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Grandmother killed by 2 XL bullies

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ABCDEFGHIJK123456 · 05/02/2024 07:36

Grandmother killed by 2 XL bullies whilst apparently separating fighting bully pups.

Longer jail sentences, minimum of 5 years for owners of dogs that kill people for not controlling them.

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Morecatsarebetter · 05/02/2024 15:58

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 15:54

Yes I just told you! He said he had just come off duty and didn’t have his stab vest on and if he did have it on, he would’ve stepped in.

Sounds like you don’t believe me but it’s true! Even the shopkeeper didn’t want to get involved.

I’m not naming the area but it sits cheek by jowl with what used to be a deprived area but has got gentrified in last 15 years or so. So it’s not as rough as eg heart of Brixton or Stockwell.

Edited

Thought police had to carry their warrant cards at all time and had to intervene if something’s happening

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 15:59

Mrsjayy · 05/02/2024 15:57

I watched a programme years ago about Jaywick it was either presented by Ross Kemp or Danny Dyer anyway people were basically living in a run down pontins and the "salt of the earths" were terrifying!

Scummy place. My ex best friend moved there from near West Wickham and opened a bar there.

Winter2020 · 05/02/2024 16:01

Bishopsgirl · 05/02/2024 13:24

It should also be against the law to have one of these dogs if you have children or children visiting the house. If the owner had told the poor grandma to take a broom to the puppies if they started fighting, then he'd probably told his young son to do exactly the same thing. This whole set up was a ticking time bomb.

If the dogs are too dangerous to be around the owners children then they are too dangerous to be around mine (in the street/the park/the forest/the garden if they come through the fence). Which means they need to be euthanised.

slithytoveisascientist · 05/02/2024 16:02

@Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain I think the confusion is that a British policeman is more likely to recommend 999 rather than 911

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 16:03

Morecatsarebetter · 05/02/2024 15:58

Thought police had to carry their warrant cards at all time and had to intervene if something’s happening

Honestly I’m not lying! He may have had a warrant card on him but didn’t have his stab vest on so he said and therefore didn’t get involved. Had he had a stab vest on he said he would’ve got involved. He was sympathetic though. Quite literally just walked to train station next to the shop.

After all the Sarah Everard stuff you really believe a lot of what police tell you?

Morecatsarebetter · 05/02/2024 16:04

Mrsjayy · 05/02/2024 15:57

I watched a programme years ago about Jaywick it was either presented by Ross Kemp or Danny Dyer anyway people were basically living in a run down pontins and the "salt of the earths" were terrifying!

Yes I saw that! It was like some sort of abandoned caravan park. Horrific. People with one set of teeth between them living on a diet of strong lager.

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 16:05

slithytoveisascientist · 05/02/2024 16:02

@Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain I think the confusion is that a British policeman is more likely to recommend 999 rather than 911

Whatever number it was I can’t recall exactly it could have be been 999 but I thought that was no longer in use. I don’t call emergency services and haven’t needed to for years.

Morecatsarebetter · 05/02/2024 16:06

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 16:03

Honestly I’m not lying! He may have had a warrant card on him but didn’t have his stab vest on so he said and therefore didn’t get involved. Had he had a stab vest on he said he would’ve got involved. He was sympathetic though. Quite literally just walked to train station next to the shop.

After all the Sarah Everard stuff you really believe a lot of what police tell you?

Well, no, to be fair. They’ve plummeted in my expectations

RobertaFirmino · 05/02/2024 16:12

We need to move from a banned list to an allowed one, with everything else by default banned.

That seems like a very sensible idea. Permitted breeds.

Pallando · 05/02/2024 16:12

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I have to post in defence of Dobermans! If you look up deaths from dogs in the UK, there is only one Doberman in the list and if you look at the details it seems that the dog was trying to help its own who had had a seizure.

We have a 21 month old Dobie, and we have to be careful of people in the house as he loves everyone so much he sometimes manages to give them a "Glasgow Kiss" in his enthusiasm. He tried to jump into the plumbers arms...

He is super-tolerant as well (of our kids and the 9 month old sprocker). I wouldn't let him loose near small children as he is big and clumsy. I have lost count of the number of little old ladies who want to say hello as they had Dobermans in the past!

I have had words with him about the fact that he is bred to be a personal protection dog, and he can't do that if he is a mile away chasing deer (he is not let of the lead outside secure fields any more).

Breed does matter, but also the individual dog!

