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ashley cains new baby name so disrepecful!

228 replies

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 04:54

my heart dropped for Saf tonight. AIBU to be absolutely raging for a stranger at the level of disrespect???!!

OP posts:
Notanotherbloodynamechange1 · 19/01/2024 09:01

He is a bastard. Those that remember him from ex on the beach days will know as much. Once a narc always a narc.

he knows exactly what he’s doing too.

MinnieTruck · 19/01/2024 09:02

‘Why are you so invested?’
’You don’t know these people’
’And this impacts you how?’

You are all people on an anonymous, discussion forum on the internet. I can guarantee that if I did an AS, I’d find posts of YOU speaking on people you don’t know. Whether they’re A List celebrities, the RF or influencers. You have most likely spoken about someone that you don’t know personally and their actions make no difference to your life. Isn’t there a current thread on Katie Hopkins? I wonder how many people on that thread know her personally….

Just because you have no clue who these people are, it doesn’t mean that the OP (and others) are wasting their time knowing about their existence. If I remember correctly, their GoFundMe for their daughter at the time raised £1M, nearly £2M I’m sure. Plenty people know who they are. No need to be snarky just because you do not

MinnieTruck · 19/01/2024 09:02

Notanotherbloodynamechange1 · 19/01/2024 09:01

He is a bastard. Those that remember him from ex on the beach days will know as much. Once a narc always a narc.

he knows exactly what he’s doing too.

I agree with you!

EvangelicalAboutButteredToast · 19/01/2024 09:05

I think the intensity of focus he is going to place on this child worries me most. I hope his child(ren) are able to become their own characters and personalities without their sibling being mentioned continuously. I also hope the father is in therapy.

DrunkenElephant · 19/01/2024 09:08

MinnieTruck · 19/01/2024 09:02

I agree with you!

Yep!

As much has he likes to portray himself as some sort of hero, he is not a nice man.

Rnaom · 19/01/2024 09:08

YABU to judge someone who makes decisions like this while dealing with the immense grief that comes with the loss of a child.

shams05 · 19/01/2024 09:09

They both sound completely different!

Gabriella83 · 19/01/2024 09:10

Aliyas is very similar to Azaylia spelled backwards

Frangipanyoul8r · 19/01/2024 09:12

Have people never heard of family middle names before?! It’s like a double barrelled surname without the hyphen.

It’s considered offensive NOT to use the family middle name in my family, it’s used across generations. Same as Diamond is for the Cains.

Twitchie · 19/01/2024 09:13

ElevenSeven · 19/01/2024 06:26

Aliyas
Azaylia

Totally different names IMO

Yeah totally different, could not b more juxtaposed

Twitchie · 19/01/2024 09:15

I can’t believe anyone with an ounce of empathy wouldn’t see how hurtful that would be for the mother.

THIS plus the fact that he stood at their child's grave and said

I don't want a baby with another woman- I want one with you

Whilst he was fucking his mate and she was pregnant.

PrincessCharlette · 19/01/2024 09:16

Had to go look up who these people are. Why are you so invested in their lives OP? it’s creepy and weird.

Yep, agree with that.

Naddd · 19/01/2024 09:20

They are not remotely the same

PurpleWisteria1 · 19/01/2024 09:20

MySugarBabyLove · 19/01/2024 05:28

There’s nothing wrong with it.
there is however a lot wrong with the need to be professionally offended over something you know nothing about and is none of your business.
incidentally, in Victorian times when infant mortality was high, it was common for a baby to be given the same name as the most recently deceased child.

Yeah. Doubt they were getting a mutual friend pregnant and shacking up with them instead though.
Men. Can’t fucking stand it. Just can’t stop shagging anything that moves- doesn’t matter who gets hurt.

Stressedafff · 19/01/2024 09:20

Can’t say I’m suprised he’s horrible
I remember seeing the pics of her funeral where he’s looking at his daughters mum like she’s something on his shoe.

KaySam · 19/01/2024 09:22

He is a narc and he knows full well what he is doing,

hope this baby has more privacy than his daughter did the treatment she got in her last days was vile.

hope the babies mother has more sense than allow him to be parading on Instagram for his likes.

luckmewish · 19/01/2024 09:24

Copperoliverbear · 19/01/2024 05:04

The baby's name with his new girlfriend is the same name as his baby who died, that he had with a different woman.
That just goes to show how silly his new girlfriend is, because you would not do it would you, how disrespectful and immature

It isn't though.

Twitchie · 19/01/2024 09:24

PrincessCharlette · 19/01/2024 09:16

Had to go look up who these people are. Why are you so invested in their lives OP? it’s creepy and weird.

Yep, agree with that.

But if it's Meghan markle that's not creepy and weird it seems,

Leave op alone and stop the pathetic OM insults. Why come on a thread when you supposedly don't care about the topic one jot? Seriously got nothing better to do?

NoTouch · 19/01/2024 09:28

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 06:00

not very far off though is it out of Alllllll the A baby boy names he could of chose really??
Aliyas
Azaylia. nope wrong on every level

I really don't get this, perhaps because the names are unfamiliar to me

If he had a dd called Alice and then a ds call Andrew would you still think it was wrong?

If they were very similar such as Alexander and Alexandra I could understand, but the two names of the babies do seem significantly different to me visually and verbally.

Is there another link between those two names other than the first letter I am missing?

Worried234 · 19/01/2024 09:33

Ginger89 · 19/01/2024 06:00

not very far off though is it out of Alllllll the A baby boy names he could of chose really??
Aliyas
Azaylia. nope wrong on every level

You sound about 15. Or not very bright.

Zodfa · 19/01/2024 09:35

MinnieTruck · 19/01/2024 09:02

‘Why are you so invested?’
’You don’t know these people’
’And this impacts you how?’

You are all people on an anonymous, discussion forum on the internet. I can guarantee that if I did an AS, I’d find posts of YOU speaking on people you don’t know. Whether they’re A List celebrities, the RF or influencers. You have most likely spoken about someone that you don’t know personally and their actions make no difference to your life. Isn’t there a current thread on Katie Hopkins? I wonder how many people on that thread know her personally….

Just because you have no clue who these people are, it doesn’t mean that the OP (and others) are wasting their time knowing about their existence. If I remember correctly, their GoFundMe for their daughter at the time raised £1M, nearly £2M I’m sure. Plenty people know who they are. No need to be snarky just because you do not

There's a difference between Katie Hopkins publicly mocking someone and the private family matters of whoever these people are.

SherbetDips · 19/01/2024 09:40

No clue who he is 😂

betterangels · 19/01/2024 09:45

AIBU to be absolutely raging for a stranger at the level of disrespect

Yes.

user1471600850 · 19/01/2024 09:51

Sorry Op but this is none of your business and really sad people are weighing in with horrible comments - they only begin with the same Letter and don't sound like each other - please go away and debate something else less personal and which you might actually know something about

MinnieTruck · 19/01/2024 09:54

Zodfa · 19/01/2024 09:35

There's a difference between Katie Hopkins publicly mocking someone and the private family matters of whoever these people are.

There’s no difference between strangers coming to the internet to speak about people that they don’t know.

What Katie Hopkins has said does not impact anyone life on here (unless they have some sort of relation to the family) so why comment? Point is, most people speak about people that they don’t know personally on here. Being snarky to the OP just because posters on here don’t know who these people are, doesn’t change that.

This is not a private family matter either. It is incredibly public