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To think it's tragic if Michael Jackson was indeed innocent

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pregahes · 08/01/2024 21:53

It's a real shame for someone who created incredible music to have their legacy at risk. It’s just tragic, considering the impact his music had on so many. It's tragic either way, if he's guilty for the victims and if he's innocent for himself.

I'm a huge fan and at one point t thought he was guilty but kore recently change of heart. I think there would be more victims if he weee in fact guilty. Somethings doesnt add up.

It's tragic

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AnonnyMouseDave · 09/01/2024 15:27

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 15:20

So, the YouTube documentary called Square One Michael Jackson. I watched it this morning. I don't believe he's guilty anymore. Any takers? I mean without the usual tyrade if venom and nastiness, would anyone like a civilised conversation about the findings of Square One? I have to say it had changed my perspective. Evan Chandler was an absent father while Jordan was friends with Michael Jackson and only started issuing lawsuits when he needed vast sums of money to break into the movie industry. He committed suicide 5 months after the death. And Leaving Neverland? The one who issued a lawsuit 2 weeks before his own family were served with a $24m lawsuit because their family business was in trouble, they would have needed vast sums of money too knowing that they were about to be sued themselves...

Watch the documentary if you are open to having what you thought you knew challenged. There is way more to this and as I die hard no smoke without fire, I'm now having doubts.

Would you allow a pubescent son of yours to sleep in a strange man's bed, or act as a strange man's plus one at public events? Would you allow your pubescent son to have any sort of friendship with an adult man?

x2boys · 09/01/2024 15:31

Carouselfish · 09/01/2024 14:33

Several posters saying he had no interest in women. Yes, he did. He had girlfriends and a normal sex life with Lisa Marie. Debbie Rowe was a surrogate, marriage only for legalities.

Did he ?
Maybe he did or maybe it was all.an elaborate facade
But paedophile do.often get married and have I assume a seemingly. Normal sex life .

AllIsWellish · 09/01/2024 15:35

I know someone who was first accused (that we know of ) about 11 years ago not enough evidence then and another case since, still not enough evidance. He was finally found guilty 4 years ago (3rd child to claim SA) and I know he'll be back in court for at least 1 more child.

It's not unusual

Iwasafool · 09/01/2024 15:41

PeppermintMandy · 09/01/2024 14:44

Incorrect.

Rewatch the interview with Martin Bashir.

Michael is sat with his arm around a boy (about 10 years old?) and Martin asks the boy, “How do you feel about sharing a bed with Michael?” The boy replies, “He kept asking and asking me to share his bed and I kept saying no. One day he said if I loved him I’d do it so I started doing it. It’s not so bad.”

So no, these little boys weren’t enthusiastically jumping into bed with an adult man. They were being emotionally manipulated into doing something they had repeatedly told Michael they didn’t want to do.

I haven't seen the interview. Did anyone ask the parents why their ten year old was repeatedly staying with MJ? Did they have a view on him sharing a bed with an adult.

I think the parents needed to be investigated as well as MJ.

Utterbunkum · 09/01/2024 15:52

@MaryDroppings adults being on the make doesn't change the odds that the children were victims of abuse. It just means that the same parents that chucked their kids in front of an individual most people wouldn't have let their kids near if he had been Barry from down the road wanted to squeeze a bit more cash out.

The 'money' argument isn't a fair one, because it isn't about decisions made by the victims purely for the benefit of the victims. Being coerced to put in a claim for monetary gain does NOT negate the possibility of abuse. It does, however, raise questions around other abusers in these children's lives, who still financially abuse them into adulthood.

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 15:56

AnonnyMouseDave · 09/01/2024 15:27

Would you allow a pubescent son of yours to sleep in a strange man's bed, or act as a strange man's plus one at public events? Would you allow your pubescent son to have any sort of friendship with an adult man?

You're talking about star struck parents who clearly used their own children to access higher realms of society. I wouldn't do it but others clearly did.

MaryDroppings · 09/01/2024 15:59

Utterbunkum · 09/01/2024 15:52

@MaryDroppings adults being on the make doesn't change the odds that the children were victims of abuse. It just means that the same parents that chucked their kids in front of an individual most people wouldn't have let their kids near if he had been Barry from down the road wanted to squeeze a bit more cash out.

The 'money' argument isn't a fair one, because it isn't about decisions made by the victims purely for the benefit of the victims. Being coerced to put in a claim for monetary gain does NOT negate the possibility of abuse. It does, however, raise questions around other abusers in these children's lives, who still financially abuse them into adulthood.