Angrycat2768 · 05/02/2024 16:13

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The problem with the 'Its not the dogs its the owners' is that aggressive shits who don't know how to control dangerous dogs and have no intention of being responsible always go for dogs that cause the maximum damage. You don't get these morons walking round with a cockapoo on a lead. It's a bit late to say 'Oh you're a bad owner' once a dog has killed someone and been shot dead as a result.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 05/02/2024 16:16

Like everything else and it is a huge failing with so much in the UK, there is little enforcement of the law

Ain't that the truth jasflowers Sad

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 05/02/2024 16:16

Angrycat2768 · 05/02/2024 16:13

The problem with the 'Its not the dogs its the owners' is that aggressive shits who don't know how to control dangerous dogs and have no intention of being responsible always go for dogs that cause the maximum damage. You don't get these morons walking round with a cockapoo on a lead. It's a bit late to say 'Oh you're a bad owner' once a dog has killed someone and been shot dead as a result.

The bans don’t address these owners though. They just move on to the next status dog, it’s happened for as long as I’ve been alive.
so both statements are true. It’s not the dogs it’s the owner, and it’s the breeder that produces the status breed capable of this

couiza · 05/02/2024 16:19

I wish they'd ban all domestic dogs. Really I do, I am sick of them everywhere and the idolisation of their owners, who expect me to ooh and aah and suffer them everywhere I go. If I open my mouth to object to a dog running towards me the owner often replies, ah s/he's just playing etc. No not with me they're not. Can't go for a walk, for a coffee, to the shop, for a drink without these hairy creatures all in these places with me.

Working dogs are all that should be allowed. There is no room left for people in urban areas not to mind thousands of dogs. Begone!

I am a bit wired about this subject because 15 years ago I was attacked by a large dog in the local park. Knocked me down and I suffer the consequences of that injury to this day. So nothing will change my mind. I do not like what dogs are doing to our environment and our quality of life.

So there, I feel better after getting that out.

I am terribly sorry for the lady who died.

MalcolmTuckersSwearBox · 05/02/2024 16:21

Gonnagetgoingreturnsagain · 05/02/2024 15:54

Yes I just told you! He said he had just come off duty and didn’t have his stab vest on and if he did have it on, he would’ve stepped in.

Sounds like you don’t believe me but it’s true! Even the shopkeeper didn’t want to get involved.

I’m not naming the area but it sits cheek by jowl with what used to be a deprived area but has got gentrified in last 15 years or so. So it’s not as rough as eg heart of Brixton or Stockwell.

Edited

I queried because 911 isn't the number for police or any emergency service in the UK and a Met police offer would know that.

peakygold · 05/02/2024 16:25

The whole breed should be exterminated. No-one should die like that.

BeaLola · 05/02/2024 16:26

Assuming the reports I have heard are correct and it was her grandsons father who was the owner and the child lived in that house and the father owned the dogs and puppies then it is an extremely sad world we live in that he prioritised those dogs over his own child.

thenightsky · 05/02/2024 16:27

Mrsjayy · 05/02/2024 15:57

I watched a programme years ago about Jaywick it was either presented by Ross Kemp or Danny Dyer anyway people were basically living in a run down pontins and the "salt of the earths" were terrifying!

Oh yes, I remember watching some of that programme. The houses/chalets looked barely habitable.

icelolly12 · 05/02/2024 16:31

Owners of dogs should also have to have their premises checked regularly to ensure they are secure with sufficiently high walls/ fences that dogs cannot escape from their property.

You're living in cloud cuckoo land 😂

VegetablesFightingToReclaimTheAubergieneEmoji · 05/02/2024 16:33

Pallando · 05/02/2024 16:12

I have to post in defence of Dobermans! If you look up deaths from dogs in the UK, there is only one Doberman in the list and if you look at the details it seems that the dog was trying to help its own who had had a seizure.

We have a 21 month old Dobie, and we have to be careful of people in the house as he loves everyone so much he sometimes manages to give them a "Glasgow Kiss" in his enthusiasm. He tried to jump into the plumbers arms...

He is super-tolerant as well (of our kids and the 9 month old sprocker). I wouldn't let him loose near small children as he is big and clumsy. I have lost count of the number of little old ladies who want to say hello as they had Dobermans in the past!

I have had words with him about the fact that he is bred to be a personal protection dog, and he can't do that if he is a mile away chasing deer (he is not let of the lead outside secure fields any more).

Breed does matter, but also the individual dog!

I’m old enough to remember when dobermans and Rottweilers were the status dog of choice and people were calling for them to be banned.

the same shit dog owners that exist now existed then, they moved on to the next “type” of choice. The dogs are victims of fashions. Only now they breed them to spec, the poor monstrosity’s created. It’s not fair on the dogs produced, to be breed to ultimately die.

that’s what the law needs to address, it’s always the shit humans doing this to animals. Wether In poor breeding or poor ownership.

