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Male born person wins women’s golf tournament and is now “worried about his safety” - interviewed by GMB (Title edited by MNHQ)

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HermioneKipper · 23/01/2024 00:15

Why the hell are GMB gaslighting women with this stuff?

https://twitter.com/GMB/status/1749329378352275568

This is an enormous male-bodied person - even larger than the interviewing man!

Post edited by MNHQ

https://twitter.com/GMB/status/1749329378352275568

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AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2024 09:25

hollyhola · 23/01/2024 03:44

I am not anti trans.

I am pro women.

Trans people are more than welcome to live their life as they see authentic to them. Carry on.

But women and their rights must be protected.

Trans women should not be allowed to compete in women's sports or enter spaces where women could be vulnerable such as toilets and changing rooms.

I feel this is very logical and pragmatic and I really cannot understand how things have managed to get this far.

Boggles my mind that people don't seem to understand this, or if they do can still find ways to defend it. Slow hand clap for the women willing to prioritise the feelings of men over women. All make blanket statements like 'all trans women are harmless'.

Well done you.

MadamVastra · 23/01/2024 09:26

SchoolQuestionnaire · 23/01/2024 08:19

I’d argue that one should be respectful of everyone. I don’t agree with trans women in women’s sport. I would have that discussion all day long. I just can’t see what being rude and nasty brings to the argument. If a person was called Fred but asked me to call them John I would just do it because it matters to them. If a person is born male but wants to be female, that in itself doesn’t hurt me but it matters to them so why would I not respect that?

Yes there are huge issues around this that need to be sorted out but this should be done via rational debate and discussion. Being deliberately hurtful helps no one. And I’d say that on both sides of the argument.

So you agree to call them whatever they want because it matters to them - yet what matters to women is overridden?

AlisonDonut · 23/01/2024 09:28

If women who took testosterone measured at even half the same levels as men who lower theirs [and say they are women], they would be banned from competition.

AccidentallyWesAnderson · 23/01/2024 09:28

CatMadam · 23/01/2024 08:29

God god transphobes are boring.

Good god YOU are boring. At least have a crack at explaining what transphobia you see. Posters like you just embarrass yourself. You pop up, shout transphobia with NOTHING to back it up, maybe a wee 'oh have a look the FWR board' and then you slope off never to appear again.

Have a day off.

WickedSerious · 23/01/2024 09:29

SchoolQuestionnaire · 23/01/2024 09:06

I didn’t say women should let trans women in. I specifically said that trans women should have their own spaces but you missed that bit of the quote. It is well documented that trans women are also not safe around men and I don’t want anyone to feel unsafe.

If these men are having problems with other men they should take it up with those other men.

It's not up to women to sort it out.

KarenNotAKaren · 23/01/2024 09:30

Brefugee · 23/01/2024 09:19

Gosh yes - i absolutely do not think it should be anything like approaching a requirement to have any surgery for any circumstances. This is one thing that i am very very firm about. Top, bottom, or whatever surgeries that are possible are something that i really don't think anyone should be even encouraged to have, let alone mandated. I have seen far to many reports and articles about the ones that haven't gone right, or haven't turned out how the person thought it would. I really do want people to be happy and satisfied in their lives.

But it really isn't widely known about how few have surgery.

It’s a very grim picture when you fall down the rabbit hole of bottom surgery. I don’t think trans people should be having this to feel validated. Then again nothing to me would visage a man becoming a woman.

What I DO advocate for is men being able to express themselves in whatever way they like without the labels. Wanna wear a skirt and lipstick? Great! Go for it! MORE breaking down gender stereotypes please. Just don’t claim it makes you female

StragglyTinsel · 23/01/2024 09:30

Brefugee · 23/01/2024 08:42

(as an aside: I'm not terfy because i don't want trans women in women's sports. If they're not having testosterone, I'm happy for trans men to be in women's sports, and generally in women's spaces. I am therefore trans inclusive)

I think you need to actually look beyond the rhetoric of ‘trans excluding’ and think here.

What makes you think anyone you put in the TERF category is against female people competing in female sports or being in female spaces?

Trans men are female - even if they don’t want to be.

Arguing that people should use the correct provision according to their biological sex is only ‘trans excluding’ if you believe trans people should have the right to decide they are the exception to this and use the opposite sex provision. Even then, the point is not excluding or hating trans people. It’s simply the principle that people have a right to single sex provision in circumstances where it makes a difference.

Brainworm · 23/01/2024 09:31

This thread is about fairness in sport and whether natal males should be able to compete in single sex competitions for natal females.

