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To ask you to ‘Destroy without reading’? (Bereavement related)

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Izzy24 · 13/01/2024 10:01

Would you?

So if you were coping with clearing personal belongings and you came across a package marked as above, would you respect that person’s privacy and dispose of it without reading? Even if it was unsealed?

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user1471435657 · 15/01/2024 12:30

@Peteryourhorseishere That was in response to your post. I messed up the quote

AgainstTheOddsNo2 · 15/01/2024 13:39

Sorry I have only ready part of the thread so don't know if this has already suggested. Could you scan your musings and send them to a private email address. That way they would still be available to you and you only

KittenKins · 15/01/2024 21:47

To those saying the person would have destroyed the item/'s themselves if they wished to I would say this.

My health would enable me to written or dictate a short note. Actually disposing of things, well, depending on the size, maybe, but not without help from someone. Not everyone respects privacy, including paid PAs/care staff.

I have things here I need & can't get rid of but I certainly wouldn't wish those I love to see.

I'm a little nosey, but if you wouldn't want your privacy violated, don't violate others. This is especially true for those of us unable to act independently.

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