But it does raise the possibility the parents may have coached their kids on what to say. Honestly, watch the documentary. There's a lot more involved. You'll see what I mean. There's a very fishy timeline with all the allegations.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/01/2024 16:01

Why does everyone think he had an abusive childhood- was his dad convicted of anything?!…..

Oneofthesurvivors · 09/01/2024 16:08

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/01/2024 16:01

Why does everyone think he had an abusive childhood- was his dad convicted of anything?!…..

Do you think all abusive parents are convicted?

AnonnyMouseDave · 09/01/2024 16:11

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/01/2024 16:01

Why does everyone think he had an abusive childhood- was his dad convicted of anything?!…..

A quick google throws up "Joseph admitted to whipping his children with switches and belts as punishment, but said he did not do so at random..."

I believe abusers when they admit it.

OnlyFoolsnMothers · 09/01/2024 16:13

Of course his dad was abusive I’m just proving a point to all the michael Jackson abuser deniers

StillStuckInTheShed · 09/01/2024 16:21

MrsQTip · 08/01/2024 22:52

@Banditdog
i was not totally convinced until I saw leaving neverland but the pain on James safechucks face could never be faked, never, I fail to see how anyone could not empathise with him

You realise James Safechuck is an actor, right?

Cosywintertime · 09/01/2024 16:22

I think everyone knows his dad was abusive, but from what I know, there is no suggestion that he was sexually abusive. And I’ve never seen any evidence or research that says if you’ve a shit child hood with no sexual abuse it turns you into a paedophile. There are different types of abuse.

Firefly1987 · 09/01/2024 16:29

PeppermintMandy · 09/01/2024 14:44

Incorrect.

Rewatch the interview with Martin Bashir.

Michael is sat with his arm around a boy (about 10 years old?) and Martin asks the boy, “How do you feel about sharing a bed with Michael?” The boy replies, “He kept asking and asking me to share his bed and I kept saying no. One day he said if I loved him I’d do it so I started doing it. It’s not so bad.”

So no, these little boys weren’t enthusiastically jumping into bed with an adult man. They were being emotionally manipulated into doing something they had repeatedly told Michael they didn’t want to do.

You're leaving out the part where Michael said he slept on the floor on that occasion....and Gavin himself said what happened-that Michael got all the covers and pillows and packed them all on the floor or something whilst Gavin took the bed. I really don't wanna get roped into arguing about MJ again after the last thread about it but can people at least get things right? Especially when calling out other posters for being wrong!

Cosywintertime · 09/01/2024 16:36

Firefly1987 · 09/01/2024 16:29

You're leaving out the part where Michael said he slept on the floor on that occasion....and Gavin himself said what happened-that Michael got all the covers and pillows and packed them all on the floor or something whilst Gavin took the bed. I really don't wanna get roped into arguing about MJ again after the last thread about it but can people at least get things right? Especially when calling out other posters for being wrong!

Cmon Now he was a grown man, in bed with young children, young children who then explained in distress how he sexually abused them. And in harrowing detail. And who he paid great sums of money to their families to make it go away.

Firefly1987 · 09/01/2024 16:43

@Cosywintertime I'm not arguing about that I'm saying if we could get the details right about exactly what was said that would be good. I don't know if you can get the clip anywhere now because they probably took it off to protect Gavin's privacy after the allegations, and yes the whole thing was weird sitting their holding hands, regardless of bed sharing or not.

Utterbunkum · 09/01/2024 16:46

@MaryDroppings the trouble is Sony made the documentary. It's not produced by a disinterested party. I would be more inclined to watch a review undertaken by someone not connected financially with MJs legacy in any way that has nothing to gain from convincing us of his innocence, but I will have a look, certainly.

StopTheQtipWhenTheresResistance · 09/01/2024 17:01

CaveMum · 09/01/2024 14:48

I highly recommend listening to the Real Crime Profile podcast episodes where they went through Finding Neverland and the investigations. 2 of the presenters are criminal behaviour experts - one ex-FBI, one ex-Scotland Yard (both experts on domestic abuse, sexual abuse, etc) with Jim Clemente (FBI) a survivor of CSA at the hands of a priest himself.

They both think MJ is guilty as hell.

First of 3 episodes here: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/real-crime-profile/id1081244497?i=1000434021398

This sounds really interesting, thank you. Going to have a listen later.

