to want to shag the @rse off my husband's brother?

[FisherLady]

If I am absolutely certain in my mind, that I would never ever do it..... AIBU to just want to?

do you get on ok with your mil? does she know you shagged her other son?

I think he just chose not to believe what he didn't like IYSWIM. His brother admitted that we had a fling but said that it was just a snog in a nightclub. I think dh preferred that version.

MIL has detested me since the day she met me.

She knows nothing about the other son thing (as far as I know).

i guess sometimes people chose what they want to believe eh?

personally i think its best you avoid him for a bit if thats they way you feel, especially if there alcohol involved.
i know you say you won't do anything but it would be terrible to break up a happy family, over something as silly as this

or you could turn your crush onto someone that you'd never meet, fancy any famous films satrs or anything, them obess over them not bil

You're right. You're very very right.

Am I the only one who has these bizarre little crushes from time to time???

The last time I had one it was some weedy little ginger guy from work. Sparked off one day when he did something really thoughtful for someone else and I thought he was the kindest thing since Mary Poppins and promptly wanted to shag his brains out.

That lasted a few weeks in my head and now I look back and think I must have been on drugs.

maybe you do need drugs, maybe some bromide would help lol, only kidding

do you actually ever fancy good looking blokes or just weedy odd ones lol
do you like anyone famous?

here i quite like him, i like the fact hes normal looking iykwim?

Normal looking?!?!?!?

Are you kidding???? Josh Hartnett is utter sex on legs. He is absolute top of my fantasy list. How did you know????

lol, bet there is loads of others you like too.

fancy them instead

I think if you have to ask where the line is, then you have already crossed it. That uncertainty is your conscience telling you that all is not well.

...on a further note, I have just had the awful experience of being on the wrong end of a friend's radar (he is married, to what was a good friend of mine). It turned out that what I thought were very clear 'back off' signals, he was taking as 'come and get me' - believe me, not a good thing to be on the receiving end of! I found it excruciatingly upsetting trying to fend off my friends DH, just imagine how much worse it is for your BIL fending off his SIL whilst panicking about the fall-out.

If you ask me (and I am really sorry if this sounds harsh, am trying to be nice about it, and I am pms atm, so not a good day to post...) it is awfully selfish of you to even think of giving him 'the look' - I presume he is much younger - you can't send a poor young chap's head spinning over his SIL - he is probably sat torturing himself about even now!

FL i actually think your Look and recollections shagging of BIL are sordid.if it is no biggie tell yer DH about the look (and shag)

fwiw i think you are getting a easy ride here (pardon the pun)

You lust after your BIL - whom you have boffed
You give each other come and get it looks
Oh Come on - yukkkk.

how did you end up having sex with Bil when you state he is Younger and on his gameboy whilst you and dh were clubbing.Were you and Dh apart

if a man posted a thread"my SIL is younger , hot, and i have had her and i want her again" he would be so vilified - rightly so

if this is harmless fantasy, pour dh a glass of wine and tell him.see how harmless he thinks it is

I agree with scottishmummy, I have resisted reading this thread until now, as it is sordid and makes me feel creepy even reading this.

Think of the people you are hurting. Get a grip.

No wonder your MIL dislikes you. She obviously recognises trashy when she sees it.

i would prefer to poke myself in the eye with sharp pencils that shag any of my three bils!!!

the one is a nice man but the other two are total and utter twats!!!

i get told on a regular basis that i definetely picked the right brother and it makes me guffaawwwww cos i would never have been attracted to the other three - oooooh no!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

interestingly though my dh did have a girlfriend (2 years relationship) who then left him for his brother!

caused huge massive ructions which were still very apparent when i came on the scene (2 years later)

in time though we became very very good friends but bil treated her really badly and they split up after 12 years together!

i dont see her anymore which makes me sad but she is happily married with a little girl now which i am very pleased about.

havent actually read the thread but it does seem a bit graphic

to admit to

To be honest guys, that is exactly what I needed to hear. I think I was probably off my head starting this thread in the first place. And agree with Scottishmummy that I have had a surprisingly easy ride(!).

In my post-vodka night haze, I seemed to have this 'all a bit of fun' attitude which of course it is not. Thank you for bringing me back down to earth.

The only question now is do I trust myself on the vodka around him again?!?!?!

FL walk away from this manky thread and no more will i wont i(oh a few vodkas and i might)

dirty
sordid
get a fecking grip and stop being so attention seeking
oh lookey at me i shagged my bil...might do it again with a few vodkas

I agree sm- you obviuosly have no respecy for your dh.
As I said in my first post, avoid him if you are serious about feeling bad.
This reads nasty