This thread is about fairness in sport and whether natal males should be able to compete in single sex competitions for natal females.
The issues at hand are: should competitions be single sex in the first place and if so, under what circumstances (if any) should natal males be able to compete in them.
I find accusations of transphobia, hate and discussions about pronouns deflect from the substantive points that ultimately boils down to inclusion versus fairness.
I believe that you can be non hateful and have a preference for either.
I do struggle with anyone who suggests single sex competition is important for fairness for females, but also argue to include some natal males in the female category on the basis of inclusion.
A final note, determining access to single sex categories by natal sex, does not impose exclusion on anyone. People may self exclude by choice, as they don't want to compete with their natal sex, but this isn't 'banning them'.