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Too wonder why people shop on temu Shein etc

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HappySunday1 · 20/11/2023 17:32

When we know how bad the environment is how much plastic and stuff ends up in land fill how poor the workers conditions are why are we supporting them. I see so many people doing big hauls of stuff. I know it’s cheap and maybe it’s all people can afford by you buy cheap you buy twice.

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Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 21:08

@Oliotya what's wrong with wanting clothes that are pretty? Isn't that a normal thing to want?
The thing with "affordable" though. Obviously everyone likes a bargain but I don't buy stuff thinking "yay I can buy this nice top for less than a fiver" I buy because I need clothes and I like how it looks. But if it was available in a UK shop for £30 I would buy it from them. But nice clothes that fit just don't exist. I can't buy what doesn't exist.

Sennelier1 · 21/11/2023 21:19

I don't believe the reasoning "some people can only afford the cheap shops", because I see that those buying at shein etc. buy a lót at the same time, like several tops and leggings etc. in one go. It gives the impression of being cheaper, but for that money you could buy one or two good pieces that with good care could last you several seasons. I guess people have their reasons. Personally I'm not after having a zillion of Tshirts, I prefer a few of good quality that fit well, wash well, go with other clothes I have. But if [you] prefer to have a lot of clothes in all colours etc., fine. What makes us happy is different for each of us! Also, I have children and grandchildren and prefer my clothes to be produced childlabour-free. My third reason not to buy at Shein etc. is the fact I don't even remotely like the plastic crap and "novelties" they sell. My house is fine (for me) as it is and I don't feel the need to replace carefully chosen items with stuff I consider tatty. Anyway, I prefer to only replace what's broken ánd unrepairable.

Z1hun · 21/11/2023 21:20

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 21/11/2023 20:23

You are the one who keeps banging on about my dinner set. It is from a UK company btw - however now made in China, which is the point I was trying to get across. You might believe that Made in England is the best - but how much is actually still made there?

You also said "I have no intention of moving from the UK to China". Which is why I stated I don't live there.

Erm OK... you're quite angry. are you OK sweetheart. Did you break a plate.
🙂

PurpleWisteria1 · 21/11/2023 21:20

busymomtoone · 21/11/2023 17:59

I can only assume that the holier than thou OP has never shopped in supermarkets ( mass purchasing drove many a fishmonger, butcher and grocery out of business) ; never purchased on Amazon ( no explanation needed), never buys out if season or overseas produce and checks the label of origin of all her foods and clothing ( even shock horror if it comes from the High Street). I assume she’s also aware that high end ( “ buy once and it lasts seasons”) designer clothing and handbags can also be made in exact same sweat shops she so despises - but presumably having such ginormous concern for the environment she fully researches all this before making any purchase whatsoever. For the mere mortals among us , many people are driven by cost. A £1 umbrella will surely not last even one winter - but if £30 is a weekly budget then it’s not being spent on a sturdy umbrella!! For those saying it’s laziness and check out eBay ( also clothes and products often of unknown origin , and not helping local businesses) or charity shops - please recognise you are in a position of privilege to live near decent charity shops/ have time to browse them. Also they are no longer “ cheap” - my local Oxfam has on several occasions had a price tag above the original sale tag cost!! It’s indisputable that Temu and the like will have an effect on British businesses AND the environment , just as supermarkets and Amazon have had; but presumably the OP also researches and boycotts all the products, places and services currently funded/ supported and run by overseas countries such as China - good luck with that ! The horse has well and truly bolted - UK car industries, steelworks etc have all been decimated, and even many of our food products are now shipped from overseas. Of course it’s not ecologically or environmentally friendly- and if you can make a stand that’s marvellous- but many people are simply too busy in survival mode.

It’s clear from your post that you cannot separate ‘goods made from China’ generally. And Tumu. No one is perfect I’m sure with spinning their own yarn from Uk sheep and making clothes. That’s not what many of us are saying. Temu is a different level altogether. Like trying to compare an the damage of a few soldiers to that of a missile. Do not compare Uk supermarkets and the like with Temu.

ithinkthatmaybeimdreaming · 21/11/2023 21:24

Z1hun · 21/11/2023 21:20

Erm OK... you're quite angry. are you OK sweetheart. Did you break a plate.
🙂

Oh do bore off, you just can't admit that I have caught you out with your superior "I refuse to shop knowingly made in China goods" attitude!

