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To say that just because someone is opposed to " Trans Acceptance Without Exception" it doesn't mean that they are GC or Feminist.

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TooBigForMyBoots · 18/01/2024 23:35

And it's important to understand the difference?

Some oppose Trans Rights Activism from a Radical Feminist POV. Gender is abstract. A societal construct that can be accepted, rejected or adapted throughout life. Gender is different to biological sex which is scientifically binary and immutable so Gender is not really important and not a stable basis for law.

Some oppose Trans Rights Activism from a Feminist POV. Gender might have a biological component. Fine with gender ideology long as biological women's rights, security and single sex spaces are safe with no encroachment from males.

Some oppose Trans Activism because it goes against their religious beliefs. It does not make them GC or Feminist.

Some oppose it because they believe in stereotypical gender roles. Men should be men and women should be women. This is not GC or Feminist.

Some oppose it because of misogyny. They hate women. They hate men pretending to be women because it debases men. This is not GC or feminist.

Am i being Unreasonable to say that just because someone is opposed to TRA "acceptance without exception", it doesnt mean they are Gender Critical or feminists. And we need to understand the difference.

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popebishop · 20/01/2024 15:49

As far as I can tell, most GC people absolutely believe in gender stereotypes they just insist they're immutable biological sex differences instead.

Dear Lord, that's embarrassing. Do think the KKK was a Black Rights movement as well?

Ereshkigalangcleg · 20/01/2024 15:50

Someone doesn't have any idea how much women on Mumsnet pushed this issue onto the agenda in the U.K. seven or so years ago. Someone's a bit of a sexist.

CeeCeeBloom · 20/01/2024 15:50

@Seasmoke7 you're completely wrong! Ever GC person I know, feminist or not does absolutely not believe in gender stereotypes! In fact "terfs" like myself are very much on par with second wave thinking! Gender stereotypes need to be completely destroyed!

lifeturnsonadime · 20/01/2024 15:53

pikkumyy77 · 20/01/2024 15:36

Its not forced teaming—the entire hysterical tempest in a teapot is a fake cause of action by the far right. The fact that all these mumsnetters on the progressive/left end of the spectrum have become enraged enough to spend their limited political snd cultural capital attacking random trans people instead of working for actual human rights issues is the whole point of the exercise.

Every time these supposed activists focus on starmer or stupid phrases like “adult human female” or whatever other shibboleth is being touted libs of tik tok , Chris Rufo, various other (to you all) behind the scene paid rightist agitators lean back snd smile. Job well done!

The trans panic is nothing more than the gay panic , the satanic panic, the trafficking Panic, Q anon etc… that gets the punters riled up so someone can pick their pocket or corral their votes. It is, in its own way, an affinity scam.

Ha ha - we're just a bunch of 'hysterical' women who've got our pretty little heads confused over losing our right to single sex spaces to males who don't give a shit about our dignity or safety.

Some men REALLY don't like it when women say no to them so they come up with a load of stereotypical nonsense to claim that we are wrong.

DewHopper · 20/01/2024 16:04

pikkumyy77 · 20/01/2024 15:36

Its not forced teaming—the entire hysterical tempest in a teapot is a fake cause of action by the far right. The fact that all these mumsnetters on the progressive/left end of the spectrum have become enraged enough to spend their limited political snd cultural capital attacking random trans people instead of working for actual human rights issues is the whole point of the exercise.

Every time these supposed activists focus on starmer or stupid phrases like “adult human female” or whatever other shibboleth is being touted libs of tik tok , Chris Rufo, various other (to you all) behind the scene paid rightist agitators lean back snd smile. Job well done!

The trans panic is nothing more than the gay panic , the satanic panic, the trafficking Panic, Q anon etc… that gets the punters riled up so someone can pick their pocket or corral their votes. It is, in its own way, an affinity scam.

Good god what a crock of shit.

sanluca · 20/01/2024 16:07

So, @pikkumyy77 , women wanting fair and safe sports, yes, even at grassroots level, is a far right funded mass hysteria, that no sane woman would care about but would go fix the climate change instead?

No. I will never accept men and boys in womens sports. You can 'far right, hysterical, bigot, just like gays' all you want, the only person looking like a fool is you.

DewHopper · 20/01/2024 16:23

Also that poster seems to think that the very definition of the word woman is a 'stupid phrase'. Worrying really.

Teddleshon · 20/01/2024 16:46

@pikkumyy77 my god, you don’t believe women’s rights are “actual human rights”. Says it all.

JellySaurus · 20/01/2024 16:48

Which is why we should stop fighting each other, find acceptable common ground and try to agree on compromises that protect the safety and dignity of two vulnerable groups of people.

Not women's job.

If transwmen feel unsafe or lacking dignity in male spaces then it is up to them and their fellow males to make the compromises that protect the safety and dignity of those two groups of people. They are the ones with common ground.

Why should women compromise to accommodate colonisers?

lifeturnsonadime · 20/01/2024 16:49

Teddleshon · 20/01/2024 16:46

@pikkumyy77 my god, you don’t believe women’s rights are “actual human rights”. Says it all.