The issues at hand are: should competitions be single sex in the first place and if so, under what circumstances (if any) should natal males be able to compete in them.

I find accusations of transphobia, hate and discussions about pronouns deflect from the substantive points that ultimately boils down to inclusion versus fairness.

I believe that you can be non hateful and have a preference for either.

I do struggle with anyone who suggests single sex competition is important for fairness for females, but also argue to include some natal males in the female category on the basis of inclusion.

A final note, determining access to single sex categories by natal sex, does not impose exclusion on anyone. People may self exclude by choice, as they don't want to compete with their natal sex, but this isn't 'banning them'.

LondonLass91 · 23/01/2024 09:32

megletthesecond · 23/01/2024 09:24

GMB know exactly what they're doing. Now everyone can see what a cheat Hailey is.

That's a good point.

YetAnotherSpartacus · 23/01/2024 09:32

Cheat and thief of women's prizes.

Brefugee · 23/01/2024 09:33

OchonAgusOchonOh · 23/01/2024 09:18

Ah really now. Did you not notice the very feminine earrings?

to be fair i often don't look/dress/act like a (stereotype) woman. right now I'm wearing big socks, tracksuit bottoms, a metal band t-shirt and a hoody that my DCs bought for DH but he doesn't wear so i do (from the men's department of a clothes shop)

I am wearing no make up, i have short hair, no jewellery and no nailvarnish.

A person with gender dysphoria may never ever do that because part of their dysphoria is focused on the stereotype. The people who use Malaga airport definitely won't dress like me today because reasons.

That isn't an issue for me. The issue is biological men in places biological men shouldn't be. Including a women's golf competition.

ChishiyaBat · 23/01/2024 09:34

I am just leaving this here so you can see how many women are being robbed of their rightful wins, dignity and places/scholarships etc. it's sickening!

https://www.shewon.org/

She Won banner: Selina Soule and Alanna Miller; picture attributed to Alliance Defending Freedom

List of Female Athletes by Sport | She Won

This website is dedicated to archiving the achievements of female athletes who were displaced by males in women’s sporting events.

https://www.shewon.org/

LondonLass91 · 23/01/2024 09:35

I wonder why they did turn off comments, why does it matter to them if people think this is unfair? Do they usually turn of comments, or just for this issue 🤐

OvaHere · 23/01/2024 09:35

ChishiyaBat · 23/01/2024 09:34

I am just leaving this here so you can see how many women are being robbed of their rightful wins, dignity and places/scholarships etc. it's sickening!

https://www.shewon.org/

But we mustn't be disrespectful. That would truly be terrible.

bluebunny1 · 23/01/2024 09:36

ChishiyaBat · 23/01/2024 09:34

I am just leaving this here so you can see how many women are being robbed of their rightful wins, dignity and places/scholarships etc. it's sickening!

https://www.shewon.org/

This is shocking

lola8345 · 23/01/2024 09:38

GMB have highlighted this, I don't follow golf, I would have no idea about this.
I guess they turned comments off, so that they wouldn't have to pull the article, due to accusations of hate.
I don't think they were supporting the golfer at all. It's a very clever way to highlight injustice.

OchonAgusOchonOh · 23/01/2024 09:39

Brefugee · 23/01/2024 09:33

to be fair i often don't look/dress/act like a (stereotype) woman. right now I'm wearing big socks, tracksuit bottoms, a metal band t-shirt and a hoody that my DCs bought for DH but he doesn't wear so i do (from the men's department of a clothes shop)

I am wearing no make up, i have short hair, no jewellery and no nailvarnish.

A person with gender dysphoria may never ever do that because part of their dysphoria is focused on the stereotype. The people who use Malaga airport definitely won't dress like me today because reasons.

That isn't an issue for me. The issue is biological men in places biological men shouldn't be. Including a women's golf competition.

I completely agree.

The only way to look/behave like a woman is to be one. If something (sport, prisons, refuges, changing facilities, prizes) are categorised as women's/men's then they should be restricted to actual women/men.

thedankness · 23/01/2024 09:40

SchoolQuestionnaire · 23/01/2024 09:08

See this I don’t understand. I completely get the not wanting trans women competing against women and it is unfair. They have a competitive advantage. I can’t for the life of me understand why you would be opposed to trans women having their own category. It doesn’t hurt you, and means they can still compete and have a fair crack.

