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Mary Earps’ dress..

167 replies

Pottedpalm · 20/12/2023 08:16

Worthy winner of the sports award, but her dress? No doubt high fashion but I thought it looked very unattractive and somewhat inappropriate. I’m aware see through fabrics etc are in vogue, but it looked to me like lingerie with a skirt falling down, so a sort of corset/thong affair.

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Marthawhochanged · 20/12/2023 09:26

I am certainly pleased she won. Mainly for her playing but but also for getting 'her Shirt' into circulation.
It was unnecessary for her to make a point of showing her underwear at a prestigious event; bad taste.

shearwater2 · 20/12/2023 09:27

derxa · 20/12/2023 09:25

I’m so sick of Alex Scott. She’s not a good football pundit.

Oh dear, what a shame. I think she's excellent as a pundit and general presenter. She isn't going anywhere so will likely irritate you for all your life.

StillWantingADog · 20/12/2023 09:28

@derxa
I agree she’s not that good. I bet the likes of Clare Balding and Gaby are a bit 🤨 at her meteoric rise while they have been grafting for decades. (To be fair, Lineker took a few years to get good at the punditry).

But I thought she looked fab.

shearwater2 · 20/12/2023 09:28

Can Mumsnet please delete at least two of these threads? There seem to be at least three.

Moonshine5 · 20/12/2023 09:30

It didn't do anything for her. I'm all for bearing flesh but it looked decidedly wrong. Get a new stylist!

NashvilleQueen · 20/12/2023 09:33

Can we just stop bringing women down FFS?

derxa · 20/12/2023 09:37

StillWantingADog · 20/12/2023 09:28

@derxa
I agree she’s not that good. I bet the likes of Clare Balding and Gaby are a bit 🤨 at her meteoric rise while they have been grafting for decades. (To be fair, Lineker took a few years to get good at the punditry).

But I thought she looked fab.

Agree. My favourite female pundits are Annabel Croft, Gabby, Jill Douglas and the Chelsea manager.

Shitzngiggles · 20/12/2023 09:47

I've just googled the dress because I didn't watch the programme. Seriously wtf is all the fuss about? There's absolutely nothing wrong or inappropriate about her dress. She's got an amazing figure and she looked great. As others have said focus on her great achievements.

derxa · 20/12/2023 09:49

Shitzngiggles · 20/12/2023 09:47

I've just googled the dress because I didn't watch the programme. Seriously wtf is all the fuss about? There's absolutely nothing wrong or inappropriate about her dress. She's got an amazing figure and she looked great. As others have said focus on her great achievements.

Yes. I don’t get it either.

LakieLady · 20/12/2023 09:54

Mary Earps is fantastic and I don't give a shit what she wears.

She's an incredible role model for girls, both on and off the pitch, and really deserved to win.

Marthawhochanged · 20/12/2023 10:04

The pic on Front page of The Times is not a good one. She is not standing upright with squared shoulders, she needs more support from a bra than she is getting in that outfit.

Webex · 20/12/2023 10:05

She seems like a great sportswoman and a nice person, that's a horrible dress but so what really.

DonnaBanana · 20/12/2023 10:30

I thought she looked fantastic to be honest. Stop s-shaming

ManateeFair · 20/12/2023 10:33

I couldn't give a damn what she chose to wear or whether you would deem it 'attractive' or not. She's a fucking brilliant goalkeeper and an absolute legend. She can wear what she wants. She doesn't exist to look pretty for you.

The amount of misogyny on this website is absolutely unreal.

BIossomtoes · 20/12/2023 10:33

DonnaBanana · 20/12/2023 10:30

I thought she looked fantastic to be honest. Stop s-shaming

In what way is disliking a dress slut shaming? Horrible misogynistic term.

ManateeFair · 20/12/2023 10:36

derxa · 20/12/2023 09:25

I’m so sick of Alex Scott. She’s not a good football pundit.

She's an excellent pundit. Her tactical analysis is absolutely spot-on, really observant and insightful and articulately expressed.

EtonMessy · 20/12/2023 10:41
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Mary Earps is bloody fantastic and that’s all that needs to be said !
Sshh 🤫

ManateeFair · 20/12/2023 10:44

BIossomtoes · 20/12/2023 10:33

In what way is disliking a dress slut shaming? Horrible misogynistic term.

But people aren't just 'disliking a dress', are they? They're disliking it for a very specific reason.

somewhat inappropriate... it looked to me like lingerie
she needs more support from a bra
showing her underwear at a prestigious event; bad taste
What dress? She wasn’t wearing one
an outfit cut so you could see their vest and knickers

I don't know what's more embarrassing; the fact that you're a misogynist or the fact that you don't even realise it.

ElaineMBenes · 20/12/2023 10:45

@ManateeFair 👏👏👏👏

BIossomtoes · 20/12/2023 10:47

I’m not a misogynist, I just don’t like the fucking dress. And it does look like lingerie - do we now have to deny reality in order not to be misogynist?

BlowDryRat · 20/12/2023 10:59

I thought it was brilliant: shows off her athletic physique at an awards show for excellence in elite sport. Perfect.

Pigeonqueen · 20/12/2023 11:02

BIossomtoes · 20/12/2023 10:47

I’m not a misogynist, I just don’t like the fucking dress. And it does look like lingerie - do we now have to deny reality in order not to be misogynist?

Exactly.

KimberleyClark · 20/12/2023 11:04

Mumof2teens79 · 20/12/2023 08:35

Really don't know what was inappropriate about it.
I loved it...anyone know where its from?

Ann Summers?

sparepantsandtoothbrush · 20/12/2023 11:08

God some of these comments are vile. As another poster said, she's waking up to the expected misogynistic men folk slagging her off for winning and women slagging off what she was wearing. I very much doubt she gives a shit about either of those things because that's her personality but it's disgusting and unnecessary

Fwiw I thought she looked amazing and so did my 17 year old. And she thoroughly deserved to win

Nishky32 · 20/12/2023 11:09

ManateeFair · 20/12/2023 10:36

She's an excellent pundit. Her tactical analysis is absolutely spot-on, really observant and insightful and articulately expressed.

Agreed- and while the other commentators mentioned were grafting at presenting, she was grafting at playing football…….