@MellowYellowWithaBitofPurple
OK I’ll bite. I work, usually on low wage, and am on PIP.
Yes I have a ‘carer at stupid o’clock’ - 4am. Here's the highlights of any morning:
Her 1st job’s to administer medication then unfold my limbs. I severely stiffen overnight into a tight pain racked ball, and can’t move, straighten my arms, or legs or clunk my pelvis by myself, regardless of need. Often joints are partially out and have to be put back in, swollen ones have to be ice treated, (freezer and running it - PIP) and the fluid collected in my ankles has to be massaged up my legs.
She also has to sort out and re calibrate night-time devices and check heart and BP readings. (aids are NHS/PIP)
Next, my catheter bag (PIP) has to be sorted out and changed. I’ve suffered urethral necrosis (NHS) so there are leaks along with the need to clean up bowel voiding and it’s results, to be achieved so I can be transferred hygienically to my chair. (NHS) To make my PIP go far enough, disposable bags and tubes have to be cleaned and reused.
She (DWP) then has to get me to the bathroom and into hot water. (PIP) I’m still unable to move much independently even to save myself if things go wrong, and over time they quite often have leading to hospitalization, so it’s not only painful but stressful. The hot water combined with medication (NHS) helps get parts of my body working, but I can’t do it alone, and yesterday’s dressings (PIP) have to be removed before everything including hair, is cleaned. I’m then got out and towel wrapped. While I drip dry she swiftly strips the bed, washes down the mattress (hospital bed loaned by NHS) and puts clean bedding (PIP) on.
Then I’m put back onto it. She ensures everywhere is dry, does a visual check with paperwork, treats broken skin and pressure sores, and applies cream and dressings (PIP) where needed, especially undercarriage. Then applies cream and tapes (PIP)my big toenails, so when they bleed through being in my chair too long, I don’t end up upsetting others by blood dripping from my feet.
Then it’s a 300kj drink (PIP) and second round of medication. (NHS) By now I’m able to make coffee for myself in my bedroom. I’m dependant on her having filled the kettle, or on the bottles of water kept for if not, and due to a damaged pharyngeal reflex have to be supervised swallowing.
Then she helps me dress, including continence aids (PIP) and applies splints and support aids. (NHS supplemented with PIP) Then gets me into my chair. (NHS) By now I’m beginning to be able to move quite freely for me. That however doesn’t include being able to raise my arms high, reach behind me, or lift up a dead leg, and all of it adds to the pain. But I’m now ready to go out.
Lots of details I haven’t listed as we’d be here all day, but no holidays here, and I don’t have breakfast or eat during the day as I can only manage working by keeping my body empty of all but light fluids while in public. I can’t work every day and have to spend days in bed recovering from days working. (supplemented by PIP) Living in relentless pain and with broken sleep is part and parcel of disabled life. Considering when to end it is also part of it for many.
However, I also do DIY when in good enough shape, though not roofing! I have adapted everything I do to my level of disabilities. I can do many things when in the right state with the right adaptations and adapted tools, (supplemented by PIP) and things laid out for me.(though I pay with extra pain)
But, a few hours earlier and later on I will be entirely helplessly dependent on a (underpaid - DWP) carer (supplemented by PIP) and a direct alarm to fire service for my survival. (LFB & supplemented by PIP)
This is just what I go through in the first part of any morning to go out to work, launderette or shopping. It's taken a long time to get situations together so I can do this, but it still isn't reliable, and is a big chunk of every day alongside the getting to bed routine.
All you’ll see when I get there, is a woman in a wheelchair who could put a ready meal in a microwave if she can reach. (but may not be able to extract it and wouldn’t actually be able to eat it.)
Does that make me a "fully functioning" person getting PIP, in your eyes?