Oliotya · 21/11/2023 21:35

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 21:08

@Oliotya what's wrong with wanting clothes that are pretty? Isn't that a normal thing to want?
The thing with "affordable" though. Obviously everyone likes a bargain but I don't buy stuff thinking "yay I can buy this nice top for less than a fiver" I buy because I need clothes and I like how it looks. But if it was available in a UK shop for £30 I would buy it from them. But nice clothes that fit just don't exist. I can't buy what doesn't exist.

There's nothing wrong with wanting clothes that are pretty. But you don't "need" to buy that particular item. You're choosing pretty over ethical. I personally choose to forgo items that I know are unethically produced and likely full of untested chemicals.

bemusedmoose · 21/11/2023 21:45

Because they sell the stuff you pay a lot for in shops at pretty much cost price!

Dd wanted hair claws in Claires - wasnt paying £10 for 1 hair claw. Found the same one in shop next door for £5. Bargain i thought. Only to find i could get 12 in different colours on shein for £8!

Same with temu - it's pretty much cost price stuff you get in the high street for 3 times the price if not more.

All shops use the same factories and the same sweat shops makes the stuff whether it's nike or next. So unless you only buy locally made, organic, plastic free everything then you are going to be buying plastics and items from places with poor labour laws. Avoiding temu just means you are paying more for the same crap.

To be fair to temu - i have bought from them and it was good quality and cheap. Only one thing turned up that wasnt exactly what they advertised (cute plushie cushion looking big and plump in photos, turned up small and flat and no amount of fluffing will ever make it look like the photo. Is cute though).

I also really cant afford store prices and being savvy i can definitely make the money go further with temu if im careful and dont buy tat.

XenoBitch · 21/11/2023 21:47

I know a few people who shop on Temu, and they are addicted. They are buying tat that they would not normally get... the appeal is that it is cheap.

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 21:53

@Oliotya I rarely buy clothes for myself. I mostly only buy when I do need something. I hate shopping for clothes - because I struggle to find clothes that are a good fit and look nice.
It's actually my 15 year old daughter who is the one who likes Shein.
I agree it's not a perfect place to buy from - but even a "proper UK retail brand" is not perfect either. Whether I buy from Shein or John Lewis I don't really know the actual truth of where the product came from.
I don't know what's actually true or not about these companies. I worked for a now defunct major UK retailer. From a "western modern society" point of view working for them was shit. Definitely not as dreadful as the conditions we are aware of in China - but it was still a miserable existence.
Basically unless we all start wearing government issued jumpsuits we have to make do with what exists.

Chaos86 · 21/11/2023 22:19

It’s cheap, there’s a cost of living crisis. For some people it’s wear the £10 jeans from SHEIN or go naked

39and · 21/11/2023 22:22

Isn't most high street stuff manufactured in china or other counties that have very poor working conditions? Unless you're properly researching where the materials come from and how it's made when you make a purchase it makes no difference.

Oliotya · 21/11/2023 22:24

Chaos86 · 21/11/2023 22:19

It’s cheap, there’s a cost of living crisis. For some people it’s wear the £10 jeans from SHEIN or go naked

No, it really isn't.

Frabbits · 21/11/2023 22:26

Let's be honest here, most purchases from these kinds of places are not not going to be absolute essentials.

Shops like Temu are the symptoms of mindless consumerism at all costs, and it's a pretty depressing reflection of modern society that we are perfectly happy exploiting people halfway across the world to buy some piece of plastic shit that is probably ripped off from someone elses IP that ultimately is only going to end up in landfill.

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 22:37

But why does all this stuff "end up in landfill" ?
Why aren't we (as a country) investing more in recycling methods?

Oliotya · 21/11/2023 22:40

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 22:37

But why does all this stuff "end up in landfill" ?
Why aren't we (as a country) investing more in recycling methods?

It wouldn't end up in landfil or recycling if people stopped buying things they don't need, or things that fall apart. Recycling isn't the solution.

Chickenkeev · 21/11/2023 22:40

DonnaBanana · 21/11/2023 20:06

Because it’s cheap and it’s fun as they keep giving you discounts. I’ll care about the environment when China does, what I order makes perhaps a 0.000000001% difference if that so logically I’m not going to lose at sleep over it. If it is really dangerous and harming people then the government could make it illegal like they did with those nitrous things???

