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Am I the only person who can't stand the word fanny?

148 replies

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:05

I find the word fanny ick and uncomfortable. I really cringe when people use it. It just sounds vile and reminds me of like a big fat builder fanny or something weird like that (I know, what is wrong with me!?) But seriously is anyone else the same?

What other words make you cringe??

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Ravenclaw101 · 11/12/2023 00:07

Fanny is all about context for me.

As a vagina reference, absolutely not. But I do love to tell people to stop fannying around.

FatFatMary · 11/12/2023 00:07

Lol. No I don’t like that word.

redfacebigdisgrace · 11/12/2023 00:08

Here in Scotland we love calling people fannies . It makes me laugh. I don’t like it as a serious reference to vulva/vagina though.

Ortila · 11/12/2023 00:08

What is a big fat builder fanny?

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:09

@Ortila I have absolutely no idea. It's just the mental image I get when people use the word fanny as a reference to vaginas.

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HousedInMySoul · 11/12/2023 00:11

It's fairly standard where I live (North West England) it sounds normal to me 🤷‍♀️

Westfacing · 11/12/2023 00:12

I don't like it - sounds vulgar!

Do builders have fannies?

Dinkydaisy1 · 11/12/2023 00:13

I hate the word arse. It sounds so ugly and crass to me. Bum and bottom are fine but arse gives me the absolute ick.

Ortila · 11/12/2023 00:14

Ah right hahaha.

For me it's not so usual to use the word to talk about an actual vagina - it's just an insult. I mean, I'd never say, for example, "my fanny is cold" or whatever.

Big fat builder fanny is an excellent insult though.

LittleMissSunshiner · 11/12/2023 00:14

WTF is a big fat builder fanny?

If you don't like a word, find one you do like

RosesAndHellebores · 11/12/2023 00:14

Doesn't bother me in the slightest. I think it's better than some other words used.

Tailfeather · 11/12/2023 00:15

Eeew. Me too. I work with only females and they often refer to 'down there' as their fannies and I quietly shudder.

FatFatMary · 11/12/2023 00:15

I don’t really mind arse but I don’t like ass and it being joined onto other words or used for emphasis

tomatoontoast · 11/12/2023 00:16

Fanjo is even worse in my book.

pinkdelight · 11/12/2023 00:17

The big fat builder fanny is definitely just you. That's not a thing. I don't mind the word at all, it's fine, pretty inoffensive as names for fannies go.

theduchessofspork · 11/12/2023 00:17

Ortila · 11/12/2023 00:08

What is a big fat builder fanny?

Yes pls explain ! Not many builders are ladies…

I don’t mind it, but it’s quite playground

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:17

@LittleMissSunshiner hahaha it's literally not a 'thing', it's just a weird mental image my brain concocts whenever I hear the word fanny.

I definitely don't use that word myself. I just wanted to know If it also makes others cringe.

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Bringonthesunforthewashing · 11/12/2023 00:18

Fanny - not offensive generally

Cunt….

Know which one I prefer

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:20

@Bringonthesunforthewashing oh that's another level of horrendous. I'd find that offensive, whereas fanny just makes me cringe.

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NoTouch · 11/12/2023 00:20

big fat builder fanny

I assume you are taking fanny in the American meaning ass instead of the british one. I never think of fanny as ass and I dont think many people in the UK do either.

Fanny is very commonly used in Scotland and I have no problem with it.

BigFatBuilderFanny · 11/12/2023 00:21

I am shocked and appalled at the content of this discussion.

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:23

@NoTouch no I'm not talking about the American use. I imagine a fat builder with a huge vagina whenever I hear the word fanny. It's the weirdest thing I know, but that's how much the word makes me cringe lol.

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Helendegenerate · 11/12/2023 00:24

I am not a huge errr fan. ☺

However there's a word I strongly dislike and it's

S C R O T U M

Useruser1212 · 11/12/2023 00:24

@BigFatBuilderFanny my sincere apologies!

Hahaha thIs gave me such a laugh!

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Georgeandzippyzoo · 11/12/2023 00:27

My DParents were invited to friends (living in America)daughters wedding , at the rehearsal dinner they were sat next to some.of the grooms family. A lady asked my dad if they'd been somewhere nice sightseeing. My dad gave list of what they'd done, including Niagra Falls.and how tired they were . Lady said 'oh when we went to Niagra falls my fanny was done in....off all the cycling's my dad literally choked on his dinner.
Fanny=bottom. Dad loved telling that story

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