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AIBU?

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to want to shag the @rse off my husband's brother?

92 replies

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:07

If I am absolutely certain in my mind, that I would never ever do it..... AIBU to just want to?

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winniethewino · 18/03/2008 11:09

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chickytwotimes · 18/03/2008 11:09

See my thread of a similar vein - dirty old woman that I am!

Janni · 18/03/2008 11:11

Why didn't you marry him then?

scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:11

nope - as long as brother's partner can shag the @rse off your husband

lollipopmother · 18/03/2008 11:12

Not unreasonable to fancy people when you're 'attached', it's just unreasonable to actually act it out!

I fancy Harry Potter, saw him in The Sun today, now THAT is being unreasonable!!

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:13

Oooh goody, I was feeling like such a awful nasty bad woman.

Am I the only one who is approaching 30 and is defintely reaching her sexual peak? I have got sex on the brain lately. I never used to look at all blokes as potential shag machines before. Where did this come from?!?!?!?

  • Where's your thread Chicky?
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scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:13

Just cos i have a telly doesn't mean i cant look in curry's window

chickytwotimes · 18/03/2008 11:15

Here it is

hifi · 18/03/2008 11:16

im v my bil looks like a toad, walks on his tiptoes as he is so fat. my friend slept with her future bil on her hen night, everyone heard her, all came out in the divorce.

scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:21

eugh!surely a family destined for Jeremy Kyle *i furtled with BIL so loudly me ears popped"

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:24

Janni - not a bad question. He is a lot younger than me though. He would have been at home playing on his sega mega drive when I was out clubbing meeting his older brother.

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FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:28

Also - I am not sure where to draw the line with regards to spending time with him. I am pretty sure that the feeling is mutual IYSWIM, but hope that he would never go through with it either.

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OverMyDeadBody · 18/03/2008 11:31

You're not BU for wanting to, it would only be unreasonable if you both took it further, but you know that right!

Just think of it as good eye candy.

scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:32

nope just remember you boff BIL, then BIL partner can boff yer husband.so you all maintain the same low standards

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:34

Agree agree, of course.

But where is that line?

Does giving each other 'the look' mean that I have already crossed it!???!?

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scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:36

the look/the eye if it is no biggie tell yer hubby. if you cant then yep you crossed the line

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:39

How can I tell my hubby that I had to leave a club early on Saturday night for fear of what a jolly good seeing to I could have given his brother after a few too many vodkas?!?!!?

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scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:42

is it just his brother or are you like that after a few vodkas?

Twiglett · 18/03/2008 11:43

but how would he manage without an arse

don't you think defecating might be a problem

and no doubt he'd start to smell without the funnel approach to poo

3NAB · 18/03/2008 11:43

Give a look and you are on your way...

Sort out your love life with your hubby so you have no time to think about your out of bounds BIL.

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:44

I suppose I am a bit flirty after a few drinks although I have NEVER done anything. I think the thing with his brother is kind of like the forbidden fruit thing. It just makes me want it more......

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scottishmummy · 18/03/2008 11:45

no problemo.as long as you maintain the image of adultery/divorce/mayhem - makes it worthwhile

FisherLady · 18/03/2008 11:47

That's just the thing though NAB. I have a great sex life with hubby at the moment (although it hasn't always been this way).

I am totally happy at home. Absolutely no problems there. I am just horny as hell lately. What's that all about?!!??

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padboz · 18/03/2008 11:51

keepin' it in the family - fnar.

Highlander · 18/03/2008 11:54

it's not so much unreasonable as.........euurghhhhhhhhhhh