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Amanda Holden centre of attention at DD’s 18th

388 replies

ThatIsOutrageous · 21/01/2024 14:36

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12988607/Amanda-Holden-ensures-eyes-sequin-ord-dancing-storm-viral-hit-Murder-Dancefloor-daughter-Lexis-18th-birthday-party.html

Is it me or is Amanda Holden a total narcissist? (I know that word gets thrown around a lot on here but I think she absolutely is one). What kind of mother wants to be centre of attention at her DD’s 18th Birthday bash? Confused
Poor Lexi.

So aibu?

Amanda Holden stuns in sequin co-ord at daughter Lexi's 18th birthday

The radio presenter, 52, pulled out all the stops to celebrate her eldest child's milestone birthday.

https://www.dailymail.co.uk/tvshowbiz/article-12988607/Amanda-Holden-ensures-eyes-sequin-ord-dancing-storm-viral-hit-Murder-Dancefloor-daughter-Lexis-18th-birthday-party.html

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Ramalangadingdong · 21/01/2024 19:13

All I see is a mum sending herself up
and getting the party going. Then she gives her daughter the mike and goes behind the scenes. I am not a fan but she comes across here as a loving mum.

Royaly82 · 21/01/2024 19:16

I know right!
How dare she put on a sparkly trouser suit and have a dance and enjoy herself on her daughters 18th!
She should have put on a frumpy dress and sat in the corner with a lemonde so she wouldnt be judged by other women 🙄

zeddip · 21/01/2024 19:16

She is drunk and having fun, the horror 🫠

NoMoreFalafelsForYou · 21/01/2024 19:17

@Teenagehorrorbag
She is a self centred nobody who married a famous older chap to get in the public eye, and then dumped him in a really shit way once she didn't need him any more

You have absolutely no idea about her marriage, do you know how ridiculous you sound chatting shit about people you've seen on the telly and then thinking you know them and the ins and outs of their relationships as a result?
Pathetic.

hellsBells246 · 21/01/2024 19:20

God, the Daily Fail is a terrible misogynistic rag.

So what? She danced, then gave the mike to her DD. Everyone looks like they're having fun.

Oaktree55 · 21/01/2024 19:21

It’s work and pays for their lifestyle. Don’t confuse work and real life.

Royaly82 · 21/01/2024 19:24

Wow. How nasty

Ramalangadingdong · 21/01/2024 19:24

Winter2020 · 21/01/2024 18:24

That looks like a room of teenagers having a great time. It looks like AH was a great host and I'm sure her daughter had a brilliant party.

If it was a celebrity that was a bit larger/older/less glam hosting and having fun would everyone still be as bitchy?

I was just thinking the same thing.

i bet if it was Dawn French people would be saying how great she is.

peakygold · 21/01/2024 19:25

I'm sure having a mother with millions in the bank helps to ease the embarrassment.

Ramalangadingdong · 21/01/2024 19:26

Overtheatlantic · 21/01/2024 14:40

Yes but Lexi is even more beautiful than her mum. Amanda will hate that.

Or she might be glad her daughter inherited her looks.

Ramalangadingdong · 21/01/2024 19:28

LadyEloise1 · 21/01/2024 14:58

Me too Smile

I think the kids of celebs are used to this stuff and most of them seem to love being the kids of celebs so I am guessing it must be a pretty cool experience.

itsnotmeitsu · 21/01/2024 19:36

@SloaneStreetVandal > 'Its hardly 'bitchy' (jeez I hate that slur) to acknowledge that she's one of the most skilled wannabes to ever grace british tv! She made a career out of marrying les dennis, and would've stilleto'd over every and any chunt to further her 'career'.'

This is why I dislike Amanda Holden. And I've met Les Dennis and talked to one of his children.

5128gap · 21/01/2024 19:36

Its her daughters party, and she seems fine with it. There are after all many advantages to a young woman of having a wealthy famous mother and she may well be proud and pleased to have her as part of her night. I'm no fan of AH but I do dislike this constant spiteful carping about women over a certain age who dare to step out of their lane and refuse to become invisible. As long her daughter is happy with her mums behaviour, which she seems to be, leave the woman be.

