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ashley cains new baby name so disrepecful!

228 replies

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 04:54

my heart dropped for Saf tonight. AIBU to be absolutely raging for a stranger at the level of disrespect???!!

OP posts:
EmailAddress · 19/01/2024 09:57

Glad I read the thread to see that he hasn’t used the same name! Not that I know who these people are. Glad you were professionally offended for a stranger. There would have been so so so much discussion as a family over the name.

Bracksonsboss · 19/01/2024 09:57

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 05:11

Aliyas Diamond Cain, proper narcissist that man, he must know the hurt he's causing as he posted another comment on his instagram justifying the A & diamond meaning. but wow what a woman Saf is how dignified she is, I'm shocked that the new baby mum even agreed to the name knowing how much hurt that would be causing a grieving mother of a child that had nothing to do with her I think it's disgusting!

Get over yourself you judgmental bint.

gardenfoundry · 19/01/2024 10:00

I have no idea who you're talking about but if you're raging because their names Aliyas and Azaylia then you're directing anger at nothing.

YABU. They're different names!

KimKardassion · 19/01/2024 10:04

You might get some more support on tattle life OP. They don’t like Ashley Cain. I think they have sympathy for his tragic loss but are suspicious about where the charity money has gone and how soon the baby was conceived with one of the many women he was sleeping with.

GintyMcGinty · 19/01/2024 10:08

Are we supposed to know who these people are?

MinnieTruck · 19/01/2024 10:09

KimKardassion · 19/01/2024 10:04

You might get some more support on tattle life OP. They don’t like Ashley Cain. I think they have sympathy for his tragic loss but are suspicious about where the charity money has gone and how soon the baby was conceived with one of the many women he was sleeping with.

Someone within his IG comments made a comment about the thread about him on Tattle. I went and had a look via Google and they were certainly ripping him into shreds. There are valid comments about money that’s missing from the GFM and money raised from the foundation. It’s both interesting and sad when you look into it

StrawberryJellyBelly · 19/01/2024 10:18

Queijo · 19/01/2024 06:44

There is one letter difference in the entire name? How can you not see how it is similar?

it doesn’t matter how they’re written. The two names don’t sound anything alike when spoken.

MilitantMommyBFArmy4Life · 19/01/2024 10:24

gardenfoundry · 19/01/2024 10:00

I have no idea who you're talking about but if you're raging because their names Aliyas and Azaylia then you're directing anger at nothing.

YABU. They're different names!

If you have no idea who these people are, then your post is beyond meaningless.

www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/ashley-cains-ex-safiyya-says-31689688.amp

I didn't follow this before, but I'm capable of a two second google search before making a tot of myself like so many of you

AmyTurtleRocks · 19/01/2024 10:28

GintyMcGinty · 19/01/2024 10:08

Are we supposed to know who these people are?

Yes, and you must be absolutely raging.

RoseBucket · 19/01/2024 10:38

I didn’t know who they were but googling, it’s a different name, and he has raised lots of funds in his daughters memory, not sure what the issue is?

gardenfoundry · 19/01/2024 10:43

MilitantMommyBFArmy4Life · 19/01/2024 10:24

If you have no idea who these people are, then your post is beyond meaningless.

www.mirror.co.uk/3am/celebrity-news/ashley-cains-ex-safiyya-says-31689688.amp

I didn't follow this before, but I'm capable of a two second google search before making a tot of myself like so many of you

I read lots of other posts for context thanks. Couldn't be bothered to Google it. I was on the toilet, I had more important things to do.

BringMeTea · 19/01/2024 10:44

This place gets more like Tattle by the week.

Bells3032 · 19/01/2024 10:54

Calm down OP. really such an overreaction. he's explained diamond is a family name and all of them have "A" names. any A name is probably going to sound similar.

Also lots of people give their children names in honour of a previously lost child. I have a friend who had a still born son with a similar name to Lucas (not real name to prevent outing). When her daughter was later born she effectively gave the daughter a feminised version of the name e.g. Lucana (also not real name). We all thought it was lovely tribute.

MilitantMommyBFArmy4Life · 19/01/2024 10:55

Then why do you still not know who they are after reading other posts... Why are you coming back when you don't have a clue and have important things to do...

I'm confused

KaySam · 19/01/2024 10:56

RoseBucket · 19/01/2024 10:38

I didn’t know who they were but googling, it’s a different name, and he has raised lots of funds in his daughters memory, not sure what the issue is?

And potentially spent some of the fund on his lifestyle

purpleme12 · 19/01/2024 11:00

I don't get the outrage.
It's not the same name.

KimKardassion · 19/01/2024 11:02

BringMeTea · 19/01/2024 10:44

This place gets more like Tattle by the week.

Tattle life is a bitchfest but they are right about some things.

maudelovesharold · 19/01/2024 11:03

If it was the mother who'd had the baby so soon with a friend and used that name , the story would be completely different . People would be saying have brave she is and raving about the name.

I really don’t think it would? People would think it….unusual, to say the least, and might be speculating that it arose out of an ongoing grief about the baby she lost. Which is probably the case here.

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 11:28

have people got no empathy? going by Saffs story of "putting on a brave face" I don't think this was discussed with her prior, no respect all she had left was her daughters name & he can't even let her have that. I just feel sad for a hurting mother that's all.

OP posts:
catelynjane · 19/01/2024 11:34

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 11:28

have people got no empathy? going by Saffs story of "putting on a brave face" I don't think this was discussed with her prior, no respect all she had left was her daughters name & he can't even let her have that. I just feel sad for a hurting mother that's all.

He doesn't need to discuss it with her because it's absolutely none of her business.

Paw2024 · 19/01/2024 11:52

I think he's an idiot since I read up about the funds that were raised and where they have gone. Seems to be mostly funding his lifestyle

StopTheBusINeedAWeeWeeAWeeWeeBagOChips · 19/01/2024 11:58

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 11:28

have people got no empathy? going by Saffs story of "putting on a brave face" I don't think this was discussed with her prior, no respect all she had left was her daughters name & he can't even let her have that. I just feel sad for a hurting mother that's all.

She was his daughter too.

I'm sure she is upset, I feel for her, I am a bereaved parent, this is just one of the very bloody difficult things you have to navigate when your child dies. People do move on and have other kids, and its hard, but it happens.

She still has her daughters name, him using his family name and a name beginning with A in NO WAY detracts from their daughter.

You're so busy being offended on behalf of a stranger that you can't even see that, actually, you're the one who is saying her daughters name means less now ffs. Get over yourself and think about the shit you're spouting.

Hobnobswantshernameback · 19/01/2024 12:04

Dear god
you really do need to get out more OP and stop worrying about shit that has the fat sum of fuck all to do with you

Purplebunnie · 19/01/2024 12:04

It used to happen quite frequently in the past. My cousin has traced our family tree and there are two Charlies born to the same parents, one dying when relatively young and then a later child being given the same name. Mad I know but there you are. Seen it on Who do you think you are? as well

User79853257976 · 19/01/2024 12:09

It’s not the same. It’s Aliyas, his daughter was called Azayliah.