Christ this thread is depressing.
I'm going to be homeless in the next few months as my landlord is selling up. I was widowed two years ago, have struggled to keep my business afloat leaving me in 10k worth of debt. I'm currently trying to liquidate but am also trying to get my elderly parents sorted out as they have both hit massive crises this week and I'm an only child.
I'm 55 and my only source of comfort is my cat which I may have to give up. My credit rating is shot, I have no one to be a guarantor. I am absolutely fucked as rents in my affluent South coast town are pretty much in the London bracket. You can't even view with an agent down here unless you pass the credit check first.
I've spent my life having my career prospects regularly interrupted by urgent caring responsibilities. Getting a full time job right now is unfeasible as I have to get rid of pretty much all of my possessions because if I'm lucky I might get temporary accommodation, plus with the dire state of care for the elderly, it looks like I'll be up to my neck in dementia and heart problems with my poor parents for the next few years.
I was hoping to find a way to relocate to a cheaper area, but apparently Universe says no.
So this chap absolutely has my sympathy. As they say, don't judge another till you've walked in their shoes.