I'm late to the party here but it's not about 'fun'. And .00000 whatever works great when it applies to one person, but it's not just one person buying. Ffs. Cop on. I don't judge, not in a position to, bit it's not a joke for christs sake.

HScully · 21/11/2023 22:56

When you work full time, and after bills have approx £40 per week desposable income you might not be so judgemental

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 23:01

@Oliotya not everything people are buying is stuff they "don't need" 🙄
Items do need to be replaced from time to time. I was cooking today and I noticed my wooden spoon was looking a bit worse for wear. Stained and chipped etc. Can't be totally hygienic when it gets like that but what do I do with a worn out wooden spoon? Wooden items can't go in council recycling. There might be somewhere that wooden objects can be recycled - but where? How would I access that? It will end up in the regular bin and I assume off to landfill.
(By the way...I wouldn't buy a replacement spoon from somewhere like Temu. I would go to a shop like Poundland and get one there - but I imagine they come from the same factories. But Poundland is where they are sold, I can access a branch easily - so that's where I would purchase one)

XenoBitch · 21/11/2023 23:02

Chaos86 · 21/11/2023 22:19

It’s cheap, there’s a cost of living crisis. For some people it’s wear the £10 jeans from SHEIN or go naked

But they are not just buying cheap jeans. They are buying cheap shit they never wanted or needed. They might have bought jeans, but also filled their basket with crap. I keep seeing TEMU ads for a drone with camera type thing. A lady I know has been pulled in... hook, line and sinker, with TEMU. She spends all her time and money on shit from that app. She bought the drone because "it was cheap"....

Diamonde · 21/11/2023 23:03

HScully · 21/11/2023 22:56

When you work full time, and after bills have approx £40 per week desposable income you might not be so judgemental

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I'm basically in minus figures after being paid, still not going to champion Shein

Something tells me people who claim to care when they get more money, or when China cares, still won't care. It's not about how much money you have.

Oliotya · 21/11/2023 23:15

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 23:01

@Oliotya not everything people are buying is stuff they "don't need" 🙄
Items do need to be replaced from time to time. I was cooking today and I noticed my wooden spoon was looking a bit worse for wear. Stained and chipped etc. Can't be totally hygienic when it gets like that but what do I do with a worn out wooden spoon? Wooden items can't go in council recycling. There might be somewhere that wooden objects can be recycled - but where? How would I access that? It will end up in the regular bin and I assume off to landfill.
(By the way...I wouldn't buy a replacement spoon from somewhere like Temu. I would go to a shop like Poundland and get one there - but I imagine they come from the same factories. But Poundland is where they are sold, I can access a branch easily - so that's where I would purchase one)

It's hardly the good quality, thought out purchases of stuff people are actually using that the landfills are full of is it? Be serious.
The answer to the wooden spoon question is compost btw. As a consumer, you become responsible for appropriately disposing of your things at the end of their useful life.

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 23:24

@Oliotya compost how? I live in a flat. I don't have a garden. I know there's some allotments around but I can't get to them easily.

Chaos86 · 21/11/2023 23:28

Urmmm yes it is. You sound severely out of touch. People can’t afford things at the moment. I have a student that couldn’t afford a loaf of bread the other week. You’re lucky you have a choice, shopping ethically is quite often much more expensive.

Your post is essentially shaming people who don’t have the capacity or opportunity to do better. Many people have replied and you’ve just come back with arguments. One would wonder why you asked the question in the first place.

Oliotya · 21/11/2023 23:30

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 23:24

@Oliotya compost how? I live in a flat. I don't have a garden. I know there's some allotments around but I can't get to them easily.

Google it. I can't possibly know what's available in your area.
But people need to stop expecting the council, or the country or even China to mitigate their consumerism. A wooden spoon is the least of issues.

Needmorelego · 21/11/2023 23:32

@Oliotya also I try to be responsible when disposing of things but there's only so much I can do. If public recycling centres are hard to get too or simply don't exist then people have to rely on council run rubbish and recycling services (ie "curb side" pick ups).
I don't have a car so can't get to "the tip' (where a lot of stuff is recycled). Recycling bins in places like car parks have been removed all over the country because people were mis-using them. Clothes I take the the charity shop - either for resale or rag recycling. Luckily there is a couple of charity shops 5 minutes walk up the road from where I live - but not everyone can get to them.
As a country we need better run methods of being able to recycle. At the moment the whole system is very very poor.

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