Your understanding must be sorely deficient then, as this is a shocking misrepresentation of GC thinking.
Apart from anything else, how have you managed to miss the significant number of GC women who are butch lesbians? How do you reckon they believe in/conform to gender stereotypes?
And really, I’d say it’s people on your side who are the most attached to gender stereotypes.
Not just because you think person performing femininity = woman, or woman = person performing femininity.
And person performing masculinity = man, or man = person performing masculinity.
But also because in demanding that female people give up rights and protections we’ve fought long and hard for in order to benefit a tiny number of male people, at our own expense, you’re following the time honoured pattern of patriarchal male supremacist thinking.
Male people are the humans who matter, female people are just here to facilitate those male lives, and aren’t entitled to view our own lives as being of equal significance and worth as male ones. According to people like you, we’re here to #BeKind, put others first, think of the poor “vulnerable” males’ feelings ahead of our own (and sod our own vulnerability!), and negate our own needs.
This is what you promote. Absolute conformity with that stereotype.
The real gender non conformity is women saying no to all that. We are entitled to prioritise ourselves, put our own needs first (because no one else will!), think of our own feelings and safety, and yes, even be unkind to those who treat us so very badly, from a position of far greater power and privilege than we can even dream of.
Women being selfish. Putting ourselves first, after century upon century of oppression, violence and abuse from men (male people). Breaking down those stereotypical expectations placed upon us.
Refusing to be the eternal nurturer to the world of men; refusing to mother anyone but our own children.
Shock, horror! Pass Seasmoke7 the smelling salts! The women are revolting; whatever next!