Some men, TRAs in particular clearly don't see women as fully human.

lf they did they would listen to women who say that making spaces mixed sex by including males who identify as women harms women.

Instead they literally don't care. So long as their wishes are met.

Dadjoke2 · 20/01/2024 17:12

CeeCeeBloom · 20/01/2024 15:50

@Seasmoke7 you're completely wrong! Ever GC person I know, feminist or not does absolutely not believe in gender stereotypes! In fact "terfs" like myself are very much on par with second wave thinking! Gender stereotypes need to be completely destroyed!

There's a thread on FWR right now where me and another poster with an extremely similar name are being called men because we're patronising and therefore obviously men. I don't know whether those posters believe in that stereotype, if they think there is such a thing as being BIOLOGICALLY PATRONISING. I'm a woman anyway, and can be patronising, and talk down to other people, which doesn't make me any less of a woman.

nothingcomestonothing · 20/01/2024 17:26

instead of working for actual human rights

Women are actual humans. Women's rights, therefore, are actual human rights.

HTH.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 20/01/2024 17:35

being called men because we're patronising and therefore obviously men

dadjoke is a man, so that would be why he is being called a man

Dadjoke2 · 20/01/2024 17:44

RufustheFactualReindeer · 20/01/2024 17:35

being called men because we're patronising and therefore obviously men

dadjoke is a man, so that would be why he is being called a man

Do you all know that? I asked on that thread and they said it's obvious because of the way "he" communicates. Which is a stereotype.

Helleofabore · 20/01/2024 17:45

Dadjoke has stated he is male and has been on FWR for years.

Theinnocenteyeballsinthesky · 20/01/2024 17:47

Helleofabore · 20/01/2024 17:45

Dadjoke has stated he is male and has been on FWR for years.

Exactly! DadJoke has said a number of time he’s a man - still he must like FWR as he’s always there telling us off 😆

Dadjoke2 · 20/01/2024 17:48

Helleofabore · 20/01/2024 17:45

Dadjoke has stated he is male and has been on FWR for years.

Ah I see, he self-identifies as a man and that's how you know.

RufustheFactualReindeer · 20/01/2024 17:49

Dadjoke2 · 20/01/2024 17:48

Ah I see, he self-identifies as a man and that's how you know.

Who called you patronising on that thread?

lifeturnsonadime · 20/01/2024 17:58

Has Dadjoke come on here to make this thread all about him?

RufustheFactualReindeer · 20/01/2024 18:00

No lifeturnsonadime…just dadjoke2

I can’t see where number 2 has been called patronising on that thread but i may have missed it

Theinnocenteyeballsinthesky · 20/01/2024 18:00

im kind of hoping DJ has made another account to argue with himself 😆

pikkumyy77 · 20/01/2024 18:01

Rainbowshit · 20/01/2024 15:39

Ooh filling up my bingo card nicely.

You do realise that females are being raped in prisons, hospitals, refuges where males should have no place right?

You do realise that males are taking female sporting prizes and sporting scholarships right?

Can you not recognise that these things are undermining female equality, female safety, female dignity and privacy? We are not going to stop speaking out about them because MRAs label us as "hysterical". I

Women have ALWAYS been vulnerable in prisons and hospitals because there are male prison guards, doctors, nurses and visitors. Statistically speaking women have always been more likely ti be raped by family members than strangers. If you all were working in prison reform all the goddamn time instead of intermittently when it scratches your transphobia itch you would know that.

TheKeatingFive · 20/01/2024 18:07

Women have ALWAYS been vulnerable in prisons and hospitals because there are male prison guards, doctors, nurses and visitors.

'Women have always been in danger so let's make them more so, because it suits men' - is easily the shittiest argument going.

We all see your gross misogyny

TooBigForMyBoots · 20/01/2024 18:08

pikkumyy77 · 20/01/2024 15:36

Its not forced teaming—the entire hysterical tempest in a teapot is a fake cause of action by the far right. The fact that all these mumsnetters on the progressive/left end of the spectrum have become enraged enough to spend their limited political snd cultural capital attacking random trans people instead of working for actual human rights issues is the whole point of the exercise.

Every time these supposed activists focus on starmer or stupid phrases like “adult human female” or whatever other shibboleth is being touted libs of tik tok , Chris Rufo, various other (to you all) behind the scene paid rightist agitators lean back snd smile. Job well done!

The trans panic is nothing more than the gay panic , the satanic panic, the trafficking Panic, Q anon etc… that gets the punters riled up so someone can pick their pocket or corral their votes. It is, in its own way, an affinity scam.

It is forced teaming. By, wrongly, putting LW GC feminists under the same umbrella as as DT and the Tories they exploit ignorance to divide the left and push the discourse and voters to the right.

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OneTC · 20/01/2024 18:15

pikkumyy77 · 20/01/2024 18:01

Women have ALWAYS been vulnerable in prisons and hospitals because there are male prison guards, doctors, nurses and visitors. Statistically speaking women have always been more likely ti be raped by family members than strangers. If you all were working in prison reform all the goddamn time instead of intermittently when it scratches your transphobia itch you would know that.

Ending family association isn't going to happen any time soon so if we're going to accept that we may as well just make it a free for all?

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