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AIBU?

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Tattle is much better

343 replies

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 14:36

AIBU?

OP posts:
AdobeWanKenobi · 02/01/2024 17:21

MaggieNextDoor · 02/01/2024 17:16

How will they know? Unless the poster announces their arrival from Mumsnet courtesy of me, will Tattle HQ be aware of my treachery?

OTH it's probably not the best idea, I was feeling full of New Year cheer, but I'll retract the offer forthwith.

I believe the username from the invite code is saved and can be seen by the inviter, so presumably the mods can see who handed out the code and if the receiver causes trouble it could affect the person who invited them.

Either way, not a good idea to dole out codes in current climes.

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 17:21

OpalOrchid · 02/01/2024 17:19

If the owner of Tattle thinks it's all fine and dandy on there why is she so scared of opening up registration?

How Misogynistic of you to assume the owner is female.

OP posts:
Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:22

@TattleTalesTattling

Booo you put a stop to all my fun.

I have an account don’t worry I don’t need codes the exposes come from the inside … although some of you make it so easy to expose YOURSELF 😅😅

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:22

@TattleTalesTattling

Ohhhhh She’s definitely a female ☺️

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:24

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 17:21

How Misogynistic of you to assume the owner is female.

The founder is female so not an entirely unreasonable assumption that she also owns it

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/01/2024 17:24

I thought Helen McDougal was the founder and the owner. Is she not?

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 17:26

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:22

@TattleTalesTattling

Booo you put a stop to all my fun.

I have an account don’t worry I don’t need codes the exposes come from the inside … although some of you make it so easy to expose YOURSELF 😅😅

Who gives a shit? I've never said anything on tattle that I wouldn't feel comfortable saying IRL.

I don't post peoples addresses, follow them around garden centres or whatever other accusations somebody made about tattle users upthread.

Expose me all you like m'dear.

OP posts:
SerafinasGoose · 02/01/2024 17:26

The internet is full of arseholes. That is because it removes the filter which in offline contexts would make people answerable for their behaviour.

It would be very surprising if every person emboldened by the www's anonymity conveniently congregated in one forum. You are going to find some of them everywhere.

I'm old enough to remember the old-school chat rooms. These attracted some seriously abusive, disturbed, fucked up people, to the extent that I'd use block features to avoid any interaction with certain names so that if they did something drastic to themselves then I wouldn't have it on my conscience. They'd wait years sometimes for someone to reveal just enough information to dox themselves, and would then be harassed relentlessly in their places of employment, as would their families. Some were members of very nasty organisations. And the people in there were there day and night (as were their sock puppets) every day: it was the same names every time you logged on.

In consequence of getting sucked into the rabbit hole of one or two of these rooms for a time, I'm now immune to the vast majority of the shit I witness online. You can believe me when I say that online discussion board style forums - even those with the kind of reputation X has or the Kiwi one - are incredibly tame and pedestrian by comparison. As for Mumsnet - that so-called nest of vipers who 'radicalise' people and shout 'LTB' - compared with instant chat rooms their users are like a bunch of fluffy bunnies.

On the whole it's no bad thing that those rooms - at least as far as I am aware - have mostly died out.

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:27

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 17:26

Who gives a shit? I've never said anything on tattle that I wouldn't feel comfortable saying IRL.

I don't post peoples addresses, follow them around garden centres or whatever other accusations somebody made about tattle users upthread.

Expose me all you like m'dear.

and yet on mumsnet you name change to start this thread on an anonymous chat forum!

Aliaolo · 02/01/2024 17:27

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:22

@TattleTalesTattling

Booo you put a stop to all my fun.

I have an account don’t worry I don’t need codes the exposes come from the inside … although some of you make it so easy to expose YOURSELF 😅😅

I did notice that one user on Tattle has made it very obvious who they are on MN, even with very different usernames.
I'm not bothered about being banned from Tattle, to be honest, for giving out codes. If someone does announce it, it is what it is.

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:27

What ratio do you spend on tattle versus mumsnet would you say OP?

InAMess2023 · 02/01/2024 17:29

@OpalOrchid it's to do with the capacity of the site (I'm not an IT expert so don't know how it works further than that)

Hilarious how I've seen PPs slag off tattler unmasked... I'm sure all of you posting on here must look like absolute supermodels!

MaggieNextDoor · 02/01/2024 17:29

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:09

@MaggieNextDoor

Can I have a code please 😉

Hahahahahahahaha

That would be no.

BeeDavis · 02/01/2024 17:33

There’s a thread on tattle about someone I know and her family and it’s absolutely vile, disgusting stuff being said that’s in no way true. Made up by bored stay at home mums who have nothing better to do than gossip and speculate about someone else’s life.

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/01/2024 17:34

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:27

and yet on mumsnet you name change to start this thread on an anonymous chat forum!

Well, you're the one who hates Tattle but responds to online cruelty with "well they're attention seekers" and have now admitted to searching for everything you can find about me. Is that more hypocritical?

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:34

@TattleTalesTattling

That’s what they all say, m’dear 😜 you trolls hate a taste of your own, don’t you?
sounding hella shook.

@MaggieNextDoor I was joking … using some of that ‘tattle wit’ I bet i’v been on there longer than you.

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:34

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/01/2024 17:34

Well, you're the one who hates Tattle but responds to online cruelty with "well they're attention seekers" and have now admitted to searching for everything you can find about me. Is that more hypocritical?

where did i say i hated Tattle??! or even alluded to having a view on it!! 😂

WhatsInStoreFor2024 · 02/01/2024 17:35

@Thebestwaytoscareatory

No, that's left to mumsnet...

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:35

you invited me to AS you

I took you up on the offer

Still wading through the dozens of lengthy posts about dogs and trains! 😂

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/01/2024 17:36

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:34

where did i say i hated Tattle??! or even alluded to having a view on it!! 😂

There have been definite allusions, but I admit I can't be bothered to trawl your posts for them. That's your hobby.

If you like the sound of it, come on over. No codes from me though.

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 17:36

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:34

@TattleTalesTattling

That’s what they all say, m’dear 😜 you trolls hate a taste of your own, don’t you?
sounding hella shook.

@MaggieNextDoor I was joking … using some of that ‘tattle wit’ I bet i’v been on there longer than you.

My timbers are absolutely shivering darling.

OP posts:
Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:37

@TattleTalesTattling

Also it’s NOT accusations I have seen it all with my own eyes and seen many, many, many screenshots of people doing these things, please don’t pretend that’s not what goes on there, you know it does and it’s open anyone can go and see this happens don’t act dumb.

NonPlayerCharacter · 02/01/2024 17:38

rochethenut · 02/01/2024 17:35

you invited me to AS you

I took you up on the offer

Still wading through the dozens of lengthy posts about dogs and trains! 😂

You ASed me on your own, trying and failing to horrify me. I just let you know you'd find more of the same if you were sufficiently obsessed by me to keep going, and clearly you are.

That was a fun thread. Think it's done now, though.

TattleTalesTattling · 02/01/2024 17:38

Itsbritneybitch22 · 02/01/2024 17:37

@TattleTalesTattling

Also it’s NOT accusations I have seen it all with my own eyes and seen many, many, many screenshots of people doing these things, please don’t pretend that’s not what goes on there, you know it does and it’s open anyone can go and see this happens don’t act dumb.

Big bomboclaat, spliff a buss inna mi head.

OP posts:
pinkyredrose · 02/01/2024 17:38

Ohlookwhoitis · 02/01/2024 16:26

The OP is giving 'classic' Mumsnet replies. She's being sarcastic, not overtly rude.

Just cottoned on 😂