0MammaBear0 · 05/02/2024 16:39

We need tough jail sentences for irresponsable owners who don't register and neuter their restricted dog breeds... These bully breeds are a menace to public safety!! What some people don't know is that these dogs were bred and selected to be violent and deadly to fight in pit fights for sport... They're genetically wired to kill

oakleaffy · 05/02/2024 16:43

SicParvisMagna · 05/02/2024 15:53

I live in Clacton, so just down the road from Jaywick. Brooklands, where this happened is one of the most deprived areas in not just the UK but I'm sure I read somewhere in the whole of Europe. The lady who went back inside after hearing screaming? Probably used to it. Whenever Jaywick is in the local news it's all "ohhh they're all salt of the earth that lot. Wouldn't hurt a fly". Total and utter bollocks. Crime, drugs etc is rife. Police don't really go there unless they absolutely have to. The whole place needs bulldozing.
It is a hell hole. A lot of the houses were built as holiday chalets in the 50's. They were not designed for living in. Some don't even have basic amenities. They are also tiny. I'm talking glorifed garden sheds. The idea of having that many dogs in there is horrific, let alone ones as big as XL bullies. The scrote who owned these is my age. I'm not sure if he's local enough to have gone to the local secondary schools. I don't recognise him but I do recognise his attitude. His sneer. Lots of blokes this way have it. I'll be honest the amount of staffs and bullie type dogs down this way I'm actually amazed it hasn't happened sooner.
That poor poor 11 year old.

Edited

I googled...It does indeed seem desperately run down.
Trip advisor said it's grim, too with dog shit in abundance and dirty nappies strewn on the 'beach'.
Expect those that can get the hell out ..it looks like a sort of run down trailer park crossed with a shanty town.

Grandmother killed by 2 XL bullies
oakleaffy · 05/02/2024 16:49

icelolly12 · 05/02/2024 16:31

Owners of dogs should also have to have their premises checked regularly to ensure they are secure with sufficiently high walls/ fences that dogs cannot escape from their property.

You're living in cloud cuckoo land 😂

I wanted to adopt a tiny Lurcher from RSPCA...they insisted on 2 metre high fencing or no dog!
I'm very glad they did insist, as it meant I didn't have to worry when she was in the back garden.
Fence {custom made bespoke} cost way more than she did.
Good fences make good neighbours.

Dog warden came round to check as well!

whatistheworld · 05/02/2024 16:50

ThePeaAndThePrincess · 05/02/2024 10:29

Dogs are animals, they have sentience, they behave like, well, animals. You cannot hold a person responsible for murder or manslaughter because a dog has killed someone

If owners cannot be held responsible it follows that they have no control over the animals, and therefore blows the "it's the owner not the dog" argument to pieces. And it follows from that, that the only effective way to protect the public is for nobody to be allowed to own a large dog that could seriously injure a human, including small children.

The UK is also very unusual in that so many people think it's acceptable to have any dog in a public place and not on a lead. The law needs to be changed so that any dogs not banned entirely based on size per the above must be on a lead at all times when not on someone's private property or in a registered and secure dog exercise field. Owners of dogs should also have to have their premises checked regularly to ensure they are secure with sufficiently high walls/ fences that dogs cannot escape from their property. This should be funded via dog licences that all dog owners must pay for. Anybody not complying with licencing rules should face a very large fine/ prison for non-payment and non-compliant dogs PTS.

We need to start prioritising people over dogs.

the difference here is that I would choose to stick my arm in a tiger cage and it would be MY fault. If I go for a walk and an XL bully dog attacks me, when I am just minding my own business, its the fault of the dog and the owner of the dog!!

If a tiger excaped from a zoo and killed people then the zoo would be responsible. They are animals and we need to treat them as such and be responsible for them at all times.

I have a dog, a labrador, that I walk off lead. I walk her off lead because she has 100% recall to my whistle, she is also trained to walk next to me if we meet another dog. If i tell her she can 'say hello' she may choose to interact with the other dog. If i say nothing she will walk beside me. That is because I have TRAINED her. I have spent HOURS doing this and I am aware of where she is at all times.
She would be on a lead on footpaths at all times too.

I am a responsible owner, she has been neutered, microchipped and insured.

somekittenmittens · 05/02/2024 16:55

VeterinaryCareAssistant · 05/02/2024 13:55

Thank you for mansplaining.

Where is the mansplaining?

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