Boyfriend wants to take my friend out on a date

[MayNov]

So, trying to keep this one short. My friend from out of town is coming to stay with me for a few days. My boyfriend has met her and gone out with us the last time she was in town. My boyfriend has taken a couple of days off work to go out with us.

I've mentioned I was going to do a gym&swim on one of the days she's here (I can spend up to 4 hours gymming & swimming) and my boyfriend said he'll ask my friend whether she wants to go on a long walk and for a lunch at the local pub with him. I said that would make me feel uncomfortable, he said he doesn't see any reason why this would make me feel uncomfortable.

Aibu to insist this would make anyone feel uncomfortable?

Hmmmm….definitely feel the title should have read

my boyfriend though my out would be nice to take my visiting friend out while I was swimming.

😂😂😂😂😂🤣

To be honest I can't imagine my dh taking any time off if I had a friend on a trip visiting me. Likewise he doesn't need to be around every evening.

Very much agree with @LadyMacbethWasMisunderstood

I've only read the OP, has this turned out to be a reverse? That's how it felt to me 🤷🏻‍♀️

Ok, so now I've read OP's posts. Not a reverse after all.

I couldn't see an issue with what the DP was suggesting so assumed that it was actually a reverse and the OP couldn't understand her DP's objections.

Ne'er mind now.

Your friend doesnt want your boyfriend there. Tell him to stay away when she is here and enjoy the time with her yourself.

Why do people do this?

Only read the OP of a looong thread and then post drivel.

We can honestly wait for you to read the thread. Or, least, the OP’s posts.

We don’t need to hear what you think, when it’s completely irrelevant and out of date.

You always look so foolish when you then post, ‘oh, now I’ve bothered my arse to RTFT, I can see what I just said was stupid’.

Sorry, but honestly….!

Having read all your posts on this thread, OP, I do think this is slightly weird. He's only been your boyfriend for six months, you don't even live together, and he's taken two days off work to help you entertain your friend? It gives me the slight creeps in two different and contradictory ways...

1. he's acting like "one of the girls" and actually intruding on your time together in a way that's quite unsexy, as if she's come to visit both of you and you're all a big gang of girly mates

2. he does fancy your friend after the time they stayed up late drinking and is jumping at the chance to spend time with her again

Weird.

Theres definitely more to this story.

I don’t think the OP’s coming back. I hope she’s ok and her BF hasn’t kicked off

You are abandoning your friend and your boyfriend is stepping up.

How to tell us you haven’t RTFT without actually saying you haven’t FTFT.

No I haven't read 20 pages of other people's opinions.

Make sure to copy and paste your pointless reply across the boards, will claw back the time you spend on "RTFT".

You're missing the point. OP's friend is aware that OP had a broken back and would rather spend time at rehabilitation with OP as she has done before. Not with new partner.

Can you state that you understand that now? I worry about the level of of intelligence on here sometimes.

😂no he is weird.

Exactly this ☝️

Exactly this

Nah let him crack on. He’s being kind

Oh dear god.

Read the updates please

You can just read OP's posts though. Click on "All" at the bottom right of the OP. That's what I did, didn't need to read 20 pages. A word to the wise!

He's being intrusive and presumptuous

The friend doesn't think so...

No she bloody isn't!

Don't you think it's worth reading the OP's posts?

If not, why not (after 500 posts)?