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To think it's tragic if Michael Jackson was indeed innocent

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pregahes · 08/01/2024 21:53

It's a real shame for someone who created incredible music to have their legacy at risk. It’s just tragic, considering the impact his music had on so many. It's tragic either way, if he's guilty for the victims and if he's innocent for himself.

I'm a huge fan and at one point t thought he was guilty but kore recently change of heart. I think there would be more victims if he weee in fact guilty. Somethings doesnt add up.

It's tragic

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StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 20:13

@KarenNotAKaren I meant in general, in response to a question upthread. It's wrong that victims can't be anonymous in the USA.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:23

Utterbunkum · 09/01/2024 18:48

With that woman it's also that she had two other kids and a husband and dumped them to drag Wade to America, chasing Jackson who, at this point, wasn't still in contact with the family. Mr Robson took his own life as a result of his wife leaving him and taking his son for Michael Jackson. Dread to think what that all felt like for the two other kids.
She got to America, realised Jackson wasn't waiting with open arms and basically tried to force the relationship. Jackson had moved on to another victim and broke her son's heart by telling him he couldn't come on tour as he couldn't take kids, then being seen on said tour with another kid in tow.
This is one of those rare occasions when, yes, putting some blame on the mother is absolutely justified. Father wasn't there to answer for himself, but it sounds like he tried to get her to forget it and let the boy get on with his life, but she ran off with his son.
Does anyone remember seeing much of James Safechuck's father in the documentary? I only remember his Mum.

Joy Robson was a momager before momager was even a thing. She was utterly obsessed with Michael Jackson and left her husband and oldest child to pursue a friendship with someone she barely knew. At the expense and suffering of her son - I really don’t know how the woman can be surprised that her son thinks she’s a shit mum

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:24

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 18:50

@Mirabai Did Jordan Chandler have a nervous breakdown or attempt suicide?

We don’t know but abused children whose fathers commit suicide are highly likely to suffer serious MH issues as adults

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 20:24

What an awful thread.

I confess there are many things about Michael Jackson's lifestyle that I think were highly suspect and I would not have trusted him around my own children.

That said, he was never convicted of any crime, let alone the most horrific crime imaginable. I don't think it is appropriate to use language to suggest someone committed a crime when a court examined the evidence and concluded it was insufficient to reach such a conclusion. There's a principle of innocent until proven guilty that dates back to the 13th century at least.

Doesn't mean you have to like him.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:25

Mirabai · 09/01/2024 18:57

The case was settled out of court. Jordy refused to testify and the DAs decided they couldn’t pursue criminal charges without his cooperation.

He has gone underground since and may have a new identity.

His father committed suicide in 2009.

I believe the maker of Leaving Neverland Dan Reed tried and failed to track him down for the film, so he has REALLY become incognito

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:26

I’m nearly 40 and I wouldn’t testify against the man who raped me as a child. I certainly wouldn’t have done as a child.

So amused to hear that doing so would be empowering by a pedophile apologist on this thread though Hmm

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 20:27

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 20:24

What an awful thread.

I confess there are many things about Michael Jackson's lifestyle that I think were highly suspect and I would not have trusted him around my own children.

That said, he was never convicted of any crime, let alone the most horrific crime imaginable. I don't think it is appropriate to use language to suggest someone committed a crime when a court examined the evidence and concluded it was insufficient to reach such a conclusion. There's a principle of innocent until proven guilty that dates back to the 13th century at least.

Doesn't mean you have to like him.

Exactly my viewpoint.

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 20:28

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:26

I’m nearly 40 and I wouldn’t testify against the man who raped me as a child. I certainly wouldn’t have done as a child.

So amused to hear that doing so would be empowering by a pedophile apologist on this thread though Hmm

Who said that?

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 20:41

And not one accuser ever went to the police. Instead the families forced civil trials looking for money, instead of criminal trials which would have proven guilt. Odd.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:49

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 20:28

Who said that?

Someone a few pages back who said that testifying in court is empowering and good therapy

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:51

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 20:13

@KarenNotAKaren I meant in general, in response to a question upthread. It's wrong that victims can't be anonymous in the USA.

It’s very wrong. I wonder if it’s the same now

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:52

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 20:24

What an awful thread.

I confess there are many things about Michael Jackson's lifestyle that I think were highly suspect and I would not have trusted him around my own children.

That said, he was never convicted of any crime, let alone the most horrific crime imaginable. I don't think it is appropriate to use language to suggest someone committed a crime when a court examined the evidence and concluded it was insufficient to reach such a conclusion. There's a principle of innocent until proven guilty that dates back to the 13th century at least.

