@Ramalangadingdong
You are talking about 2 very different things.
Many people never commented on how she looked. I certainly didn't. She is very slim, she works in an industry where how she looks is pivotal, she earns well and can choose to have whatever beauty treatments or Botox if she chooses.
My job doesn't depend on that, and I don't mix in those circles. Presumably most of us don't.