Zone2NorthLondon · 21/01/2024 19:36

Lexie has advantage & privileges of being daughter of famous mum. It will open doors
Undoubtedly it’s created opportunities & networking opps being Holden daughter
Yes Lexi will be under scrutiny as a nepobaby (she is after all) but she has a lavish debt free lifestyle as a result of her mum hard work and brand management
So I think Lexie et al understands that AH is a big deal with media interest (as this thread attests)

dayswithaY · 21/01/2024 19:38

My daughter is more beautiful than me and I love it!

Toooldforthis36 · 21/01/2024 19:44

Serious cringe. She’s awful.

KarenNotAKaren · 21/01/2024 19:45

tachetastic · 21/01/2024 18:31

You're misquoting me, which is a bugbear of mine on Mumsnet. I said when she first became famous for who she is. Not that she is famous for that now.

What I meant was while she was an actress and singer, she really used her marriage and then very public divorce from Les Dennis to boost her profile, and for a long time she rode that wind.

Now, I suspect even she would accept that she is better known as a "personality" than for her acting or singing credentials, but I think that is fine. She is good at what she does.

I also said I like her.

I wasn’t trying to be facetious I’d wondered if she was a secret nepo baby or something!

TBF Les Dennis was a national treasure but certainly nowhere near famous enough for her to carve a 25 year career post-him unless she had talent to offer. He wasn’t an A-lister or some super powerful influential bigwig - he was just a gameshow host.

I don’t think she used a marriage breakdown in which she was unfaithful to boost her profile at all - I’m not even sure how one would do this!

KarenNotAKaren · 21/01/2024 19:46

VampireWeekday · 21/01/2024 18:32

I don't think that using sexist and ageist terms like Karen really helps make the point.

In fairness to @SloaneStreetVandal it is my username 😂

ssd · 21/01/2024 19:54

Her dd is a gorgeous girl but Amanda is very pretty too

tachetastic · 21/01/2024 19:54

KarenNotAKaren · 21/01/2024 19:45

I wasn’t trying to be facetious I’d wondered if she was a secret nepo baby or something!

TBF Les Dennis was a national treasure but certainly nowhere near famous enough for her to carve a 25 year career post-him unless she had talent to offer. He wasn’t an A-lister or some super powerful influential bigwig - he was just a gameshow host.

I don’t think she used a marriage breakdown in which she was unfaithful to boost her profile at all - I’m not even sure how one would do this!

I don’t think she used a marriage breakdown in which she was unfaithful to boost her profile at all - I’m not even sure how one would do this!

Do you not remember all the press in 2002? I had never even heard of her before. All of a sudden everyone knew who she was.

Longma · 21/01/2024 20:00

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Teenagehorrorbag · 21/01/2024 20:02

NoMoreFalafelsForYou · 21/01/2024 19:17

@Teenagehorrorbag
She is a self centred nobody who married a famous older chap to get in the public eye, and then dumped him in a really shit way once she didn't need him any more

You have absolutely no idea about her marriage, do you know how ridiculous you sound chatting shit about people you've seen on the telly and then thinking you know them and the ins and outs of their relationships as a result?
Pathetic.

OK that's a fair point that I know nothing about their marriage. It did seem a fairly insensitive dumping at the time, and although I was no particular fan of his either (not a fan, not a non fan, just not part of that world) - I felt she came across as very unkind.

But maybe he was a shit husband and deserved it. Who knows. Yes - I probably shouldn't judge.

But ever since she has still seemed to be a very annoying nobody with little talent and someone who's just got by on being pretty (not the first to do that, I know) - so these awful photos upstaging her DD on her birthday came as no surprise. I am entitled to my opinion - and I'm sure she's laughing all the the way to the bank so won't give a stuff......

sunshineandshowers40 · 21/01/2024 20:04

Over the years AH has grown on me. She looks like good fun and also looks fab.

ScribblingPixie · 21/01/2024 20:14

It must be bloody hard work to maintain her looks and fitness too. She reminds me a bit of Joan Collins in that way - huge self-discipline, work ethic and energy. Very impressive.

LizzieSiddal · 21/01/2024 20:20

Her face looks dreadful at the moment.
It’s so sad, she’s a beautiful woman but the work she’s had done is awful.