to want to shag the @rse off my husband's brother?

[FisherLady]

If I am absolutely certain in my mind, that I would never ever do it..... AIBU to just want to?

I do indeed have a sister who is particularly gorgeous so let's not go there please......

DH just read over my shoulder and said i hope you mention the driving instructor didn't think i was being that obvious at least he doesn't take it seriously....

Fisherlady - would it be unreasonable for DH to want to shag the arse off your sister? Whatever the answer, that's the answer to your OP question.

Seriously though, don't go there. It could get well messy. Concentrate on DH and DO NOT, I repeat DO NOT repeat the look.

just had a thought. should i not feel slightly pissed that he isn't jealous???

or maybe he is and he's hiding it... great now he's making me paranoid!!lol

prob having the desired effecthe's grinning so i know he's up to something....

PotPourri - I think you have summed it up. I suppose in all honesty it would not be unreasonable on my hubby's behalf for him to think of shagging my sister as she is quite blatantly gorgeous.

What would be unreasonable would be for him to be fantasising about it to the extent that I have been lately.

And certainly the look thingy. Jeeez those vodkas. This is 1 crush that I have to get right back in it's box.

Damn it.

Just get your husband to admit he's visualised shagging your sister and then you're free to day dream all you like.

Or the four of you could all tumble into bed. Eurghhghghghg.

That was harsher than I meant it to be. My ex BIL looked like a younger Jose Mourinho. I thought he was very handsome. Wouldnee a dreamed of it though.

Nehehe Madame.... I wonder if I could do that..... (the 1st bit that is. The 2nd bit - eurghghghghghgh puke puke)

wanting and doing are 2 different things. but i agree that the look...not good. but do you think that you're seeing something in BIL that you wish DH was doing/saying??

i know that the instructor thing is more to do with the way he looks than anything else. DH knows that he has let himself go a bit but he's trying to slot the gym in. i've let things slide too so i feel that i can't be too hard on him...

it's all the time i spend on mn and facebook.... curse ye for being addictive!

Okay okay I have not been entirely honest here.

I have actually shagged him. Many many years ago when dh and I were not togther. Long been dead and buried, but then on Saturday night - THE LOOK!!!!

You want to shag his arse?

With what? A cucumber?

Or one of them strap-on thingys?

You dirty woman.

But imagine the uproar if a man posted saying "AIBU to want to shag my SIL?"

i wonder if it's worse if you've slept with them. i have a really good male friend who was my boyfriend but we never actually got anywhere. even now we tend to flirt a lot and talk about stuff that we don't tell DPs. we did wonder if things would have been different if we had slept together.

I knew a woman who had 2 DC by 2 brothers. It was....icky

Imagine what your relationship with your MIL would be like? Yuck. As another poster said very Jeremy Kyle.

As I am on the other thread about how its normal not to bother about sex after a 2nd child comes along, I hope you can all see that even if my neighbour leapt on me declaring his undying adoration and uncontrollable lust I'd probably tell him to get off and let me sleep....

Hmmm, not so long ago I would have been the same Flibberty. Something has ignited inside me recently and now I would say 'yahoo baby let's go go go.....'

Or not....

Oh dear Fisherlady I really had better hide this thread now, if dp sees that something might be about to ignite in me he'll be running around with parafin and matches to make the most of it... How old are your children by the way - 19 and 20?

6 and 4!!!!

fl does your know that you shagged his brother, before you got with him?

does your dh know, i mean

Yes - he does know. Not sure he believes it tho. I think his brother denied it.

Mine are 3 and 1. I'll buy dp a calendar for, er, 2011 and put possible nooky time on January 1st.
Mind you I didn't settle down young so will probably be entering no-sex-please-I'm-menopausal phase by then.

Hopefully your BIL was pissed when the look happened and won't remember it?

Mine are 3 and 1. I'll buy dp a calendar for, er, 2011 and put possible nooky time on January 1st.
Mind you I didn't settle down young so will probably be entering no-sex-please-I'm-menopausal phase by then.

Hopefully your BIL was pissed when the look happened and won't remember it?

(hate it when that happens)

Yes - he was very pissed. I am probably making a mountain out of a molehill here. Nothing will happen. All will soon be forgotten. And 'the look' will be dead and buried again.

[hopeful face]

why wouldn't he believe you if you told him? does he think your just trying to wind him up?