambling.

the Police seem pretty useless in so many cases, i don't know if its lack of numbers, incompetence/corruption or paper work but something has clearly gone very wrong, they seem a reactive force.

Pallando · 05/02/2024 18:33

@oakleaffy the number of people who don't recognize what breed our Dobie is because his ears don't stand up is shockingly high! You still see quite a lot of cropped Dobies around - one even won the local dog show a couple of years back...

There's a massive Cane Corso near us with cropped ears. Never seen him (or possibly her) do anything other than walk nicely on the lead but I always leave a lot of space if we have to pass. They probably think I'm worried about my dog being reactive to theirs, but I don't trust any dog with cropped ears - I know some might be legitimately rescued by good people, but that's probably the minority.

Mumof2NDers · 05/02/2024 18:35

Densol57 · 05/02/2024 07:48

Absolutely disgraceful. Ive lost count of arguments Ive had with owners of staffs who call their dogs the "nanny breed" and also these manufactured monster XL dogs. They are dangerous weapons and lethal in almost everyones hands.

We have a Staffy and I can honestly say our cat is more dangerous!

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 05/02/2024 18:39

Pallando · 05/02/2024 17:43

I think that instead of the "XL bully ban" they should have cracked down on ear dripping. It's been banned in the UK for almost 20 years!

I would say that every single breeder who cuts their puppies ear is a shit breeder (and is unlikely to have breed for placid temperament) and everyone who buys a cropped puppy is either ignorant or wants their dog to look "hard". Neither are likely to be good owners. I think if all illegally cropped dogs had been seized and destroyed it would have helped (it's a shame for the dogs, as it's not their fault what happened to them, but humans are more important).

I would also like to see the import of cropped puppies banned - it must be traumatic to have their ears cut, taken away from their mother and then taken on a very long journey from somewhere where cropping is legal to the UK at such a young age!

The Kept Animals Bill, which included banning the importation of dogs with cropped ears, got rejected in Parliament.