Picking up teen DD16

[Flyhigher]

DD 16 says I have to text when I arrive to pick her up in such a rude way. She berated me over it.

Question - does everyone text to say they have arrived to pick up their DC's?

Even it's bang on the agreed time?
Husband says yes.

I do a lot of the time. But this time I said 6pm. Arrived at 6pm didn't text.

Was I reasonable or not?

I always text that I’m on my way and another text when I’m there! DS still often makes me wait though especially if he’s at his GF’s house!

Because of course you have nothing better to do than sit waiting outside someone's house... Tell him if he keeps you waiting one more time, he can get the bus in future.