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 09/01/2024 17:10

Nagado · 09/01/2024 13:41

I find it hard to understand why people think that a Not Guilty verdict means that a person has been found innocent. They haven’t been found innocent. It simply means that there isn’t enough evidence to prove their guilt beyond a reasonable doubt. It’s not the same thing at all.

And that’s the problem with prosecuting historical abuse cases. So often, the only evidence is testimony from a victim who had this fucking awful thing happen to them and who may have spent decades trying to suppress memories so they could get through each day. By saying a defendant has been found innocent, it implies that the victim is a liar, which is not the case. I accept that false allegations are (rarely) made, but the numbers are infinitesimally small in comparison to the number of abusers who get away with it.

The numbers become larger when there is something to gain i.e extortion, if not directly from the accused, indirectly through TV appearances, newspapers, magazines, publicity etc

ForTonightGodisaDJ · 09/01/2024 17:16

Firefly1987 · 09/01/2024 16:29

You're leaving out the part where Michael said he slept on the floor on that occasion....and Gavin himself said what happened-that Michael got all the covers and pillows and packed them all on the floor or something whilst Gavin took the bed. I really don't wanna get roped into arguing about MJ again after the last thread about it but can people at least get things right? Especially when calling out other posters for being wrong!

This is so true and very important. It's been twisted to look as if Michael was manipulating Gavin to stay in the bed WITH HIM - this is not the case. Michael was asking Gavin to take the bed and Michael to sleep somewhere else. @PeppermintMandy

It looks so bad but when this went to court these are the facts that a court of law had to go through and ultimately found him innocent. Nobody would let that slide "if you love me you'll stay in the bed" when they went into context they realized Michael was innocent. That being said I do think Michael was hella stupid and arrogant how he handled that situation.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 17:30

Jioyt · 09/01/2024 13:39

On what do you base your allegation? He was NEVER charged with any crimes. Even after the surprise ambush on his home and computers being confiscated and his house ransacked.

Are we now accusing people of crimes based on documentaries? Actually, don't answer that. Seeing the current trend to cancel anyone on social media and TV documentaries, that seems to be true. Nevertheless, it's not the legally acceptable way of finding people guilty.

Actually @Jioyt you’re wrong, he was charged with child molestation among other things

Saville was never charged. I assume you think he is innocent?

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 17:32

Jioyt · 09/01/2024 13:41

Saville NEVER went to court accused of any crime. So there was no opportunity to find him guilty.

MJ was taken to Court - TWICE!!

Yes exactly.

Do you know how high the bar is to charge somebody with historical sex abuse crimes?

And do you understand that he was NOT declared innocent? The jury just couldn’t prove his guilt beyond reasonable doubt. Meaning they could very well think he’s a mince (and some jury members even said this) but they HAVE to be able to show there is not a shred of doubt in this case. One bit of doubt and you can’t convict

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 17:32

Carouselfish · 09/01/2024 13:43

I think he was innocent. Fucked up, yes, paedo no.
As for why accusers did it? Some coached by parents, some resentful that time in the spotlight of someone famous had diminished, all of them about money. Read what happened to the accusers. And on the flip side of why pay off someone - why take the money? If your child was abused, would you be like, yeah that's worth precisely X amount to me to make me silent? No way!

How many of his accusers have got rich from their accusations?

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 17:34

Jioyt · 09/01/2024 13:48

This is a pathetic excuse. Maybe you aren't a parent because I struggle to understand how a loving parent would let their child go to therapy instead of court.

Court is the best therapy of it all. If one is telling the truth, no amount of cross examination would faze them. Yes, it's hard, but only if someone is not telling the truth.

There's not enough money on earth or heaven nor enough therapy to make me take money instead of finding justice for my child.

Hahahahaha

Youre funny.

Being called a liar and thief as a child by defence lawyers is GREAT therapy. No one EVER got phased by a nasty and clever lawyer.

I sincerely hope you don’t have kids.

KarenNotAKaren · 09/01/2024 17:34

TravelInHope · 09/01/2024 13:51

Again, you are wrong.
Not guilty means innocent Quite often the judge will say ‘you can leave the court totally exonerated, not a stain, etc.
Some jurisdictions have a ‘not proven’ verdict which does leave ambiguity.
Go speak to a barrister such as my BIL if you don’t believe me.

I’d be surprised if your BIL thinks annoy guilty verdict is declaration of innocence. It isn’t

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