An extra category for transwomen just gives men another category in which to compete and win medals, when women's sport already does not have parity with men's in terms of funding, coverage etc. So it's not fair unless you also have a category for transmen. The problem with that is you're creating a category where doping (taking testosterone) is allowed. You're also creating two far smaller pools of competitors, thus increasing the likelihood of winning. You're doing this based on identity alone, as there is no way to meaningfully distinguish between "genuine trans" (whatever that means) and someone identifying into the trans category in order to increase their likelihood of success. The caveat is that they have to alter their body in harmful ways, either by taking cross-sex hormones or drugs to reduce their hormones.

I think this would be a real slippery slope in terms of athletes being encouraged/forced into altering their bodies to enter the trans category, which is highly unethical. We have already seen this with Caster Semenya - a male athlete with a DSD. Men with DSDs are scouted because they are guaranteed medals if they compete in the women's category. This is obviously unfair on women athletes, but it is also exploiting the male athletes in usually poorer countries who will suffer the health consequences of lowering their testosterone.

At the end of the day not everyone has the ability to compete in elite sport, whether down to genetics, choice or a combination of both. If you choose to make alterations to your body that doesn't necessarily give you the right to your own category of sport. Trans people are not a third group of people; they are men and women with varying body modifications. They should compete in an open category with men, and there should be a female-only category.

KarenNotAKaren · 23/01/2024 09:42

OchonAgusOchonOh · 23/01/2024 09:39

I completely agree.

The only way to look/behave like a woman is to be one. If something (sport, prisons, refuges, changing facilities, prizes) are categorised as women's/men's then they should be restricted to actual women/men.

Yep. I also think people who think TW competing is fine should ask themselves: why are sports segregated by sex on the first place?

TempleOfBloom · 23/01/2024 09:43

I think GMB know exactly what they are doing here, which is highlighting the absurdity and unfairness. They probably got the interview on the ticket of allowing the golfer to be plaintif about death threats, but managed to emphasise the bulk, get the golfer to agree that it is unfair etc.

I had to laugh though. Having to keep alert when out at night? Clearly the first time the golfer has ever felt vulnerable when out at night…that’s being a woman for you!

Brefugee · 23/01/2024 09:44

AlisonDonut · 23/01/2024 09:28

If women who took testosterone measured at even half the same levels as men who lower theirs [and say they are women], they would be banned from competition.

I was just thinking about this. I grew up in the 70s and 80s so i well remember the DDR female athletes, and i have read about their later troubles and early deaths.

But theoretically, if there is an agreed lower threshold for testosterone for TW in sport, and women were allowed to raise their testosterone levels (from pre- or onset- of puberty i guess) to the same level what would the outcome be? Would the playing field be somewhat levelled (although height, leg and arm length etc may not be affected in the girls/women?)

Not that anyone should be taking testosterone to prove this. Again we saw what happened to those girls/women in the DDR. It was obscene.

ArabellaScott · 23/01/2024 09:45

Just noting. GMB have updated their Tweet. (my bold)

Original:

'Hailey Davidson reveals she’s received a number of anti-trans messages - including death threats - since becoming the first-ever transgender player to win a female field event. She also accepts some trans athletes do have an advantage when playing against women in sports'

Update:

'Exclusive: Hailey Davidson reveals she’s received a number of anti-trans messages - including death threats - since becoming the first-ever transgender player to win a female field event. She also accepts some trans athletes do have an advantage in women’s sports.'

I have screenshots saved.

Jovacknockowitch · 23/01/2024 09:45

FerryTale · 23/01/2024 00:24

Can you get this moved to FWR please?

Why?

Brefugee · 23/01/2024 09:46

StragglyTinsel · 23/01/2024 09:30

I think you need to actually look beyond the rhetoric of ‘trans excluding’ and think here.

What makes you think anyone you put in the TERF category is against female people competing in female sports or being in female spaces?

Trans men are female - even if they don’t want to be.

Arguing that people should use the correct provision according to their biological sex is only ‘trans excluding’ if you believe trans people should have the right to decide they are the exception to this and use the opposite sex provision. Even then, the point is not excluding or hating trans people. It’s simply the principle that people have a right to single sex provision in circumstances where it makes a difference.

Just so i can be clear before i get indignant.

Are you telling me to think about what i said right before you paraphrase what i said. Or are you just emphasising what i said and agreeing with it?

LondonLass91 · 23/01/2024 09:47

As much as you have Sharron Davies, Martina, Daily Thompson etc stating that this is unfair, you then have Tom Daley and Gary Lineker saying that trans women are women and as such, it is unfair to exclude them from women only sport. And I cannot understand how they can possibly think that? How on earth can these sport men not understand how unfair women find it?