Doesn't mean you have to like him.

What’s your thoughts on Jimmy Saville?

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:53

PS @tachetastic of you don’t want to be accused of the ‘worst crime’ of pedophilia, don’t act like a massive pedophile then

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:55

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 20:41

And not one accuser ever went to the police. Instead the families forced civil trials looking for money, instead of criminal trials which would have proven guilt. Odd.

Yes they did. 2 did. Your documentary has lied to you.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:57

I have to say I’m quite embarrassed for people who claim there was no police involvement when there was an extremely high profile criminal trial. What did you think that trial involved?!

nolongersurprised · 09/01/2024 21:02

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:53

PS @tachetastic of you don’t want to be accused of the ‘worst crime’ of pedophilia, don’t act like a massive pedophile then

This.

MJ hanging out with, travelling with and sleeping with young boys is what paedophiles do.

All of those defending him seem to gloss over this part. If he wasn’t a paedophile why did he act like one?

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 21:04

nolongersurprised · 09/01/2024 21:02

This.

MJ hanging out with, travelling with and sleeping with young boys is what paedophiles do.

All of those defending him seem to gloss over this part. If he wasn’t a paedophile why did he act like one?

I’d really like an MJ defender to answer this.

I’d also like them to answer what they think of his befriending of little boys only to dump them when they reach a certain age

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 21:07

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:52

What’s your thoughts on Jimmy Saville?

Very similar.

I think he was a deeply unpleasant person who should never have been offered a job on television, and I would never have wanted my children in the same postcode as him, let alone sat on his lap.

But he was not convicted of anything, so the same principle applies. I would not publish a comment saying he did something. Only that he was accused of it.

I recognise people feel differently.

Did I pass?

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 21:08

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:53

PS @tachetastic of you don’t want to be accused of the ‘worst crime’ of pedophilia, don’t act like a massive pedophile then

To be clear when this is quoted, I didn't.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 21:11

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 21:07

Very similar.

I think he was a deeply unpleasant person who should never have been offered a job on television, and I would never have wanted my children in the same postcode as him, let alone sat on his lap.

But he was not convicted of anything, so the same principle applies. I would not publish a comment saying he did something. Only that he was accused of it.

I recognise people feel differently.

Did I pass?

Well at least you’re consistent.

Personally I don’t like to wait until someone is convicted before I believe they’re guilty, otherwise I’d only accept that 1% of rapists are guilty

Mirabai · 09/01/2024 21:14

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 20:24

What an awful thread.

I confess there are many things about Michael Jackson's lifestyle that I think were highly suspect and I would not have trusted him around my own children.

That said, he was never convicted of any crime, let alone the most horrific crime imaginable. I don't think it is appropriate to use language to suggest someone committed a crime when a court examined the evidence and concluded it was insufficient to reach such a conclusion. There's a principle of innocent until proven guilty that dates back to the 13th century at least.

Doesn't mean you have to like him.

In the words of the head of Children in Need when asked why he never allowed Savile to take part. He replied: “I don’t need a criminal conviction to tell me Savile should not be around children”. You apparently would not have been so wise.

Have you watched Finding Neverland?

Mirabai · 09/01/2024 21:15

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 21:07

Very similar.

I think he was a deeply unpleasant person who should never have been offered a job on television, and I would never have wanted my children in the same postcode as him, let alone sat on his lap.

But he was not convicted of anything, so the same principle applies. I would not publish a comment saying he did something. Only that he was accused of it.

I recognise people feel differently.

Did I pass?

Hell no.

As long as your kids are ok fuck everyone else’s eh?

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 21:18

tachetastic · 09/01/2024 21:08

To be clear when this is quoted, I didn't.

But Jackson did. So why consoling he’s been accused of being a pedophile? He acted like a pedophile (because he is one)

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 21:20

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 20:55

Yes they did. 2 did. Your documentary has lied to you.

Was any evidence found in those 2 criminal trials?

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 21:23

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 21:20

Was any evidence found in those 2 criminal trials?

Yes. Lots. Do you think ever arrest ends up in a trial? The bar is SO high to charge and take someone to court especially WRT sex crimes. Cases that go to court cost the state millions and they do not do it based on ‘no evidence’. You really should read court transcripts, it’s very interesting but also very distressing

But that’s not what your documentary was claiming - apparently it was claiming that no child went to the police. I’m amazed it can broadcast such a bold lie

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