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To ask for your funeral music

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Margotshypotheticaldog · 09/12/2023 18:46

I've narrowed it down to The Only living Boy in New York by Simon and Garfunkel ( I'm obsessed with the weather forecast, only news I need)
And Raise Hell by Brandi Carlisle. Also something by Magnetic fields....Andrew in Drag probably not appropriate though...

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Jimbeamandme · 09/12/2023 19:04

Find the river REM

SerenityNowInsanityLater · 09/12/2023 19:08

Stone or Lavender by Hiatus Kaiyote

Stress101 · 09/12/2023 19:09

Metallica, Nothing Else Matters (instrumental ) as my coffin is lowered into the ground.

keffie12 · 09/12/2023 19:11

1/ Entrance 9 million bicycles in Bejing (The song I walked down the ailse to, to my late husband)

It was also played at my husband celebration of life service (Katie Malleu)

The choice is because I will be joining my husband again on that final journey

2/ Your beautiful (Phil Wickham) A contemporary Christian song with words of deep meaning

3/ Fields of gold (Eva Cassidy) also played at my late husband and I wedding as the final song

catgirl1976 · 09/12/2023 19:12

Hallelujah - Jeff Buckley version

Behindyouiam · 09/12/2023 19:12

This

Thepeopleversuswork · 09/12/2023 19:14

It’s a Long Way To the Top If You Wanna Rock n Roll, by AC/DC

Margotshypotheticaldog · 09/12/2023 19:14

I am looking up every single song I don't know, thank you women for sharing ❤️

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TicTacNicNak · 09/12/2023 19:15

I'm a funeral arranger and one of the parts I enjoy most is the diversity of music that gets chosen.

i intend to go direct to crem without a ceremony, so no music needed.

mumda · 09/12/2023 19:16

Oh good god I'm weeping.
I think my hrt is broken.

Puzzledandpissedoff · 09/12/2023 19:16

It's a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong

PerspiringElizabeth · 09/12/2023 19:16

Oh another vote for The Parting Glass ❤️

FuzzyPuffling · 09/12/2023 19:16

Allegri's Misere
Morten Lauridsen - Oh Magnum Mysterium
Norman Greenbaum - Spirit in the Sky

Hymns - Be Still My Soul and In Christ Alone

Margotshypotheticaldog · 09/12/2023 19:17

mumda · 09/12/2023 19:16

Oh good god I'm weeping.
I think my hrt is broken.

Me too. Drink more wine!!

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angieloumc · 09/12/2023 19:20

Flying without wings - Westlife
How great thou art - Carrie Underwood
Songbird - Fleetwood Mac

Not19foreverpullyourselftogether · 09/12/2023 19:21

I will have a direct cremation, no funeral, but Birds Fly by Imagine Dragons is the song I would choose

BIossomtoes · 09/12/2023 19:22

Pink Floyd Granchester Meadows for sure. I’m leaving my son a huge list to choose from, he’ll get it right. I was tempted to add This Girl is on Fire …

Georgyporky · 09/12/2023 19:22

I chose 3 pieces that meant something to me and/or late DH.

2 classical, & the "exit music" was a German Oompah band that I detested !

A close friend had "Bat out of Hell"

Mummapenguin20 · 09/12/2023 19:22

How do I say goodbye-dean lewis
See you again (no rap)-Charlie purth
Take me home-Jess Glynn

DeepEnd · 09/12/2023 19:23

If You Want Me To Stay by Sly and the Family Stone

Allthegoodusernamesareused · 09/12/2023 19:24

No Frontiers by The Corrs (although I believe it's a cover).
Spotlight from Everybody's Talking About Jamie.

My Mum had Con Te Partiro by Andrea Bocelli. Also If I should fall behind by Bruce Springsteen.

RenoDakota · 09/12/2023 19:25

All That by Sparks.

Paddingtonthebear · 09/12/2023 19:25

Sunshine on Leith - Proclaimers

I’m not Scottish, I live at the other end of the UK. But I think it’s the only song that’ll be needed 👍

Inyourwildestdreams · 09/12/2023 19:25

thewreckofthehesperus · 09/12/2023 19:10

This was played at my Dad's funeral and it's so beautiful it makes me weep everytime I hear it.

Edited for spelling

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@thewreckofthehesperus it’s a beautiful song. DH and I talked years ago about what we’d want at our funerals and his only request was for this song to be played and everyone to have a bloody big drink afterwards - preferably of all his favourite whiskeys 😂

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